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Thomas Gulotta Obituary

GULOTTA - Thomas S. on August 4, 2019 of North Merrick, NY. Loving husband of Elizabeth A. (nee Fryatt), married in 1970. Beloved father of Christopher A., fiance, Lori Olson, Elizabeth M.husband, Jason Amendolare, and the late Thomas J. Cherished grandfather of Mia, Jayden and Aviana Amendolare. Also survived by his brother, The Honorable Frank A. Gulotta, his sister, Franca Rizzo and many loving nieces and nephews. Thomas was a graduate of Malverne H.S. in 1962, Trinity College in 1966 and Columbia Law School in 1969. Among his many accomplishments he served as New York State Assemblyman from 1977 to 1981, Presiding Supervisor for the Town of Hempstead from 1981 to 1987 and then as Nassau County Executive from 1987 to 2001. He founded Executive Strategies, a consulting firm, and was currently serving as Special Council at Albanese & Albanese, LLP in Garden City, NY. He was an outstanding member of the community and enjoyed his activities with so many civic organizations. Visiting at N.F. Walker, Inc. Funeral Home, 2039 Merrick Ave., Merrick on Wednesday and Thursday August 7th and 8th from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9PM. Funeral Mass at Sacred Heart R.C. Church, 720 North Merrick Ave., North Merrick Friday August 9th, 2019 at 10AM. Burial at the Cemetery of The Holy Rood, Westbury, NY. www.nfwalkerfh.com

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 6, 2019.

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John oconner

July 31, 2023

A great politician and a great man as well. Rip Tom

Scott r

July 31, 2021

A great man on so many levels. He was the best politician and wish he was alive today to enjoy life n family.

Dennis DuCasse

July 31, 2020

Still can’t believe your gone. Almost a year already. Miss our talks on the phone, especially the last year you were with us, and all the memories of the 40 plus years of being a friend. May the Lord continue to to give comfort to your family until that day when you are all united.

Scott r

June 1, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Scott r

June 1, 2020

I thought the world of him. Very sad to hear of his passing.

Linda Guggino

August 24, 2019

I was so sorry to learn of the passing of Tom Gulotta. He served the people of Nassau County in so many ways: as a NYS Assemblyman, Presiding Supervisor, and County Executive. I had graduated from with a B.S. from Hofstra in 1975, and my M.A. in 1983. I remember when he had been elected as our County Executive. I'm sure I met him on a few occasions in my hometown of Mineola. I always thought he did a great job and showed interest in the people of communities he served. He was also a true gentleman in every way- we will miss his friendliness and concern that he showed for residents in this area. R.I.P.Tom.

mary tripp

August 13, 2019

Mr. Gulotta was a county executive that would listen to the people, he was a great advocate for Nassau County and Child Support Enforcement, thank you Mr Gulotta, you will be missed

Ronni Warren Ashcroft

August 11, 2019

Maybe one way to notice someone destined for office, is that they wear suits
in high school. i can not at this moment tell you that Tommy actually wore suits,
but i remember him that way. AND he is incredibly nice to people, which means
high school kids, which means that's hard work. He was ALWAYS so nice to
me, and for some reason laughed (hard) at my jokes. I would like to believe
that he wasn't a Trump supporter, but what I do know is that it's sad to see a
guy who is eternally 16 years old, die.

Joan Swirsky

August 9, 2019

To the family of Tom Gulotta:

I got to know Tom Gulotta during the 1980s and 1990s when he was County Executive of Nassau County. At that time, I was writing dozens of articles about the high incidence of breast cancer on Long Island for both The Women's Record and The New York Times.

Long before other politicians woke up to the seriousness of this epidemic, Tom was responsive from Day One. He was the first elected official in the country to institute free mammographic screenings (in a roving van) for every woman in the countyan initiative which no doubt saved untold numbers of lives.

He was also a gentlemana term that is now anachronistic and a quality that is sorely missed.

Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of this extraordinary man.

Sincerely yours,

Joan Swirsky
Great Neck, NY

This is how Tom lived

Linda Toscano

August 9, 2019

Tom and Betsy have done so much to make this world a better place, for the environment, for the poor, for future generations. Many of these works were chronicled in Merrick Life and its sister publications.

Alice BARR

August 9, 2019

As a Democrat, I had occassion to work with former County Executive Gulotta, while I worked for the NY State Assembly, from 1992 through 1996. He was so funny, likeable and yes easy on the eyes. I pranked him at an event we both attended at the African American Museum once. I called his name as I was presenting a poetry piece. The look on his face of oh boy, what is she going to say, was so funny. Of course I did it for that effect. I truly liked him as he was so personable. May God continue to bless and keep this family. If I could have, I would have come to celebrate his life with you.

Michele Spierto

August 8, 2019

Truly an icon of a gentleman who received the public with warmth and caring. You have been missed since you left the seat as County Executive. You will never be forgotten.

Irving Singet

August 8, 2019

To Betsy, I met Tom I the Long Island book center . Ben Gottlieb was a personal friend. He stated that Tom was to get the leather books for his collection. His love was expressed to the citizens of Na. ssau County by leaving a desire of parks and culture, and library system for the. Future.i thank him for this gift which is permanent. His. Friend,Irving Singer

Isidore Shapiro

August 8, 2019

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Tom. I was a proud member of his first cabinet . Tom was a gifted and caring legislator whose outreach to each sector of our county reflected his caring and integrity.

Marty and Joann Sinco

August 8, 2019

You will be surely missed. Thank you for all the good you did for Nassau County and the Sinco family. May you Rest In Peace until we meet again my friend ❤

Lewis Kasman

August 7, 2019

TOM AND I DELIVERED THE EULOGY
on behalf of former Nassau Exec RALPH G. CASO..... A great honor..... Go in peace!

Lewis Kasman

August 7, 2019

Ironic, Tom And I (LEWIS KASMAN) delivered the eulogy for former Nassau County Executive RALPH. CASO. What a honor......

LEWIS KASMAN & FAMILY

August 7, 2019

RIP GRACE M. CASO

Grace Caso

August 7, 2019

RIP in PEACE MY FRIEND TOM. RALPH G. CASO and his family Loved you. You were always there for them.... You were a good man.. Honor and dignity.

Love, GRACE m. CASO & Family

Lewis Kasman

August 7, 2019

Rip in Peace TG --- You were a special guy --- real man. All your kids loved Sprats!
Your Friend,
LEWIS KASMAN

DENNIS DUCASSE

August 7, 2019

TOM,SO GLAD WE RECONNECTED THE LAST 6 MONTHS...IT WAS GREAT SHARING OLD MEMORIES AND LIFE IN GENERAL..YOU ARE GOING TO BE SORLEY MISSED..GO TO YOUR REWARD ON GOLDEN WINGS AND MAY THE LORD SAY 'WELL DONE'.....

Comfort Planter

Joann Sinco

Sent Flowers

William Finck

August 7, 2019

Tom was a good friend to me and my family. He will be missed

marian jacobs

August 7, 2019

Rest in peace Mr. Tom Gulotta -A truly nice man. you will be missed.

marian jacobs

August 7, 2019

Rest in peace Tom Gulotta-A truly nice man.

God Bless America

Michael Napoli

August 6, 2019

With fond memories of Mr. Gulotta.
https://youtu.be/hojAhQHmQMM

Annmarie Pasquarelli-Blanc

August 6, 2019

We are very saddened to hear about the death of Mr. Gulotta. I met him years ago & when there was a parade we had many car bumpers stickers with his name calling Mr. Gulotta. Mr. Gulotta bowed his head with a smile & said thank you. He was a great person & the best County Executive ever. You will be missed. R.I.P. my friend.

GREGORY WYNNE

August 6, 2019

Tom and I met in the mid-70s when he decided to run for a seat on the upcoming County Legislature. He won but the county legislature proposal was defeated. In essence, he won nothing. But he went on the next year to win a seat in the State Legislature. Those were the days. My assignment was to prepare a press release a week for the papers. Joined his staff when he became Hempstead Town Supervisor, then Nassau County Executive. He rarely took a day off plus all the night stops. If there was a birthday party expect Tom to stop by. It was hard to keep up with him . I retired in 1995. One of our many funny stories. Driving him up to Albany one night I asked if we made a wrong turn somewhere. With a straight face and calm voice he said: "Not unless they moved that town we just passed to the other side of the Thruway." While others would really get upset, Tom just laughed and laughed at my attempt to head north again. REST IN PEACE TOM.

Bill Torio

August 6, 2019

I have many fond memories of Tom and his family through my employment at NUMC during his time as County Executive. Worked with him to substantially increase pay for nursing staff at the Hospital and A Holly Patterson Home. His heart and soul was being a good politician for the people he served. I offer my condolences to his wife Betsy and the entire Gulotta Family. May he R.I.P.

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