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Thomas William Sneddon Jr.

Thomas William Sneddon Jr. obituary, Santa Barbara, CA

Thomas Sneddon Obituary

Thomas William Sneddon, Jr., a prominent Santa Barbara District Attorney and activist, died of cancer on Saturday, November first, at Cottage Hospital in Santa Barbara.

He is survived by his wife of forty-seven years, Pamela Sneddon, and his nine children, Matthew Sneddon and wife Julie Severson, Stephanie Sneddon and husband Steve Hanson, Christopher Sneddon and wife Kristen, Margaret Sneddon Cosio and husband Tabin, Timothy Sneddon and wife Crissy Alesii, Daniel Sneddon, Andrew Sneddon, Russell Sneddon, Katherine Sneddon Meding and husband Trevor, fourteen grandchildren, his brother Michael Sneddon, and many nieces and nephews as well as extended family members who loved him.

Born in Southgate, California on May 26, 1941 to Leona and Thomas W. Sneddon, he grew up in nearby Lynwood where his parents owned a bakery. He served his country during the Vietnam War, and was the first of his family to graduate from college, receiving degrees from the University of Notre Dame and UC Los Angeles Law School. He furthered his education by completing courses with the National District Attorneys'Association and at the John F. Kennedy School of Government at Harvard University.

Tom had a heart for social justice, evidenced in his public and personal life. In 1982 Tom ran for and won the position of District Attorney for Santa Barbara County, an office he held until retirement in 2006. He was one of the longest-tenured District Attorneys in California, serving six consecutive terms, and had a wide-ranging effect on justice in Santa Barbara and beyond. He loved his work which he said was mainly because he had the "greatest group of people to work with in the world."A fierce competitor in the courtroom, he won nearly all his hundreds of cases with a mix of preparation and quick thinking. He was deeply compassionate toward victims, and fundamentally changed how victims were treated during the judicial process, initiating new programs and protocols to lessen their trauma. Upon his retirement, he received honors from many sources including the President of The United States, the Governor of California, and locally from the Santa Barbara County Board of Supervisors who stated that he dedicated "energy and enthusiasm to a broad array of public protection measures that have improved the quality of life for citizens countywide."

When Tom took the job with the Santa Barbara District Attorney's office, the only thing he knew of Santa Barbara was Sterns Wharf. But that didn't last long. Tom cared about justice and also about those who were impacted by poverty and crime. Tom quickly expanded his role in the community, joining the Jaycees almost upon arrival. During the next decades, he became active with the Council on Alcoholism and Drug Abuse, the Court Appointed Special Advocate for Children program, a variety of women's shelter services, the Rape Crisis Center, Santa Barbara Zoo, and many other agencies and organizations. In typical fashion, he did not just go to meetings, but really participated, which even took him to the Arctic when at age 59, Tom was part of the "Summit for Danny," a strenuous hike to a peak on Baffin Island to raise funds to establish the Daniel Bryant Youth and Family Treatment Center, a local substance abuse treatment center for teens. Tom taught at the College of Law, Santa Barbara, the National District Attorneys Association and the California District Attorneys Association. He was a past president of both.

Tom was devoted to his family who all loved his straightforward and genuine personality, a "what-you-see-is what-you get" kind of person. Integrity was all-important to him, and he would often advise his children to "Do the right thing for the right reasons and let the chips fall where they may." He provided a family structure that enabled his children to thrive. When he worked, he worked hard, but then it was family time. He was home for dinner and weekends unless he was in the final phases of a difficult trial, or the Notre Dame football team was playing. His family remembers the many get-togethers, often with extended family which featured skiing, touch football games, volleyball, and basketball, where many a son or daughter learned the painful lesson of keeping out of range of his flying elbows.

A member of Mt. Carmel parish, Tom's faith undergirded all he did. And he put it into practical action with his characteristic vigor, from boxing in the annual Bengal Bouts while at the University of Notre Dame, which raised money for mission work in India, to playing football in Bulgaria at age 51 with a Christian outreach group. A quote from Mother Teresa that he kept on his desk reads: "Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; give the world the best you have anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway."

Sports were a large part of who Tom was. Perhaps the best word to describe his leadership style in all aspects of his life was that of "Coach." He was literally a coach to hundreds of local Santa Barbara boys through the Youth Football League, in which he coached teams for more than a decade. He saw sports as an effective way to help at-risk youth. Around town he was often warmly greeted by young men he'd coached decades earlier. At work and at play, Tom expected the best from himself and was able to inspire others to strive for their best, as evidenced by comments from those who had worked with him. One colleague said: "That was Tom, he could [ask] someone to go to hell and make them look forward to the trip." A lifelong athlete himself, Tom played in the Babe Ruth World Series at age fifteen. With his retirement from the District Attorney's office in 2006, golf and Senior Softball became a big part of his life. His softball team won the World Senior Softball Championship in 2002, and he played and managed teams up until shortly before his death.

Another lifelong passion of Tom's was history. He often quoted one of his favorite heroes, Winston Churchill, whose words encapsulate Tom's approach to life's challenges: "Never give in?never, never, in nothing great or small, large or petty, never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense".

In all his career and activities, he made and kept great friends?friends from high school, college, law school, law enforcement, community organizations, Senior Softball, El Pescatore Club, the Cosmopolitan Club, and many others who were dear to him. It would be impossible to list them all.

He loved his family, his work, his friends, and his community. He will be missed.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Tom's favorite charities which include CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates), CADA, (Council on Alcoholism and Drug Abuse), and the United Boys and Girls Clubs of Santa Barbara County.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Santa Barbara News-Press from Nov. 9 to Nov. 13, 2014.

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Barbara Haulbosky

November 14, 2014

Dear Pam and family, I had the pleasure of working under Tom from 1990 to 2000. I was so proud to be a member of his team and had the utmost respect for him. I will miss him dearly. May God give you peace and comfort in your time of loss.

Brenda Meding

November 9, 2014

To the entire Sneddon family we send our sympathies and our love. Know that we are thinking of you all .... but especially of our daughter in law Katie in the loss of her father. We love you Katie.

Michele Soria

November 9, 2014

Tom was a dear friend of my father's. They had a true friendship and deep respect for each other in the many facets of their lives. Tom was a great man, just like my father. Tom's legacy is grand and the greatest honor we can bestow upon him is to live on through his example. He was a man who commanded respect just by his very presence in a room, and without he even realizing it. He was loved dearly by all who knew him. I send my sincere love, comfort and blessings to his family at this very difficult time.

OB Thomas

November 9, 2014

Tom was a good friend and mentor for many of us. His contributions to the community will live on in his memory.

OB Thomas
SBSO Ret.

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