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Antoinette Bivona
July 14, 2019
Hi uncle Ralph
We miss you so much. Think about you all the time.
The Bivona family
August 19, 2015
Uncle Ralph
I know you are in a better place, but I still miss you. As promised, I will always look out for Vicky and titi Davin.
Annette
Vicky
August 4, 2015
Miss you Daddy.
You are now healed, happy,and rejoicing in Heaven. I know you will continue to watch over us.
July 28, 2015
My dear father-in-law who was like a father to me. I will always remember how he made us laugh. The love he showed for his children and grandchildren and even the great grandchildren. He was a people's person. He would not tell you to do something but would show you how to do it. We had many conversations. joking ones and serious ones. His last words will forever stay with me. There is an empty space in my heart because of his loss. I know that I will see him again.
Miss you dearly,
Edith E. Roman
Maria Wrner
July 27, 2015
Our condolences to the Melendez family on the loss of Rafael. He was a wonderful person and we treasure the times we spent with him and Ana eating dinner and playing bingo at their home. He was so kind and thoughtful with a smile and a kind word for everyone he met. We will treasure the many happy memories. He will be deeply missed. May you find comfort in knowing that he is resting in God's eternal light.
Marie, Al Warner and Allen, Jr.

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July 23, 2015
My home city New Haven, Connecticut and neighborhood-The Friendship-lost one of it's legends recently. We loss Mr. Rafael Melendez, who was the first latino to take and pass the written exam for the New Haven Police Department. They denied him that position because he was 5' 9" and the minimum was 5' 10". However, his son and my childhood friend became a police officer and rose to the rank of assistant chief of NHPD, and his grandson is currently a Yale University police officer.
His son, Ariel Sr. and I, were the only two from the old neighborhood to become police officers, and we did not forget where we came from to be community police officers because of Rafael Sr.
Mr. Melendez was one of the many fathers we had in our neighborhood coop called Friendship, and families we were two of the original families to live there.
My condolences to the Melendez family, their relatives and friends.
RIP Mr. Melendez!!!
July 23, 2015
Mi mas sentido pesame a la familia Melendez.
Que descanse en paz. El Dios todopoderoso dara Fortaleza y su paz. Amen!
Genovea Palmieri
July 23, 2015
Mi mas sentido pesame, espero les quede la safisfaccion que el fue una persona muy especial y que trajo cosas buenas para mucha gentey la comunidad.
Cory Cousino & Family
July 23, 2015
Sending on many thoughts and prayers to your family at this time. So sorry for your loss.
Donna Frandy
July 22, 2015
Maria, Rolando and Ann. So sorry to hear of your Dad. What a great life full of accomplishments. Thinking of all of you.
ray ortiz
July 22, 2015
Rip.....
July 22, 2015
My sympathy and condolences to the family, I only met Dad when I worked at the hospital and he was always so pleasant and had a wonderful smile,even when I seen him just a few weeks ago he still had a smile along side his daughter. Sorry for your loss. Janine
ramona bivona
July 22, 2015
We will always miss you. No words can say how much we will miss you.
Thanks for all the donuts. We will always love you.
Robert Meyerholz
July 21, 2015
May God bless Rafael. He was a gentleman always. My deepest condolences to Rafaels family.
July 21, 2015
Mr. Melendez and his family opened many doors leading to the transformation of many lives. We celebrate his life of servant leadership and continue the spirit of his work in our respective communities. Abrazos Mrs Melendez, Vicky y familia.
Lorraine e hijos (Ken, Cadia y Lina) Ohio.
Antoinette Bivona
July 21, 2015
My uncle Ralph
I will miss you always. Remember the times we met at dunkin donuts?
I hope there is a dunkin donuts up in heaven. I still go to the one on State St. but you are not there. You will always be in my heart. By the time I get to heaven I will be shaped like a donut. Love from your niece Annette
Rolando Melendez
July 21, 2015
My Dad was the most giving and loving father anyone could ever ask for. To me he wasn't just my Dad, he was my mentor, my teacher, my adviser, my hero and my best friend. I'm sure gonna miss you Pop .Till we meet again. Love You Always.
John and Joanne Cicarella
July 21, 2015
Our sincere sympathy to your family. Your memories will forever remain in your hearts.
July 21, 2015
My prayers are with the family. Your father was a good man and I will always remember the times and talks I had with him.
Linda McLaughlin
Hector Cardona
July 21, 2015
Rafael was a very loving and caring person. I had the honor of knowing him. He is now resting in peace and suffering no more. My condolences to the Melendez family.
July 21, 2015
Melendez family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May he rest in peace and may God comfort your hearts.
Lucy Melendez
July 21, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. Melendez always had a warm smile and such a friendly way with me and my family. His accomplishments of many will be remembered by all his family. My his light always shine upon his loved ones.
Holly DeMartino
Bessie Locke
July 21, 2015
Wonderful legacy. I can see where his family is following in his footsteps in community service. God Bless
July 21, 2015
Very sorry for your loss.
george kammerer
July 21, 2015
Our condolences to his family.Always had a warm hello whenever i saw him.A true gentleman who will be surely missed.R.I.P Mr.Melendez.
Joanne Scafati
July 21, 2015
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. My condolences to his family. Mr. Melendez was a wonderful and devoted person.
Adelaida (Ady) Laguer
July 21, 2015
My dear Uncle! You were a beautiful man who always made us smile! We loved coming from Brooklyn and going to your house for the weekend! We had a lot of fun! My love and prayers to my cousins! I love you all!
ray ortiz .
July 21, 2015
We all loved you...

Mi Querido Abuelo... My loving Grandfather. Save me some ice cream up there! You will be missed <3
Rosa M. Melendez-Roman
July 20, 2015
Rosemary Brezicki
July 20, 2015
Wow! What amazing accomplishments that Rafael had in his life time! I never knew how involved he was in so many worthy causes. To me he was just a sweet man. We were part of his extended family and he was always so pleasant to be around and talk to at gatherings. What a full life he led. You should be so proud of him. He is in our thoughts and prayers as he makes his next journey.
Judith martinez
July 20, 2015
siempre te recordare, hermano querido.
Elaine and Bob Bessinger
July 20, 2015
So very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have wonderful memories of him . Elaine and Bob Bessinger
Csrol Graham
July 20, 2015
So sorry for your losd
Noni and John Cappiello
July 20, 2015
Rolo, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this tough time. With our deepest sympathy.
John and Noni
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