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Kathryn E. "Kathy" Toensmeier

1952 - 2020

Kathryn E. "Kathy" Toensmeier obituary, 1952-2020, Middletown, CT

BORN

1952

DIED

2020

Kathryn Toensmeier Obituary

Toensmeier, Kathryn E.
Kathryn E. (Kathy) Toensmeier passed away on Wednesday, October 7 after an extended illness. Kathy was born December 7, 1952 in Baltimore, MD, the daughter of the late Kathryn Lynch and Patrick Toensmeier, Sr. She is survived by her daughter, Amelia Ewan (Dave) and two grandchildren, Bronn and Calliope. She is also survived by her brother Patrick Toensmeier, Jr. of Hamden, her sister, Betsy Toensmeier and niece Lauren Havens both of Albuquerque, NM; her aunt, Nancy Maar, cousins Barbara Dooling (Pat); Kathy Zuppe (Bob) and Bill Lynch (Barbara) and their families. She also leaves her BFF, Holly Holt, and many other friends. Kathy graduated from Day Prospect Hill School and Katharine Gibbs School in New York, NY. She worked as an administrative assistant for many years until retiring from Yale University after 25 years. Kathy enjoyed reading, crossword puzzles, music, watching an "ungodly" amount of TV, going to the casino and traveling. She preferred to drive everywhere, often incurring the wrath of co-travelers, simply wanting to "see America first." She often said that she would travel to Europe more—they just have to complete a bridge from here to there. She loved photography, a hobby that began when she was twelve, and could always be found with some sort of camera, photographing everything and everyone. Finally, Kathy loved animals, especially canine furbabies. Should anyone wish, charitable contributions may be made to the CT Humane Society or any dog rescue fund. Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, October 13, 2020, from 4:00 –6:00 p.m. at Keenan Funeral Home, 330 Notch Hill Rd., North Branford, CT 06471. A graveside service will be held on Wednesday, October 14, at 11:00 a.m. at Centerville Cemetery, Hamden, CT. For online condolences or directions, please visit:
www.keenanfuneralhome.com

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Published by The New Haven Register on Oct. 9, 2020.

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Patti Clark Nietsch, DPH '71

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I'm so sorry to hear about my DPH classmate, Kathy. She was always a smiling face at our reunions which were few and far between. She must have been just as joyful about her daughter and grandchildren and her furry friends. My deepest condolences to her entire family.

Patti Clark Nietsch '71

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4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Keenan Funeral Home

330 Notch Hill Rd., North Branford, CT

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14

Graveside service

11:00 a.m.

Centerville Cemetery

Hamden, CT

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