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Shirley Sutherland Obituary

Sutherland, Shirley Mae (O'Brien)
Shirley Mae O'Brien Sutherland, 96, wife of the late Arthur R. Sutherland, passed away peacefully with family by her side on April 16, 2019. She was born in Hamden January 20, 1923, a daughter of the late Emmett and Alice Charman O'Brien, and resided in Hamden for most of her life. She served in the U.S. Navy from 1943-1946 and proudly marched in FDR's funeral. Shirley graduated from UCONN with a B.S. Degree in Foods & Nutrition and was awarded her M.A. Degree in Education from SCSU in 1972. She was a substitute teacher in Hamden Public Schools, a member of Grace & St. Peter's Episcopal Church, where she taught Sunday School, a Girl Scout Leader, and a volunteer at the Dunbar Church Apple Festival.
Loving mother of Wendy Arcano of FL and Joy (Karl) Wildman of Hamden, sister of Emmett O'Brien, Jr. of Raleigh, NC, grandmother of Sean (Korinne), Brooke (Paul), Rick (Deanne), Kelsea, Alexa, and Reagan, great-grandmother of Jake, Matthew, Brock, Grace, and Cody, and aunt of many loving nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a daughter, Dawn S. Leary, sisters, Jessie McChesney and Virginia O'Brien, and a son-in-law, Richard Arcano.
Friends are invited to visit with her family Saturday, April 27 at BEECHER & BENNETT, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden from 2 to 4 p.m. followed by a prayer service and presentation of Naval Military Honors at 4 p.m.Contributions in her memory may be sent to the Hamden Food Bank, c/o Dept. of Community Service, 11 Pine St., Hamden, CT 06514. For information or to send a condolence, please see obituary at:
www.beecherandbennett.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Apr. 23, 2019.

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Paul/Pauline Desroches

April 27, 2019

Joy and family.Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this time

William DePonte

April 26, 2019

Thoughts and prayers to a wonderful and loving family.

Robert Mark

April 26, 2019

To Joy, Karl and the Family & Friends of Shirley

You have my sincere condolences on the passing of Shirley. I'm sure she will be missed in this life. May the memories of happy times shared ease your sorrow, bring you Peace and help you heal. May she remain in your hearts until you meet again. Love is forever!

Rejoice for she is surrounded by Love and Light in a place where sorrow cannot follow!

With deepest sympathy,
Bob Mark

Ellen & Peter Freiler

April 23, 2019

So sorry for your loss, Joy and Karl. Peace to the family.

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