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Anita Theresa Carlin

1959 - 2019

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1959

DIED

2019

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Vander Plaat Memorial Home

113 South Farview Avenue

Paramus, New Jersey

Anita Carlin Obituary

Anita Theresa Carlin

Paramus - Anita Theresa Carlin (nee Scocozzo), aged 60, passed away on August 9th, 2019 after valiantly fighting cancer with her trademark positive attitude and million-watt smile for 2 and a half years. Anita was born March 26, 1959, in Paramus, NJ, the daughter of Nicholas Scocozzo and Rose Scocozzo.

In 1983, Anita married the love of her life, Patrick Carlin. Anita and Patrick were the ultimate soulmates- you rarely saw one without the other. Together they traveled the world and spent more time together in their 38 years as a couple than most could hope to spend in a lifetime.

Anita was a 36+ year "IBMer" and found some of her closest friends (turned family) at work. She was a mentor and confidant to countless colleagues who came to her for advice on everything from their careers to their parenting.

Anita lived for time spent with her treasured daughters Crystal and her wife Mindy. Anita was a mother that gave everything of herself no matter what the circumstance to ensure that her children were happy.

Anita is also survived by her siblings Christopher Scocozzo, his wife Francine and his daughter Marisa, Robert Scocozzo and his sons Robert and Jeffrey and countless other friends and family members who she treasured.

Family will receive friends on Tuesday, August 13, 2019 from 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm & 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm at the Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 113 South Farview Avenue, Paramus, NJ. Family and friends are asked to gather at 10:00 am on Wednesday, August 14, 2019 at Annunciation R.C. Church, 50 W Midland Ave, Paramus for a Funeral Mass. Private Cremation.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Brave Like Gabe Foundation: bravelikegabe.org ("Support rare cancer research and empower all cancer survivors through physical activity.")

To leave an online condolence or for further information visit www.vanderplaat.com

Published by The Record/Herald News on Aug. 11, 2019.
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Always a smile on her face!! So sorry to hear this news. May you RIP and may your memory live on to make others smile! My deepest condolences Pat and Crystal. She was a special woman!!

Betty Shvetz

August 19, 2019

A truly sweet lady who always smiled....RIP dear lady

Laura Terrace

Coworker

August 14, 2019

My sincere condolences..I will always remember Anita's smiling face .. we worked on the same floor many years and I don't think there was a day she didn't smile....RIP sweet lady

Laura Terrace

August 14, 2019

Pat, I just heard the sad news today. Please accept my deepest condolences.

David Cariani

August 14, 2019

Dear Patrick Crystal Mindy Robert and Christopher ,
My deepest condolences. I remember Anita always smiling with an incredible positive attitude. She had endless energy and willing to help anyone. I have great memories of our younger days. Sending prayers to all of you.

Marie Battaglia ( Ferraro)

August 14, 2019

Pat, my deepest heartfelt condolences to you and your whole family. Anita was an incredibly special person, so caring and compassionate. She will be missed dearly. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gary Beyer

August 14, 2019

Pat and Crystal,

Anita was a very special person. I worked with her at IBM. She was friend, mentor and coach. She was one of the kindest professionals I have ever worked with. She touched many people with her bright smile and gentle manner. She was so supportive and always willing to help. She will be missed dearly. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Geri Atwood

August 13, 2019

Pat, my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Jane (Quinn) Murphy

August 13, 2019

a loved one

August 13, 2019

Pat, My sincerest condolences on the loss of your wife of many years. I had the privilege of meeting Anita when you first joined Summit at an Orientation reception that you visited. Such a vibrant partner and you both made a loving couple. If there is anything I can do for you during this time, please don't hesitate to ask.
Rich Turner

Richard Turner

August 13, 2019

Pat, I am deeply saddened to learn of Anita's passing. You and your family have my condolences.
Genevieve Malone

genevieve malone

August 12, 2019

I saw a rare, one of a kind, gentle, thoughtful IBM executive leader in you Anita. It's your unique trademark. Glad to have worked with you. You will be so missed and remembered - always.

Effron Esseiva

August 12, 2019

Anita is a gem that still lives on in the hearts of the many she impacted. Sharon Coleman/IBM

Sharon Coleman

August 12, 2019

Our condolences to Pat and Crystal.

Dominick/Marion Truglio

August 11, 2019

Robert Kurz

August 11, 2019

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13

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7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

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113 South Farview Avenue, Paramus, NJ 07652

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50 W Midland Ave, Paramus, NJ

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