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SHEILA PLATT Obituary

PLATT--Sheila M., On May 15 Sheila Maynard Platt, of New York, NY, died peacefully, at her home in Manhattan, at the age of 81. The cause of death was heart failure, brought on by the auto immune disease, scleroderma, which she endured with dignity and a bright, resolute spirit, for many years. Sheila was a child of New York City, and died only a few blocks from where she was born, on August 1, 1936, at Doctors' Hospital, the only daughter of Eileen Burden and Walter Maynard, an investment banker, and a former governor of the New York Stock Exchange. She could have chosen an easy and predictable existence in the old neighborhood, but instead packed her life with adventure, discovery and risk, traveling widely to postings around the world with her devoted diplomat husband, Nicholas Platt. In Taiwan, during the early nineteen sixties, she shared a cup of tea with Generalissimo and Madame Chiang Kai Shek, and learned to speak fluent Mandarin, a language which she kept up for the rest of her life. Living in Hong Kong, during the tumultuous years of the Chairman Mao's Cultural Revolution, she began her long and distinguished career in the field of crisis management and psychiatric social work as a volunteer caseworker helping to process the floods of refugees who were coming across the border from China. For the rest of her long life, in addition to raising three large, loving, and sometimes unruly sons, and ministering to her expanding brood of devoted grandchildren, Sheila continued to work on behalf of the suffering and the less fortunate -- placing Korean orphans with adoptive parents during her time in Tokyo, serving as a mental health advisor to the University Health Clinic of Zambia, and the US embassy in Manila, when her husband was posted as the US ambassador to both countries. Later, in New York, she authored a series of ground breaking manuals and workshops for staff members on crisis management and post traumatic stress, which are still in use at the United Nations, UNICEF and the United Nations High Commission for Refugees. The manuals drew on personal experience with embattled caregivers at refugee camps in Hong Kong, the Philippines, the Afghan border and Bosnia. Sheila was a loyal and proud alumna of the Brearley School, in New York City, Miss Porter's School, in Farmington, Connecticut, and Radcliffe College, where she studied for three years, before making the brash decision to marry her husband, and set sail around the world. She would later earn a bachelor of arts degree from Trinity University, in Washington DC, in 1971, and a Masters Degree in Social Work from The Catholic University School of Social Work, in 1973. Sheila gave her time to many causes and institutions throughout her life, including the Austen Riggs Center, in Stockbridge, Massachusetts, where she was a board member for many years, and Community and Family Services International, in Manila, a relief organization which she helped to found, and would serve for many years, as a board member and patron. She was also a board member of Scenic Hudson, and a member of the Council of Foreign Relations, in New York City. She is survived by her husband of 61 years, Nicholas Platt, her sons, Adam, Oliver, and Nicholas Jr., all of New York City, her daughters-in-law, Kate Platt, Camilla Campbell, and Robyn Watts, her gaggle of grandchildren, Lily, George, Clare, Noah, Henry, Nico, Jane, Penelope, and her two brothers, John Maynard and Walter Maynard Jr, of Groton, MA and New York City. There will be a memorial service for Sheila at the Brick Presbyterian Church, at 1140 Park Avenue on June 1st, at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, please direct your generosity to the Sheila and Nicholas Platt Endowment for Public Policy Programs at the Asia Society, 725 Park Ave. NY, NY 10021.

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Published by New York Times on May 23, 2018.

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Marie Norielle Matacot

January 7, 2025

My dad used to work at the embassy residence during ambassador platt´s term here in the philippines. I have fond memories with her when i was a kid. Sending our deepest condolences to the entire platt family

Suzanne Ben Aida

June 25, 2018

I learned of Sheila's death today. I have such fond memories of serving with her and Ambassador Platt when we all were in Zambia. I, too, remember the Marine Corps Ball at the Residence tennis court fondly. I send my most heartfelt condolences to the entire Platt family.

Jeannette sanger

June 7, 2018

I enjoyed getting to know Sheila through our North Haven Book Club.She added a lot to our book discussions with her keen intelligence-humor and wisdom.She was so modest I wasn't aware of all the amazing things she did in her life.She will be missed in North Haven!

Sidney and Susan Rene Nance

June 4, 2018

We remember Shelia as a wonderful person from our days together in Lusaka, Zambia. Our memories of her hosting the Marine Corps Ball on the U.S. Embassy Residence tennis courts in the mid 1980's are fresh as if it happened yesterday. Our 3 kids still talk about the delightful Easter party at the Residence that she hosted. We offer our prayers to the family and our deepest condolences. May Shelia Rest In Peace.

June 4, 2018

I have very fond memories of working with Sheila in Manila. God speed to an extraordinary woman. Joanie Mauger

May 23, 2018

May Almighty God and his son Jesus Christ bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. John 17:3

Jill de Villa

May 22, 2018

Deepest condolences to Nick and the Platt family.
Shiela was an amazing woman, able to multi-role as a supreme ambassadors wife, counselor, and supporter of many excellent organizations helping mankind. Unassuming, highly intelligent, caring. The earth needs so many more of her kind.
Jill Gale de Villa

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May 18, 2018

Please accept my warmest condolence to the Platt Family. Your loss of Sheila is great. Friends will give you moral support. I pray that God will comfort, soothe your pain and guide you through the future. Job 33:30

Frederick Ahearn

May 17, 2018

Dear Nick and Family,

I extend my deepest condolences and prayers to you and the family upon your loss. Those of us at Catholic University School of Social Service will always remember Sheila's dedication and efforts for peace in Mindanao, Philippines.With much love,

Frederick Ahearn

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