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WILDER--Charles W. Charles W. Wilder of Brooklyn, NY passed away peacefully in his sleep on his 91st birthday, January 27, 2020, after a delightful family gathering the prior Saturday. He was an eternal optimist, Good Samaritan, music lover, enthusiastic storyteller with a perpetual smile, wonderful sense of humor, and love of life. He was born in Newton, MA at the same hospital as all three of his grandchildren, Alexander, Jack, and his namesake Charlie. After a happy childhood in Brunswick, ME, he graduated from Andover and Bowdoin College. After starting an MA in English at Columbia, he proudly served as a communications officer on the Navy's U.S.S. Hunt, graduated from Columbia Law School, was an Associate at White & Case, clerked for Judge Leonard P. Moore in the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Second Circuit, was counsel at General Electric where he was honored for his work on GE's Progressland Exhibit at the New York World's Fair in 1964-1965, was counsel at Texasgulf which was subsequently acquired by Elf Aquitaine. He was an intrepid world traveller, including touring with the Brooklyn Botanic Garden and the Smithsonian. He was an enthusiastic founding member of the Grace Choral Society of Brooklyn. He is survived by his beloved wife of 62 years, Elinor (Dean), their son and loving caregiver Michael; son Stephen and his partner David; daughter Elisabeth and son-in-law Chris; grandchildren Alexander, Jack and Charlie; and brother-in-law William. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Doctors Without Borders or Brooklyn Botanic Garden. A service in Celebration of his Life will be held at 3pm on March 7 at Grace Church Brooklyn Heights, 254 Hicks Street, Brooklyn, NY.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 9, 2020.

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Robin and Tom Curtis

March 8, 2020

The Curtises have been blessed to know our loving neighbor, Charles, and his beloved family for decades. Charles' kindness and spirit will always be in our hearts. Prayers for this decent, kind man.

Christopher Bowers

February 21, 2020

It was such a pleasure getting to work with Charles over the years. He was always in great spirits whenever I saw him. I was so heartbroken to hear the news. May his memory be a blessing to those lucky enough to know him. My sincere condolences to the entire Wilder family.

lowell williams

February 16, 2020

I had the sincere pleasure of knowing Charlie from 1975 on, and we worked together at Texasgulf (later Elf Aquitaine America) for many years. He had a keen legal mind, an unfailing sense of humor and an ability to get to the heart of very complex problems quicker than the rest of us. His memory is a blessing.

Marlyn Klee

February 10, 2020

I worked with Charlie in producing programs for our Grace Choral Society of Brooklyn, when we were just developing our chorus. He was always cheerful and helpful, and Ellie welcomed guests at the door for our concerts, too. Everybody loved Charlie and his son, Michael, as they sang bass for many years in our chorus. I am thankful that Charlie and Ellie had a good life together. My sincere condolences to all the family. We cherish the memory of this good man.

Kitty Stewart

February 10, 2020

Charles Wilder was a wonderful human being with a seemingly endless supply of good humor and good will for all. My sincere condolences to everyone in his family, as well as to all his friends and admirers.

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