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KLINGENSTEIN--John.

Philanthropist John Klingenstein passed away on August 19, after a long illness. He was 89. Born and raised in New York City, he attended Deerfield Academy, Yale and the University of Michigan where he received a masters degree in engineering. His first job was at Westinghouse where he was a member of an elite team that designed jet engines. He continued his engineering career at Ross and Roberts before joining Wertheim & Co., an investment firm co-founded by his father, Joseph Klingenstein. He was a partner of Wertheim until the family interest was sold in 1987, after which he became a managing member of the money management firm, Klingenstein, Fields & Co. LLC. As the leader of his family's philanthropy for over 40 years, he felt that while charity came from the heart, philanthropy was a serious business that required the discipline and rigor of a business. He was patient with his giving, understanding that worthwhile things take time to develop. His interests ranged broadly, but he placed particular emphasis on private secondary school education and neuroscience basic research. He led the effort to establish the Klingenstein Center at Columbia Teachers College in 1977, which offers leadership programs and degrees for independent school teachers and administrators. To promote neuroscience research, he established the Klingenstein Fellowship Awards in Neuroscience (now called the Klingenstein-Simons Fellowships) which has, since 1981, helped advance the work of many of the country's finest neuroscientists. He put more stock in people than in programs, young people in particular. He was loyal and trusting and, although he never expected anything in return, he always got back respect and admiration, often friendship. He was a gentleman, honorable in everything he did. Always direct and straight ahead. Modest to a fault, he was a master at deflecting praise and generally gave credit to others. He served on many boards. Virtually all his fellow board members could be counted on to observe that when he began a question, as he invariably did, with "I don't know anything about the subject," you knew right away that he knew more than you did and that he was about to raise a critical point, one for which, you were uncomfortably certain, you were ill prepared. His passion was his family. He met his wife Patricia of 66 years when he was at Yale and she at Smith. He loved her and he leaned on her, as she on him. In his later infirm years, he spoke to her by hand holding and loving, grateful glances. In disposition, interests and strengths they were not much alike, but they meshed beautifully. Although not always emotive, he was unmistakably and unreservedly proud of his four children. They survive him as does his wife, a daughter in law, brother, Frederick, 10 grandchildren and one great- grandchild. There will be a memorial service on September 17, 2018 at 4pm in the Cowin Auditorium at Columbia Teachers College. In lieu of flowers, the Klingenstein family would be grateful for donations made to the Klingenstein Center for Independent School Leadership.

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 26, 2018.

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BRUCE KUEFFNER

August 6, 2022

During my youth, the Klingenstein's were neighbors & wonderful family friends. John had an aura of honor, loyalty & trust. He was kind & considerate without expectation of reciprocity. He was a role model for us all.

Morgan Binswanger

September 13, 2018

The Binswanger family is saddened to hear of this passing. What a gracious and great friend to many and transformative leader in improving teaching and learning for all. Our warm thoughts are with you.

August 22, 2018

KLINGENSTEIN FAMILY, MY SINCERE CONDOENCE. I KNOW HE WAS LOVE AND WILL BE MISSED MAY THE GOD OF PEACE BRING YOU COMFORT AT THIS SAD TIME IN YOUR LIFE

G.

August 21, 2018

May the wonderful memories of your dear one Forever remain close to your heart and continue to sustain you Psalms 116:15. Please accept my sincere condolences.

August 21, 2018

To the Klingenstein Family: My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

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