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PAUL CUSHMAN Obituary

CUSHMAN--Paul, Jr., MD, born NYC in 1930, attended Buckley, Exeter, Yale, and Columbia Medical School. Trained in endocrinology, he began his career at St. Luke's Hospital in NYC. A founder of the American Society of Addiction Medicine, he became an early champion of methadone for management of intractable opiate addiction and ran one of the best regarded methadone clinics in New York in the 1970s. Methadone was initially an unpopular and misunder-stood treatment but with which he helped hundreds of people, including the incarcerated. Contributed more than 80 articles to the medical literature on substance abuse medicine, and worked to integrate its teaching into medical schools. Professor of Medicine, Psychiatry, Pharm- acology and Therapeutics at the Medical Colleges of Wisconsin and Virginia in the 1980s. In retirement, he wrote biographies of two Dutch colonial ancestors: Richard Varick, first mayor of NYC, and silversmith William Gilbert. He had a voracious mind and loved ballet, opera, medical history, crossword puzzles, chess, backgammon and cards (Ruby Life Master in duplicate bridge). While a captain in the USAF in England he met and married Paulette Bessire, who enriched his life for 61 years. She survives him as does his daughter, Clare Cushman, and two grandchildren. Member of The Union Club, The Century Association.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 6, 2020.

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Marsha Zipser

November 30, 2023

Paul, you are in my thoughts. We had a fun time at the University Club bridge night.

Marsha Zipser

December 1, 2022

Paul, we all miss you at the bridge table.

Melinda Stewart NP

November 30, 2022

To this day I am indebted to Dr. C for his mentorship in my NP career. I continue to remember him and his wife, Paulette.
May he continue to RIP.

Marsha Zipser

September 4, 2022

I miss you Paul. You were a wonderful bridge partner, though I could not keep up with you. Thank you. My love to your family.

Priscilla Clay

November 26, 2021

My sincere condolences.

Melinda Stewart

March 14, 2021

What a wonderful man and role model for so many of us in the treatment of drug dependence. During his time in VA his unending energy and empathy to those in need was un- matchable. I believe he treated me like a daughter and I'm forever grateful for the love and medical education he installed into me.
Dr. C...Rest in Peace.
Mrs. C.....God Bless you.

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December 7, 2020

I met Paul years ago at one of the bridge clubs we were friendsAnd players partners from time to time when we were available to each other I’m so sorry we lost him and want to send my condolences to the family Jack Resnick

David Harris

December 6, 2020

For me Paul was a teammate and mentor in the vicissitudes of parlor games and of life. He was concerned and interested in other’s health and well being and followed the twists and turns of my family members’ various medical conditions. In bridge he adapted to modern conventions and showed me how to enjoy change and be at the top of my game. Many younger players happily stay set in their conventions. As a partner and as an opponent, Paul was always challenging and often inspirational. I will miss him. Condolences to Paulette.

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