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PETER HAIDU Obituary

HAIDU--Peter (Pierre Hajdu) died on Tuesday, February 7th, his children Noah and Rachel Haidu close by. Peter was a professor of French medieval literature, noted especially for his books The Subject Medieval/Modern and The Subject of Violence: The Song of Roland and the Birth of the State. He was a professor of French literature for twenty years at UCLA, and before that at the University of Illinois Champaign-Urbana, the University of Virginia Charlottesville, and Yale University. Peter first arrived in this country in New York, after a difficult escape from Nazi-occupied France with his mother, Henia Hajdu. His father, Paul Hajdu, died as a prisoner of war, having enlisted in the French army. After high school in California and finishing his Bachelor's at the University of Chicago and the City College of New York Peter made his home in New York as a poet, living among dancers and artists downtown, and was drafted into the Korean War, during which he served as a reporter based in Germany. At Columbia, as a graduate student, he met his second wife, Marilene Edrei, with whom he had two children; later in life he became a grandfather to Isadora Haidu Moon and Tessa Sohn Haidu. His last years were devoted to the preparation of two manuscripts, one of which argues questions of (Jewish) identity through the texts of Chretien de Troyes; many readers have also noted his work on the representability of the Shoah. He is deeply, sorrowfully missed by his children and grandchildren, and others who knew him as a man of conviction, tenderness, and deeply political intellect. Peter's son Noah, a jazz pianist, will perform a memorial concert at Birdland Jazz Club at 6:00pm on Sunday, April 16, 2017.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 10, 2017.

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January 21, 2024

Professor Haidu was a wonderful professor at UCLA. It was a privilege to be in his courses on medieval French literature. My sincere condolences to the family.

Martha, Guido, Rosana, and Valerie Francescato

February 4, 2020

Ah...those wonderful days and dinners and parties in Urbana with the Haidus. We always remember Peter.

November 18, 2017 Jack The Horse Tavern

Alexandre Leupin

February 16, 2017

My wife Kate and I had the privilege to dine Peter in November in Brooklyn. We spend the evening arguing about Chrétien de Troyes and the Conte du Graal, it was memorable! His mind was intact, alive and deep as ever. Peter has been a lifelong inspiration to me; in particular, my own book about the Chanson de Roland would not have existed without his. The subject of violence -which I read in typescript form - is one of the rare masterpieces of literary and historical criticism.
We will dearly miss Peter's strong and vivid mind.

Doug Hilson

February 10, 2017

Deepest sympathy to Noah & family & Rachel Haidu.
Love to you all.

Martha and Guido Francescato

February 10, 2017

We always remember when we were all together at the University of Illinois -- having dinner, going to movies, getting together to chat for hours... Good old times!

Lihong Liu

February 10, 2017

Peter is a man of great inspiration, wisdom, and passion. We had a memorable conversation on time and modernity in histories's past, humanity and the world, when I first and last saw him in Rachel's Thanksgiving dinner in 2016. His spirit is timelessly illuminating.

February 10, 2017

Our condolences on your loss. Our thoughts are with you. Steve, Maritza, and Sofia

Carole Weinstein

February 10, 2017

So glad to have known Peter and I send love to all the family. His impact will live on.

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