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Renee French Obituary

1966 - 2020
Renee was an amazing spirit. Vibrant, funny, caring, brave. When young, she was a blonde, blue-eyed, smart, witty girl. A loving, responsible, doting sister. Very supportive of her single Mom. As she approached adulthood, through high school, her personality blossomed. She became a talented young artist. She drew, painted & wrote. She delved deeper into music & the arts. These early years formed many lifelong friends.

It wasn't long before the Albany area became too small & she moved to the big city. Renee spoke of her aspirations, what she hoped to find & create. She wanted to meet a particular guy after hearing his music. That "guy's" name was John Lurie; thirty years later John remains a pillar in the life of Renee & her beautiful daughter Jaya.

Renee wanted to make a splash, to be known not just for her beauty, but for her art. What became her greatest work of art was her personality; 'herself'. The way she'd laugh, converse, gravitate, gyrate, calmly observe, or effortlessly maneuver through crowds was remarkable & brilliant.

As a result of her unique style & abilities, many doors opened. Doors to our hearts, to moments, locations & situations; creating memories, powerful & amazing. Only those present could bear witness & remember. Doors opened to employment opportunities; Renee worked in modeling, film, music; she traveled & learned arts abroad.

A particular period that was special for Renee occurred at the Bowery Bar and Joe's Pub of Manhattan. It was at these iconic venues that Renee was able to host artists with verve & charm, developing relationships that she maintained for life. Her magnetic energy & commitment helped build those communities into what they were.

Renee's life didn't just exist as chapters, but as altogether different books. She became a mother, a dedicated one. Jaya French was the focus of Renee's life for the next eighteen years. She fought tirelessly to provide a nurturing environment for her daughter. She was a lioness. Fierce, protective & loving.

Shortly after becoming a mother, Renee lost her own, Kathleen Fiato Baker. In typical Renee fashion, she furiously started writing her next book. She went back to school & became a nurse. Her career began at Albany Medical Center, later becoming an OR Transplant Nurse at Columbia New York Presbyterian. Those 11 years spent in OR were both rewarding & difficult. Most recently, during today's global crisis, Renee rose to the challenge. When asked if she thought it would be wise to leave the city, Renee simply replied "I am a nurse, I have a duty." She was a frontline ICU nurse until the end.

Renee is survived by her wonderful daughter, Jaya Garcia French, brothers John French & Christopher Bortugno, six nephews - John, Shawn, Kevin, Brandon, Lucas & Maximus French.
Her aunts & uncles - Judy Fiato Patriarca, Marsha Fiato Libby, Bob Fiato, Dan Fiato, Fred Fiato, Ken Fiato & Sue Fiato.

Her beloved cousins - Jessica, Violet, Roxy, Robert, Joe, Christopher, Jon, Cheryl, Brian Joe, Tiffany, Daniel, JJ, Stephanie, Sara, Holly, Savannah.
Her worldwide array of friends & co-workers.

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Published by New York Times from Jun. 16 to Jun. 17, 2020.

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Aramis Fournier her bldg Super @ 790 RSD NYC

June 10, 2025

Never to forget her charming ways!!!!!

Aramis Fournier /790RSD NYC

October 21, 2020

I had the pleasure being her bldg super for years!
A very special lady!
RIP MY LADY!!!!!
You must be charming them away wherever your at!

Liz Homberg (McGrath)

July 25, 2020

Many condolences for the family and many friends of Rene. Rene and I were close friends for only a year before I moved to Europe and although our paths never again crossed, our mutual spiritual journey of leaving our pasts behind and resolved to create a more promising and joyful future remained parallel. She was a brilliant and tender flower.

Raechel Mateja

June 29, 2020

Renee was and still is the sweetest most caring person. A second mother figure to me down in the city all thanks to your beautiful daughter Jaya. As my heart still continues to break for her, I remember all the good times weve all had and will hold onto those forever. We miss you dearly

Patricia, marvelyn & Daphney

June 24, 2020

Y sympathy goes out to family and friends I missed your beautiful smile your hug there is so much memories. RIP my friend you are gone too soon but you will always be in my ❤

Brian Joseph Libby

June 17, 2020

I can still vividly remember the excitement I had, along with my sisters, to trek from a small town in Central PA to Albany to see our family throughout my young life. My cousins, Renee and John, were a major part of that anticipation and fun that we shared. Though we have always been separate by many miles and different experience there was a close bond. I am struggling to wrap my mind around this loss. I am certain there are many that are frustrated that we cannot get together as we normally would to hug the people that are hurting and also celebrate the light that she shared. I am happy I had the chance to recently talk with Renee and discuss seeing one another soon and express my love before this tragic loss. I appreciate what Renee brought to the world in her art and personality. Jaya, John know that you are loved and supported. Though peace has not always been easy to find with obstacles the family has faced, I hope the warm embrace of God is there for you now. I do not know with absolute confidence what our after life brings, but I do hope we can reunite in a place with no pain or sorrow... I know I will have that same joy I had so long ago.

Judy M Patriarca

June 16, 2020

Renee, my sweet niece, I knew when you were only four or five years that you were a unique spirit...Your life and your death have proven just how true that was. I've struggled with the right words since the day you died....still do. You know my heart, and one day we will sit down at the table and talk and then talk some more! Until that day, I will miss you on this earth and try my best to support Jaya...the love you left behind. I love you always. Aunt Judy

Jedi Master

June 16, 2020

She was my good good friend, dearly loved. Words dont do justice to describe the feelings.

Lisa Seidenberg Mayakis

June 16, 2020

I Am so saddened For This Beautiful Loss of Life I know you are At rest Now . from your Endless work you gave To This world you will Be missed by so many you gave All That you could my FriendAnd some Rest In Peaceful ❤❤❤❤❤

Mona Lazaridis

June 16, 2020

l ll always remember my beautiful friend Renee . Sometimes we are not here for a long time . Thats ok because she made the most out of what hand she was dealt. Most importantly she made a another Renee in her daughter Jaya . May the Angels always look out for her .

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