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THAYER FREMONT-SMITH Obituary

FREMONT-SMITH-- Thayer. Massachusetts Superior Court Justice. The Honorable Thayer Fremont-Smith, Associate Justice of the Superior Court of Massachusetts (Retired), died peacefully on March 31 at his home in Melrose, Massachusetts surrounded by family. He was 88. Mr. Fremont-Smith was born in Boston, Massachusetts on June 17, 1931. The child of Dr. Maurice Fremont-Smith of Boston and Mary Dixon Thayer Fremont-Smith of Philadelphia, Thayer attended Milton Academy ('49), Harvard College ('53) and Harvard Law School ('60). From 1954 to 1956, he served in the United States Army. He subsequently joined the Boston law firm of Choate, Hall & Stewart, where he practiced as a partner for over 30 years. He was appointed to the bench in 1993, and served as Associate Justice of the Superior Court of Massachusetts for 10 years. Mr. Fremont-Smith was active in the legal community of Boston, a frequent lecturer in antitrust law (Harvard Law/ALI/ABA), a member of the Steering Committee on Civil Rights of the Boston Bar Association, the Catholic Lawyers Guild of the Archdiocese of Boston, the Pro Life Legal Defense Fund, and a past president of the Boston Inns of Court. He was also active in his home town of Melrose, Massachusetts, serving as a Chairman of the Melrose Planning Board, Director of the Melrose YMCA, as well as a Eucharistic Minister at the Incarnation Parish. He was a devoted husband, father and grandfather, beloved for his humility, warmth, humor, and an unwavering commitment to Harvard football. All who knew him will fondly recall many hours spent singing around his piano. He spent his free time hiking, sailing, or skiing at his home in Alexandria, NH. Justice Fremont-Smith is survived by his wife of 59 years Anne Fremont-Smith of Melrose, Massachusetts; his son Mathew Fremont-Smith of New York City, NY; James Fremont-Smith of Newburyport, MA; Thomas Fremont-Smith of Newburyport, MA; Phillip Fremont-Smith of Belmont, MA; nine grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. Respecting current restrictions, the burial will be private. A memorial mass and celebration of his life will be announced at a later date.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 5, 2020.

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Alan Jay Rom

March 27, 2021

I think of Thayer often and try to remember some of the advice he gave me. He was what is the most valuable thing we can have - a friend. I miss his wit and wisdom. Alan Jay Rom

Evan Fray-Witzer

June 30, 2020

I was one of Judge Fremont-Smith's clerks many many years ago. He was a wonderful and kind mentor and teacher and will be missed.

Judy and Jeff Neyhart

April 24, 2020

We will always remember Thayer for his constant smile, his unending energy and love for the outdoors. We shared many a passing smile and a rousing discussion over cocktails. He will be missed at The Ledges.
I will never be able to pass a Ledges wooden sign without seeing him bending over with his paintbrush on the ground to color the white sails and blue lake pictured there with the street name. Why did he do it? Because it needed to be done. That was Thayer. Farewell and Godspeed.

Sheila Tighe

April 16, 2020

Dear Anne, I would offer you and your family my sincere sympathy on the loss of your husband. May he rest in peace. Respectfully, Mrs. Paul Tighe

Timothy O'Leary

April 13, 2020

Dear Anne and family,

Thayer was a wonderful, kind, funny, smart and generous human. He touched all he met with his kindness, humility and the sheer force of his intellect. Some people come into our lives, stay awhile and move on. Others come and leave footprints on our hearts. I hope the memories of Thayer, what he stood for and believed in, his kindness and love provide you and your family comfort and support in these sad days.

Janet Surette

April 11, 2020

My condolences to the Fremont-Smith family during this most difficult time. You are in my prayers.

Paul Heemskerk

April 11, 2020

We met this wonderful man at a most unfortunate time. Myself, Paul Heemskerk my partner Anthony Bongiorno were friends with his brother Dick Fremont Smith. Dick had recently passed and Thayer had a gathering at Dicks home shortly after his death. Thayer was a true gentleman and we had a wonderful conversation with him with regards to his brother Dick. We are sorry for the families loss. Thayer was a true gentleman, we only new him for a very short moment in time but he placed a very positive and memorable impression on us. Prayers and love go from the both of us out to the family.

Leo Peters

April 6, 2020

I am sorry to learn of Thayer's passing. I first met him when he joined the planning board. He was a wonderful person and will be missed by all who knew him.

Carol Vuillemenot

April 4, 2020

So sorry to hear the news of Thayer's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Anne and family. Warm memories are in our hearts.

Michael Santorsola

April 4, 2020

My condolences to your family.

Richard & Myra Lyons

April 4, 2020

We will always remember Judge Fremont-Smith as a kind and giving person. Chance meetings, whether at a local restaurant or on a sidewalk of Melrose, always brought a smile to my face. He contributed so much to so many, that his memory will continue for the great number of people that he touched.
Dick & Myra Lyons

Lisa Palance

April 3, 2020

We are thinking of you all during this sad and difficult time. We are so glad that you were able to be with your father during his last hours. Love and prayers to all of you. Tom, Lisa, Alyssa, and Annabella Palance

Rob Dolan

April 3, 2020

A truly great man and a tremendous loss for our community. I so appreciated and cherished his kind notes of advice and phone calls of support during tough times. In these troubling times we need men like The Judge more than ever.
My condolences to his wonderful family.

Joanne Reilly

April 2, 2020

I send my deepest condolences to Ann and her 4 wonderful sons and their families. With tears in
My eyes, I remember happy times past with Thayer and Ann. He was such a wonderful, gentle human being. He was one of a kind . He will be greatly missed. Love to you, Ann.

Wilma Gooby

April 2, 2020

Dear Jamie and FAMILY,
Please know how very sorry I am for the loss of your SWEET and CHARMIMG DAD. May HE rest in PEACE FOREVER.
Serenity,
Wilma

Myron & Rose Dittmer

April 2, 2020

Dear Anne and family:

We are so sorry to hear of Thayer's passing and want to extend our deep and sincere sympathy to you and your family at such a difficult time. He was such an extraordinary and compassionate man who touched so many lives - he will never be forgotten and will always remain in our memories and love.

Myron & Rose Dittmer

Marybeth Macdonald

April 7, 2020

Jamie, so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. My condolences to and your family.

Alan Jay Rom

April 5, 2020

Thayer was a teacher and a friend. He worked with me as co-counel on several civil rights cases when I was at the Lawyers Committee for Civil Rights. When he became a judge, he invited me to lunch with his family after he was sworn in. I visited him in chambers when I was in court and we had lunch a few times. I sent him a card and he called me and left a voice mail, and I saved that voice mail on my phone. He was highly principled and of good humor, taking his principles seriously, but not himself. I shall miss him but feel lucky to have crossed his path in my life. I learned a lot from knowing him. My condolences to his family.

Jim Arcand

April 4, 2020

Thayer was a terrific man, as loyal and kind as one could imagine. He was always first to step forward and he had a kind word for all. He was steadfast and true, a gentleman all could admire and wish for many more of his caliber.

Veronica Meade-Kelly

April 4, 2020

A great neighbor and a kind man. I'm sorry to hear of his passing. Our condolences to the Judge's beloved family.

Fred Harris

April 3, 2020

Rest In Peace Judge. Thanks for all your hard work for good causes.Condolences to your loved ones.

Lee Gesmer

April 3, 2020

I worked closely with Thayer when I was an associate at Choate Hall in the early 1980s. He was wonderful man, and acted as an informal mentor to me, which was greatly appreciated. My deepest condolences to his family.

Michael Sullivan

April 3, 2020

To the Judge's Family:

Please accept our deepest sympathies. The Judge had a tremendous impact on the many lives he touched.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Michael Sullivan
And the members of the
Superior Court Clerks' Assoc.

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