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KELLY--Thomas James. Kelly, Thomas (Tom) James, of Wellesley, MA and New York, NY passed away unexpectedly in New York on May 14th. Tom came of age in Alaska as it became a state just before his 9th grade year. He traveled east to Trinity College in Hartford, CT followed by Harvard Law School in Boston. While in law school he met the love of his life, Roberta Banay. The two were married in 1968 and soon after welcomed their two daughters, Christina and Kim. Tom was a true family man as nothing was more important than his wife and children. Though he was one of the most revered corporate
lawyers at Herrick and Smith and then Mintz, Levin in Boston, he never missed a single opportunity to spend time and celebrate the joys of his family. Whether it was on the sidelines of one of his daughter's soccer games, giving a toast about his devotion to Roberta, or relaxing and reading in the shade on a Tuscan beach with the whole family, Tom was happiest with the wonderful women whom he supported unconditionally in all of their endeavours. Over the past decade Tom and Roberta slowly transitioned to a part time and then permanent move to New York City so that they could develop a close relationship with their three grandsons, Huck, Alessandro and Massimo. Tom's love quickly spread with the absolute joy he took from spending as much time as possible with these three young men who were able to develop close relationships to this absolutely amazing man who embodied true compassion, strength, intelligence and love for all. While nurturing this amazing family, Tom was a highly successful senior partner described by his firm as "an investment funds, products and services guru". Beyond handling his clients with the utmost of care and attention, he took great pride in helping mentor younger lawyers in the New York office. In addition to practicing law, he served on the Board at Wheelock College and was a generous philanthropist for education, the arts and youth sports. Tom will be greatly missed by Roberta, Christina, Stephanie, and Huck, Kim, Kelly, Massimo and Alessandro, his sister Kate Hutchinson (Annapolis, Maryland), Ron and Alex Banay (Shirley, MA), and his nieces Sophie, Rachel and Emma (New York). There will be a celebration of Tom's life in June in both Boston and New York. In lieu of flowers please make a donation at the link below to continue support of education and youth sports via the Tom Kelly Memorial Fund. https://www.gofundme.com/tom-kelly-memorial-fund

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Published by New York Times on May 19, 2019.

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Kathryn

January 9, 2024

I´m very sad to learn of Mr Kelly´s passing.

Sincerely
Kathryn Murphy

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Amanda Arrillaga

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June 4, 2019

I'm very sorry to read of Mr. Kelly's passing. I would like to offer my sincere condolences to his wife, children, and family. Jeremiah 29:11, 12 assures us God is thinking thoughts of peace towards us, to give us a future and a hope. And that if we come and pray to Him, He will listen to us. In the days to come may you find comfort in that hope.


CW/JW

May 25, 2019

Roberta and I graduated from Wellesley High School together. Dear Roberta, Your husband sounds like a wonderful man, one who cherished you, your children, your grandchildren and life. While his loss must be devastating, I hope you all will carry his love and wonderful memories in your hearts forever. I wish peace to you all and send you my love. Fondly, Dale Broadbent

Don and Laura Bousquet

May 22, 2019

We are saddened by the loss of our first cousin, Tom. We also, last saw him in Wellesley in 1989, and remember the day fondly. Our condolences to the whole family.

Karen Bousquet

May 21, 2019

Please accept my condolences on the loss of Tom, who is also my first cousin. Though I hadn't seen the Kelly family since the 1980s, I fondly recall Tom's generous nature when he invited his extended family from Rhode Island to the Kelly home in Wellesley for a reunion. It remains a treasured memory. I am so sorry for your loss.

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