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TOM DONCOURT Obituary

DONCOURT--Tom. Tom Doncourt, an accomplished musician, composer, painter, sculptor, instrument maker, woodworker, educator, son, brother, husband, father, grandfather and wonderful friend to countless people, died from Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis at the age of 63, on March 20, 2019 in Brooklyn, NY. On December 10, 1955, Tom was born in Flushing, Queens, to Ruthene Staples Doncourt and the late Captain Carlton R. Doncourt NYPD. Tom was raised in Islip Terrace, Long Island, NY. He is survived by his beloved Mother, his bright and beautiful sister, Carol Doncourt DeFrancesco, her husband Vincent, niece Melissa Stewart and nephews Andrew and Richard DeFrancesco. Tom leaves behind his first wife, Gudrun Doncourt, cherished daughter Carly, devoted sons, Barry and Chief Warrant Officer David Doncourt US Army, and four lovely grandchildren Max, Grace, Josiah and Kayla. He is also survived by his loving wife, Maxine Lu, their treasured daughter, Wendy Doncourt, and the dog, Pere, his loyal companion with which he held dear. Tom was a Preparator in the Exhibitions Department of the American Museum of Natural History. His relationship with the museum began in 1992 when he became an Education Department volunteer in the early days of the Discovery Room. He was mentored by Ann Prewitt, creating unique puzzles, the beloved whale mask, and other interactive projects for this hands-on children's space. During that time, he also worked with Education to convert a recreational vehicle into a "moveable museum" about nomadic cultures. In need of space while working on Moveable, Tom occupied a workspace in the museum's exhibition department and before long, he was offered a full-time position that led to a nearly 21 year tenure as a Preparator, or Exhibitions Artist, from which he retired as Senior Principal Preparator in 2016. Tom's love of the museum meshed easily with his own fascination of art, music, human culture and the natural world. Work-life and home- life were not kept separate. Tom's work projects and personal interests traveled back and forth from home studio to office cubicle to music room and anyone who had ever visited his desk at the AMNH could attest to the crossovers and explosions of his creative process, often spilling out of his workspace into the studio at large. Hand-carved xylophone blocks were stacked upon foam models in progress. Candy colored resin samples for a neuron spread across his desk among plasticine sculpts of tardigrades to be scaled up to ten feet. A delicate mask carved out of cedar sat on a shelf to be finished, someday. Photos of his family and notes from loved ones and friends from across the world were pinned up among acrylic paint tests and landscape studies. Drawers full of sculpting tools were interspersed with wood scraps and electrical components, perhaps for one of his rare Chamberlin organs or mellotrons. It was a joyful explosion. Tom's artistic ability was flexible to say the least. His expertise and creative hand can be seen in countless exhibits throughout the museum and in traveling exhibits worldwide. He contributed to many of the ecosystem life groups in the Milstein Hall of Ocean Life, notably the coral reef, the whale fall, polar ice, and the continental shelf. He created models as tiny and focused as the fingernail-sized Batodonoides, (a shrew-like mammal, possibly the smallest to have ever lived) to the giant pterosaur Quetzalcoatlus with its impressive thirty-five foot wingspan, one of the largest known flying animals of all time. Over his years spent in Exhibition, Tom became educated in the techniques and history of diorama making and the unique ability of dioramas to forever preserve a moment in time, some of which will never be seen again outside of the museum's walls. He revered the knowledge passed down from his predecessors, such as Steve Quinn, over the past 150 years and helped pioneer the techniques that carried new exhibits into the future. Tom spent years teaching a public course, The Art of the Diorama, that afforded students the opportunity to learn some of the innovative ways in which a museum diorama is created, then and now, and how diorama and wildlife arts are instrumental to wildlife conservation. Perhaps the most impressive and valuable creations of Tom's time at the museum are the friendships that he carried throughout his life and career. Tom was a joy to be around and he infused joy into his artwork. In turn, countless people share that joy as they walk through the museums and institutions that house his creations. He is loved and remembered by his museum colleagues and co-workers, past and present, for his off-the-wall humor, originality, generosity and kindness. Tom's personal passion was for creating music. He was a member of several musical bands over the years. Beginning with ODYSSEY, a progressive rock band that began playing in Long island clubs during the 1960's. In 1974 they invited Tom to join as mellotronist, his instrument of choice. During his time with ODYSSEY, the original members had a major influence on his development as a keyboardist and writer. Tom left ODYSSEY to form a band with guitarist Rudy Perrone and Ed Gagliardi. Shortly after departing the band, ODYSSEY disbanded and bassist Fred Callan, along with vocalist Louie Lovino, joined Tom and Rudy to form CATHEDRAL. They added drummer Barry Kadane. By 1976 Paul Seal replaced Louis Lovino and Mercury Caronia replaced Barry Kadane. His work on the "Stained Glass Stories" album with CATHEDRAL in 1978 earned him admiration as a noteworthy American Keyboardist and Composer. He was often compared to Rick Wakeman, Tony Banks, and Keith Emerson; the best of the Progressive Rock Keyboardists. Tom's melodic, rhythmic, and harmonic approach was evidently unique. Alongside his keyboard work, he was an inventor of instruments, which added to his orchestral pallet of colors. From his earliest use of the Mellotron 919 on the song "Flight", to his most recent solo recordings, there was always his beloved mellotrons. In 1979, Tom, bassist Chuck Bernklau, guitarist Joe Armetta, drummer Barry Kadane and vocalist Gudrun Thraindottir from Iceland, who was introduced to Tom by his friend Michael Pollack, formed the band QUIET. In 2005, the band CATHEDRAL, reunited to create "The Bridge". The album was produced in 2007 with engineer/ producer, Brian Unger and distributed by Musea. David Doig was added on guitar. In 2009, he was a member of the improvisational, experimental ensemble, GLOBULAR CLUSTER, performing shows in underground clubs in Manhattan and Brooklyn, with Jake Adams and Sarah Reynolds, among other avant- garde musicians of Brooklyn. Tom went on to compose his own original music for the remainder of his life, learning how to process and record, while setting up his own studio where he was able to create seven albums: "Fauve", "Blacklight", "The Mortal Coil", "The Moon Will Rise", "House in the Woods", "Ratsimandresy & Doncourt, Vol. 1" and "Lantern" (which will be published posthumously). He employed musicians from all over the world, as well as having his longtime friends contribute to his solo efforts on albums and on stage, such as Chuck Bernklau, Rudy Perrone, Mattias Olsson, Eunice Wobble Wong, Brian Lee, Penelope Thomas, Alex Feld, Cassandra Jenkins, Yuko Pepe, Michael Wookey, Kristin Slipp, Peter Zokosky, and Nadia Ratsimandresy. Tom Doncourt was one of those people who was seemingly capable of nearly anything when it came to creativity or learning something new. Tom was known for many things, such as his art, his mellotron music, and the play ground, theater sets, and haunted house, he made for his children's schools. He was also known for a term created about him, "Tomming It", a phrase everyone who knew him, used. When a project or situation would reach a standstill, when courage, perseverance and sheer will was needed to finish, he would "Tom It". He did so until the end. Tom was a friend and mentor to a great many people, young and old, from all walks of life, rich or poor. Tom was truly one of a kind, he was unique in the entire Universe and there will never be another like him. A sacred, magical guy, eyes and ears wide open to the mystery of life, with a heart that changed the world and uplifted us all.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 31, 2019.

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Marcy Singer

February 23, 2020

I am so grateful that I got to meet Tom (and the wonderful Maxine) in January, 2019, and experience his enthusiasm and knowledge through what would be his last course of The Art of the Diorama at AMNH. I had to miss the first class and he generously offered to meet me a few hours before the second class to get me up to speed. Now I imagine his energy must have been limited but he was happy to share his knowledge. Those six weeks meant so much to me and became even more precious as he began to say his farewells on Facebook just a few weeks after the class ended. Sending love to Toms children and Maxine, a big thank you to Tom for giving so much of your unique self.

Bernie Kornowicz

February 22, 2020

Tom and I shared our love for tape-based sample keyboards (Mellotrons, Chamberlins, Birotrons). We only knew each other through a Yahoo Mellotron group and then through some Facebook groups. Eventually, we met face to face in NYC, only once, when he gave my wife and me a behind the scenes guided tour of the American Museum of Natural History, where he had worked and had retired from. It was an experience that will continue to live in my memory. I continue to enjoy his creative music and miss our online conversations.

Pamela Dovak

February 21, 2020

Barbara Lopez

June 28, 2019

Dearest Ruthine, I just learned of Tom's death. We are so saddened to hear this. Ed and I wish to express our deepest sympathy to Maxine, Wendy and all of the family. Love to you, Barbara, Ed, Carolyn and John

Janet Bacon

April 2, 2019

To all that know Tom I send my thoughts to all as I miss his words of inspiration to grow, move, create and trust the value of our own purpose. I am overwhelmed he has shifted to another part of living and with this shift he has taught me to let the next shift take place in my own life. I am deep with sadness. I know he treasured all of you. I have tears and then I smile because of who Tom is in my mind and he will live on in my soul. I thank you for the amazing words written of his Life. I will carry good thoughts for all of you. Tom lives on as a Gift in our lives. Thank you. Namaste

Roderick Mickens

April 2, 2019

To a friend of many great talents. Tom we shared many beautiful moments and lots of laughs together :-) not to mention all the photographic moments in time. It'z been a nice run at AMNH with you and I can never forget the jokes and songs on the 5th floor Exhibition Spaces. All the parties and creative shows and temporary exhibitions along with education classes and traveling to a couple venues for AMNH. Woo brother this totally took me by surprise and I wish your family and friends Peace, Love, and lots heavenly space. God Bless you son and your family live in honor and Praise ! ReST deAR sON God iS LoVe

Bruce Wigle

April 2, 2019

Beautiful obituary Maxine. Well done! to Tom and you.

April 1, 2019

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Steve Quinn

April 1, 2019

Tom will be missed by all who knew him.

Craig Chesek

April 1, 2019

A beautiful snapshot of a life well lived. I worked around Tom his entire museum career - most recently photographing his students work for his Diorama class where I saw him in February and met his wife Maxine. Being present in his class gave me a view into his creative / teaching side. He had a very positive impact on many a fledgling artist and his presence, good cheer and creativity will be missed.

Robert Cronk

April 1, 2019

Tom was possessed of a unique mixture of extreme talent, compassion, warmth, a hunger for truth and knowledge, and a desire to pass that knowledge on. He was as smart as he was kind and as gentle as he was genuine. He was among the best of us in so many ways. It was an honor simply to have known him.

Marcy Singer

April 1, 2019

I'm so grateful I got to meet Tom in January of this year, during the six weeks of The Art of the Diorama class at AMNH. I didn't know him for long but he made a deep impression on me. My condolences to his friends and loved ones. I know he will live on in the stories people will tell about him, as they share their memories of time spent with Tom.

Pamela Dovak

April 1, 2019

He is in the echoes of the sound in all our hearts ❤
He will ALWAYS live on...
I am honored and blessed to call you my friend Tommy.

March 31, 2019

To the Doncourt Family: My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

David Harvey

March 31, 2019

I knew Tom as a kind of magical problem solver--and in a most creative way. Tom did not seem constrained by the laws of physics or for that matter by the constraints of a job. HIs approach to everything was broad and warm. As a member of the preparator staff at AMNH, Tom will always be remembered fondly and sorely missed. We were so lucky to have known him.

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