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Marcy Singer
February 23, 2020
I am so grateful that I got to meet Tom (and the wonderful Maxine) in January, 2019, and experience his enthusiasm and knowledge through what would be his last course of The Art of the Diorama at AMNH. I had to miss the first class and he generously offered to meet me a few hours before the second class to get me up to speed. Now I imagine his energy must have been limited but he was happy to share his knowledge. Those six weeks meant so much to me and became even more precious as he began to say his farewells on Facebook just a few weeks after the class ended. Sending love to Toms children and Maxine, a big thank you to Tom for giving so much of your unique self.
Bernie Kornowicz
February 22, 2020
Tom and I shared our love for tape-based sample keyboards (Mellotrons, Chamberlins, Birotrons). We only knew each other through a Yahoo Mellotron group and then through some Facebook groups. Eventually, we met face to face in NYC, only once, when he gave my wife and me a behind the scenes guided tour of the American Museum of Natural History, where he had worked and had retired from. It was an experience that will continue to live in my memory. I continue to enjoy his creative music and miss our online conversations.
Pamela Dovak
February 21, 2020
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Barbara Lopez
June 28, 2019
Dearest Ruthine, I just learned of Tom's death. We are so saddened to hear this. Ed and I wish to express our deepest sympathy to Maxine, Wendy and all of the family. Love to you, Barbara, Ed, Carolyn and John
Janet Bacon
April 2, 2019
To all that know Tom I send my thoughts to all as I miss his words of inspiration to grow, move, create and trust the value of our own purpose. I am overwhelmed he has shifted to another part of living and with this shift he has taught me to let the next shift take place in my own life. I am deep with sadness. I know he treasured all of you. I have tears and then I smile because of who Tom is in my mind and he will live on in my soul. I thank you for the amazing words written of his Life. I will carry good thoughts for all of you. Tom lives on as a Gift in our lives. Thank you. Namaste
Roderick Mickens
April 2, 2019
To a friend of many great talents. Tom we shared many beautiful moments and lots of laughs together :-) not to mention all the photographic moments in time. It'z been a nice run at AMNH with you and I can never forget the jokes and songs on the 5th floor Exhibition Spaces. All the parties and creative shows and temporary exhibitions along with education classes and traveling to a couple venues for AMNH. Woo brother this totally took me by surprise and I wish your family and friends Peace, Love, and lots heavenly space. God Bless you son and your family live in honor and Praise ! ReST deAR sON God iS LoVe
Bruce Wigle
April 2, 2019
Beautiful obituary Maxine. Well done! to Tom and you.
April 1, 2019
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Steve Quinn
April 1, 2019
Tom will be missed by all who knew him.
Craig Chesek
April 1, 2019
A beautiful snapshot of a life well lived. I worked around Tom his entire museum career - most recently photographing his students work for his Diorama class where I saw him in February and met his wife Maxine. Being present in his class gave me a view into his creative / teaching side. He had a very positive impact on many a fledgling artist and his presence, good cheer and creativity will be missed.
Robert Cronk
April 1, 2019
Tom was possessed of a unique mixture of extreme talent, compassion, warmth, a hunger for truth and knowledge, and a desire to pass that knowledge on. He was as smart as he was kind and as gentle as he was genuine. He was among the best of us in so many ways. It was an honor simply to have known him.
Marcy Singer
April 1, 2019
I'm so grateful I got to meet Tom in January of this year, during the six weeks of The Art of the Diorama class at AMNH. I didn't know him for long but he made a deep impression on me. My condolences to his friends and loved ones. I know he will live on in the stories people will tell about him, as they share their memories of time spent with Tom.
Pamela Dovak
April 1, 2019
He is in the echoes of the sound in all our hearts ❤
He will ALWAYS live on...
I am honored and blessed to call you my friend Tommy.
March 31, 2019
To the Doncourt Family: My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.
David Harvey
March 31, 2019
I knew Tom as a kind of magical problem solver--and in a most creative way. Tom did not seem constrained by the laws of physics or for that matter by the constraints of a job. HIs approach to everything was broad and warm. As a member of the preparator staff at AMNH, Tom will always be remembered fondly and sorely missed. We were so lucky to have known him.
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