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WINTHROP ADKINS Obituary

ADKINS--Winthrop R.

Winthrop R. Adkins, Ph.D., age 82, a quintessential "teacher of life" passed away on July 17, 2015 from complications following lung surgery. He was a Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Education at Columbia University, Teachers College where he taught masters and doctoral students in psychology, counseling and education. Dr. Adkins was born in Beirut, Syria (now Lebanon) on October 25, 1932 to Dr. Leslie John Adkins and Mrs. Edith Sanderson who were missionaries serving in Turkey and Syria. He was a graduate of Phillips Andover Academy and of Princeton University, Class of 1955. He received his doctorate in Counseling Psychology from Columbia University, Teachers College in 1963 where he worked on the groundbreaking Career Pattern Study. This was followed by a year at Harvard University at the Center for Personality. He was associated with the US Navy for over twelve years, first as a member of the NROTC at Princeton and then as a Naval Officer on the USS Salem, from 1955 to 1958, the flagship of the Sixth Fleet in the Mediterranean. During that time he received training at the Naval Justice School. He became involved with the War on Poverty where he worked with the YMCA of Greater New York in Bedford-Stuyvesant, Project TRY, to develop a large training center for educationally and economically disadvantaged youth. In 1966 he became a founding faculty member of York College, City CUNY where he helped design the Search for Education, Elevation and Knowledge (SEEK) program, directed at helping low income students achieve college success. His work at Teachers College and at the Institute for Life Coping Skills for over thirty years, reflected his passionate interest in developing new methods for helping people learn the complex attitudes and behaviors they needed to cope with the predictable life tasks of career, marriage, parenting, dealing with family dynamics, confronting loss and other psychological issues. His design of multi-media counseling systems to reach larger numbers of people was a major focus of his work. He trained thousands of graduate students on how to develop psychological, behaviorally based interventions, using his methods and theory, for a variety of populations and problems. Dr. Adkins numerous professional research and writing focused on these issues and he was in the process of writing a book which summarized his theoretical models and ways to apply them in all these areas. The Adkins Life Skills Career Development Program (ALSP) was his most successful and nationally known program. The ALSP was originally published by The Psychological Corporation, a division of Harcourt, Brace, and Jovanovich. The program helped people learn to make short-term and long-term job and career choices, become self-directing and learn to navigate occupational systems. Most importantly it helped people learn about and believe in themselves. The ALSP was used in over 2,000 agencies including prisons, homeless shelters, drug rehabilitation centers, welfare-to-work programs, economic opportunity centers and community colleges, in 45 states. The Institute trained over 5000 staff members as Life Skills Educators who delivered the program in their own agencies. Over 1 million people graduated from this program. The impact of the program was well documented in numerous academic research studies. There is Spanish and an Italian version of the program. A Life Coping Skills curriculum, based on Dr. Adkin's theory and methods, was instituted in over 200 community colleges in India to help students from small villages learn how to psychologically navigate larger urban life. Over the years, Dr. Adkins served on many non-profit boards of directors, including the YMCA of Greater New York, the HOPE Program for the homeless, the NYS Advisory Group on Adult Education, the Greenwich Adult and Continuing Program and the Center for Insurance Research. He was also a founding board member of Princeton Project '55 Center for Civic Leadership, inspired by Ralph Nader, a classmate, which helped Princeton undergraduates become involved with the work of non-profit and non-governmental organizations nationwide. In recent years, together with his wife Dr. Caroline Manuele Adkins, he continued to direct the Institute for Life Coping Skills, revising its 3rd and international editions. In semi- retirement, Win as he was affectionately known became an enthusiastic member of the Retired Men's Association of Greenwich, CT where he served on the Program Committee and was a Co-Director of the Melody Men, a singing group that entertained in nursing homes throughout the local area. He was predeceased by his parents and his sister Beverly Wells. He is survived by his loving wife Dr. Caroline Manuele Adkins, a Professor Emerita in Psychology and Counseling from Hunter College, City University of New York, his son Jason, and his wife Karen Kraut, his daughter Jennifer, and her husband David Ernst and five grandchildren, Benjamin, Julia, Daniel, Oakes and Locke. He is also survived by his sister Sally Wilbur and his brother Dr. Douglas Adkins and his wife Dr. Rapee Adkins, his former wife Susan Fisher and many nieces and nephews. Winthrop Adkins was an inspired and passionate teacher. He was concerned always with social and economic justice and with making a real difference in the world. He spent countless hours personally counseling people who were going through crises and transitions in living. He was a "force of life" who dignified everyone he met and made them feel special, no matter who they were. He was a loving husband, father, brother and uncle to all his family. He was always so much fun to be with. Our hearts are heavy and sad and we will miss him forever. There will be a Memorial Service at 11am on August 1st at Round Hill Community Church, 395 Round Hill Rd, and Greenwich, CT 06831.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 26, 2015.

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Bryce P

August 13, 2015

I love you so very much... you will be missed. Love - your great niece

Mairead O'Sullivan

August 9, 2015

Win...timeless, ageless & a bright star on our planet. What a legacy! In discussions with Win, deep or humorous, one felt connected to him. The spark in his eyes, his smile, wit, intellect, passion, charisma, sincerity, compassion and connection were among his gifts to share, and he did. Win, you will not be forgotten. You were interested in each individual you crossed paths with.
I always enjoyed talking to you, you usually gave me with something to think about, even if it was just a limerick. Caroline, we are so sorry for your loss. You and Win had a special love story and wonderful bond.
Love, Mairead & Art

Robert Simms

August 2, 2015

Your wit and wisdom brightened my life, too, Win. Wishing the family much love and peace at this difficult time.

Maryann Amore

July 31, 2015

Caroline, and the entire Adkins Circle -- I am stunned and unbearably sad that Win is no longer with us. He was an absolutely amazing man, an original, a real visionary, and a true mentor and friend. I did the best work of my life as a result of working for Win. I am so sorry that you - and we - no longer have him here. He made the world, and us, so much better. My love and regards to you all.

July 30, 2015

My deepest condolences to your family,
Our prayers and thought are with you, it is never easy to lose a loved one who is so dear to your heart, May you draw comfort from God, who will sustain you and give you peace .2 Corn 1:3,4

Vicky

July 30, 2015

May the God of all comforts (Ps. 83:18) comfort you during this difficult time.

JD

July 29, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. The bible gives us hope for the peopoe we've lost. In Hosea 13:14 it talks about a time when death will not have dominance over anyone any more.

July 29, 2015

My condolence to the family of Mr.Adkins,know that prayers going up to our Father in heaven on your behalf.May the God of peace be with you in your time of grief.
Sandra of NYC

Emma Palmisano

July 28, 2015

To Caroline; Diana: and Ruth..my thoughts and prayers are with you throughout this time of loss and sorrow.The few times I was in his company- I felt as if I were blessed to be in the company of royalty. A kind manwho spoke with eloquence.RiP Win.

July 28, 2015

Ron Ansin P.A. '51

Myron S. Lee, P55

July 28, 2015

He was a true Princetonian in the finest sense of the word. WeI had a nice chattogether at Reunions in May. His passing leaves PAC without another Founding Father. He will be terribly missed. With deepest condolences.

July 27, 2015

My sincerest condolences to the Adkins Family. May the Hearer of Prayer be of comfort to you at this time. (Psalms 83:18)

Erin (Bush) Baer

July 27, 2015

To my Uncle Win - May you rest in peace and know you'll never be forgotten. I love you ❤

I wish I Could have seen him one last time. Hear his laughter brighten the room. See him smile as his eyes twinkle with love.
Sit together while having a deep intellectual conversation. Watch him quietly as he tells stories to the generations and absorb his wisdom like a sponge. I was always so mesmerized with all his knowledge.

I love him so very much and I am honored he was my Uncle.

I'm deeply saddened.

Jessica Bram

July 26, 2015

Win's colleagues and teacher Jessica Bram at the Westport Writers' Workshop in Westport, Conn. will miss this delightful, brilliant, ebullient workshop participant who not long ago delighted us with selections of memoir and other works-in-progress, including stories of his WWII naval adventures and enormous contributions to education and psychology. We feel privileged to have known him and mourn this loss.

Mark M. Kessler

July 26, 2015

The world is a poorer place because of Win's passing. However, the multitudes of lives he touched, directly and indirectly, will be richer forever. They are his enduring legacy. I am one of the many individuals whom Win touched, and will be forever grateful for his presence in my life. My heart goes out to Caroline, Jason, Jen and the rest of his family. They will feel this loss the hardest. Over time, may they subsume their grief in the celebration of all the wonderful good that Win has sown.

July 25, 2015

Bill and I were so sad to learn of the death of Win, whom we knew through RMA. What a joyous spirit he had. May he RIP.
Bill and Martha Eustis

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