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Tracy Heneberger Obituary

1954 - 2015
Born in New London, CT on November 7, 1954, Tracy W. Heneberger, 60, died February 28, 2015 after a courageous yearlong struggle with glioblastoma. He grew up in Brazil, graduated from HS in Rye, New York, then earned a degree in Journalism from NYU. His interests soon thereafter turned to art and sculpture which became his career and life's passion.

Tracy shared life in Brooklyn, NY with his wife, artist Susan Mayr, and their many close friends. He loved collecting organic materials for his pieces; working in his studio; casting bronze in Beijing, where he also lectured at the Central Academy of Fine Arts; and exhibiting his work.

Tracy's sculpture often started with organic or mineral forms, later permanently sealed in bronze or aluminum casts, shellac or resin. As described at his 2010 Seton Hall University show, "Heneberger often uses iterations of materials that organize smaller parts into a well-ordered whole of line, pattern, color and shape. By combining natural elements in rhythmic ways, the end result is at once rich in detail and yet elegantly simple."

Significant to Tracy's artwork were experiences around nature and water growing up. As he expressed for his show "Undercurrent" at Kerrigan Campbell Gallery in 2003, "I am at home in water. When near a body of water - a creek, a lake, an ocean - I want to be in it.... The places with which I have identified most of my life - Bahia, Rio, Newport and Norcross Pond, Maine - all are defined to me by family and water. For me, some of nature's most poetic and spirited theatre occurs under water. At a healthy reef schools of fish pour over the coral in molten metal.... and the entire reef.... vibrates with movement, color and possibility."

In addition to doing his creative work, some of Tracy's happiest times in life were spent during summer trips to Mabou, Nova Scotia with Susan, and family visits to Norcross Pond, ME; Newport, RI; Sarasota, FL; and Newark, DE.

Among the things that made Tracy a great companion were his sense of humor, intelligence, quick wit, adaptability, eagerness and devotion. He was polite, considerate, extremely hard working, and had all the attributes of a natural leader.

Tracy was passionate about his family, his friends, his art and standing up for his values, and we were passionate in our love and admiration for him. Memories of life with Tracy will always be treasured.

Tracy is the grandson of Captain and Mrs. Harry B. Heneberger and General and Mrs. Samuel B. Griffith. He is survived by his loving wife, Susan; parents Harry and Belle G. Heneberger; sister Belle Heneberger (Joseph Melancon); nephews Joshua and Jacob (Marissa) Melancon; their children Jaya, Tayton (Joshua) and Braxton (Jacob); maternal aunt Jane Griffith and cousins William Bell, Bruce and Robert Rushing; Susan's sisters: Patricia (Thomas) Twilley; Carol Buczik; and Judy Mayr; nieces and nephews Laura Buczik and Evan Winfree (Carol); Dustin Twilley and Lindsay Tadduni (Patricia); and many other beloved family and friends.

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Published by New York Times from Mar. 31 to Apr. 1, 2015.

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JANE S. GRIFFITH

March 25, 2023

I LOVE THINKING ABOUT MY BELOVED NEPHEW,
TRACY HENEBERGER (CALLED "T"), WHO MEANT SO MUCH TO ALL HIS FAMILY MEMBERS AND HAS MANY FRIENDS. HE WAS BRILLIANT, FUNNY, KIND, AND THOUGHTFUL OF OTHERS - - HE WAS IRREPLACEABLE.
FROM HIS LOVING AUNT JANE

Aunt Jane (Griffith)

March 25, 2022

Dear Gordon (T's miother), Dear Belle (T's sister),
Dear Susan (T's widow),
of you three loving women who were so closest to him. I join you in missing T day-by-day.
Lovingly, Jane

Patty Twilley

March 25, 2020

Oh, sweet Tracy. How we love you and miss you in so many ways. Each change in the season brings a special thought of your love of nature in all of its wonderment. You were a special man and it is still hard to believe that you arent with us. Love, Patty

Barbara Buoncristiano

March 25, 2020

My favorite memory is when Tracy and my late dear friend Ruben Eshkanian would climb into an artistic bubble together - art so filled them with excitement. It was a privilege to listen to their enthusiasm.

Jane Griffith

March 25, 2020

When I see Tracy's handsome face, and recall his loving, delightfully funny ways, and think of his devotion to his wife, his mother and father, other family members, his friends, and his work as a sculptor, I'm reminded yet again of the valuable part Tracy played in the development, the lives and the imaginations of all who were (and remain) connected to him.

Cassandra (Shawnzie) Dracup

May 20, 2018

Peace and love.

Hugh Archer

March 5, 2017

I remember playing hacky sac in 1979 at the gathering in Maine. We have assembled started spring and fall artist retreats in the Appalacian Mountains where I am working through my nonprofit conservation group to purchase 180,000 acres through Kentucky connecting Tennessee to Virginia. Tracy (and Susan) would have loved this event, covering and connecting most of their southern stomping grounds. I miss the opportunity to spend time with cousin Tracy and put him in touch with the southern artists helping with the art and nature connections.

Rick Hulbert

December 30, 2016

I'm very saddened to read of Tracy's passing.. He and I worked together at Fine Arts Express. I was out of Boston and we spoke often about Art..Sad Day.. Rick Hulbert P.O. 912 Manomet, Ma.02345

Elsa Buck

March 8, 2016

Tracy and I went to school together in Bahia/Brazil. I have very happy memories from our times together then when we were young kids. Later we met again in New York a few times whenever I visited and had more good times together, even if they were brief. I then also met Susan and was thrilled for them that they were so happy together. I remember Tracy as always being filled with joy and compassion. He was a brilliant listener and had a kind heart. Tracy, thank you for your presence and friendship. Saudades.

Kim Janson

July 23, 2015

Rest in peace Tracy! We lost touch after high school in Rye, but I will never forget you and your friendship! You always made me laugh and feel good
about life!

April 19, 2015

Tracy and I are so close in age that he was my best friend when we were young...I used to go for extended visits to Rye and we always had a great time...But the best were in Maine...We would go on overnight canoe trips and camp out...We could talk all night about everything...I miss him sorely...Truly one of a kind..
Cousin Bruce...

Jacob Melancon

April 18, 2015

Tracy was an amazing Uncle! Countless memories from short times together will always be around in my head. You taught me many great values. Your courage patience and kind heart are only a few of those values that I admired deeply. You will be missed but never forgotten! I love you Uncle T. -Jake aka Mosquito

Harry Heneberger

April 12, 2015

Some years ago Tracy and I took a wonderful trip together to Australia. We traveled from Sydney to the Daintree Rain Forest in the north, and along the way took a six days trip on the Coral Princess, a small ship which prowled the Great Barrier Reef anchoring here and there at the best places to dive and marvel at the under water paradise. At a handsome six feet four inches, 170 pounds , and like a fish in the water, Tracy's modest self was soon popular among the 50 passengers. On the third day a person I had met introduced me to another passenger, not by my name, but as " Tracy's father". It soon became apparent that I was generally referred to as " Tracy's father".. Of all the different sobriquets which may have been applied to me during my life, "Tracy's father" is the one in which by far I take the most pride.

Jeanne Taylor Hard

April 9, 2015

Tracy sounds like an amazing man. How wonderful that his art
lives on and will be there for you to cherish forever.

cousin Billy Bell

April 9, 2015

Tracy had an unwavering commitment to justice, an abiding love of the natural world, and a default attitude of kindness and generosity. And he was so smart and witty and fun to be with! I will always miss him.

Robert Rushing

April 9, 2015

Tracy was my first cousin, but always felt like a big brother to me. I always looked up to him - so smart, energetic, capable, creative, and passionate. It was always great fun and stimulating being around him. I'll miss him terribly, and always think of our times together with love in my heart.

On the porch at Norcross Lodge with Belle and Mom, around 1987.

April 8, 2015

Norcross Lodge, Maine

April 8, 2015

Talking at the beach in Newport, RI

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

I always looked forward to being with Tracy. He was at the top of my list of people I truly enjoyed hanging out with. We discussed adventures, nature, art, family and our passion for all things that make life worth living. With hands and arms moving in grand gestures with boyish excitement he exuded passion in spades. Memories of quiet dark evenings with a few of us chatting on the screened lodge porch overlooking Norcross Pond in Maine are priceless. Our reciprocal studio visits where we discussed painting and sculpture, exchanging ideas and ambitions, were very special times for me. I still catch myself disbelieving that his physical being is no longer with us and we will not talk again. Thanks T for being the kind, creative, interesting, bright and loving brother-in-law that you were. Love, Joseph

With Tom and Patty Twilley, Walsh Gallery, 2010.

April 8, 2015

Walking and talking with Belle, Myakka, 2009.

April 8, 2015

Visit to Susan's studio, 2010.

April 8, 2015

At the beach with Joseph Melançon, Newport, RI.

April 8, 2015

Tracy, sun and wine and talk....

April 8, 2015

Hanging out in the kitchen in Greenpoint....2010

April 8, 2015

Talking about his work, Walsh Gallery, 2010.

April 8, 2015

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Tracy explaining his thoughts on conceiving and constructing his sculptures.

Joseph Melançon

April 8, 2015

Myakka State Park, with Belle and Joseph

April 8, 2015

Myakka State Park, Sarasota, FL

April 8, 2015

Finding a parking place in Greenpoint!

April 8, 2015

CHORUS - Bronze (unique cast)

April 8, 2015

Alligator Hole at Myakka! (See those alligators?!)

April 8, 2015

Diving into the ocean at Long Beach Island, NJ.

April 6, 2015

Tracy and Dad vacationing in Bonaire.

April 6, 2015

Patty Twilley

April 5, 2015

Tracy was a man of honor and courage. He lived his life to the fullest and had a way of inspiring others with his enthusiasm. He was a wonderful husband to my sister and a caring brother-in-law, uncle and great uncle to my family. He touched so many lives and will be truly missed by my family, who loved him dearly. We shared so many great times together and the loss of this smart, talented man will certainly leave a void in many of our lives.
Love, Patty, Tom, Dustin and Lindsay

The Walsh Gallery, Seton Hall University, 2010 - Beautiful Invitation!

April 3, 2015

Family photo, Rye, NY, 1970

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Family Reunion game with Jake Melancon, Port Townsend, WA, 1997?

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Norcross Lodge, Maine.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Norcross Pond, Maine, July, 1979.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Christmas 2009 in Sarasota, FL.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Visiting Newport, RI with Joseph Melancon & family, 1997.

April 3, 2015

On the roof in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, with Josh Melancon, about 10 years ago.

April 3, 2015

Bergen, Norway show, with sister Belle.

April 3, 2015

Bergen, Norway show, with Belle and Mother.

April 3, 2015

Bergen, Norway show, 1995, with Susan.

April 3, 2015

Tracy, hiking, upstate NY.

April 3, 2015

The Parcheesi game! 1997 with Josh and Jake.

April 3, 2015

Belle and Tracy, 1990's

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

My dearest Tracy, I will love you and miss you always! Thank you for 60 years of love, support and wonderful happy times together! Your devoted and admiring sister, Belle

Walk to Alligator Hole, Myakka State Park, with Susan, Belle & Joseph, 2009.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Susan with Tracy in Mabou, Nova Scotia in 2012.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Tracy in Mabou, Nova Scotia, a favorite place!

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

April 2012 - Tracy in Sarasota for Belle's 60th birthday.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Playing with niece Jaya, at Belle & Joseph's house in Sarasota, 2011.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Upstate NY with Susan, a favorite place...

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Married to Susan Mayr, upstate NY.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

And so much fun!

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Such a wonderful Uncle to Jake and Josh Melancon!

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Christmas, December 2013 in Sarasota with family.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

June 2011 in Sarasota with Aunt Jane - Parent's 60th Anniversary.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

A partial view of Seton Hall show, 2010.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Tracy talking about his piece, "Roulette," in his Seton Hall show, created with anchovies, bamboo, shellac & epoxy.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

2010 - Visiting Tracy's studio in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, NY.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

About 30 years ago walking around Norcross Pond in Maine with Belle and parents.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Tracy & Susan, Christmas 2009 in Sarasota, FL.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

December 2009 - With Belle on walk to Alligator Hole at Myakka State Park, Sarasota, FL.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

About 20 years ago, Christmas with parents in Newport, RI.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Tracy, Mom, Belle and Dad walking in Central Park, NYC around 1985.

Belle Heneberger

April 3, 2015

Barbara Buoncristiano

April 1, 2015

Tracy was both a very talented sculptor and a very lovely man with a winning way about him.
I know Susan and the rest of his family will miss him terribly - so will we all.

Jane Griffith

March 31, 2015

It was a blessing to know and love my nephew, Tracy. He was not only an unusually talented sculptor, but a man who, loving language, in his younger years, also displayed a genius for journalism. Add to these abilities that he was an enthusiastic athlete, and a fine person, loyal and loving, kind, gracious, and fair-minded. Tracy was also delightful good company -- well-read. knowledgeable about the contemporary scene, smart, AND witty! I loved him very much, as did everyone who truly knew him. His absence is now a hole in our lives. I can only weep that he died in what can be termed middle age, a man still with great promise, a man who could have continued to make valuable contributions to the world. We will miss him and love him until that final day when our own suns set. Aunt Jane

Jeannie McMacken

March 31, 2015

I sit here admiring a beautiful day overlooking Puget Sound. Sailboats gently glide across indigo water. Eagles catch spiral updrafts. White clouds are overstuffed pillows. My thoughts turn to Tracy. I wish for a peaceful moment for his loved ones. My deepest sympathy to his precious family.

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