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Stephanie Wilcoxson Obituary

Stephanie Kay Wilcoxson (11) was born May 12, 1998 at Norman, OK to Darrell and Janice Gail Ernst Wil-coxson, of Noble, OK, and passed from this life on December 23, 2009 at her home in Noble OK. She is survived by her mother, Janice Ernst Wilcoxson, of the home; paternal grandparents, Don and Kay Wilcoxson of Blanchard, OK; uncle, Keith Wilcoxson of Oklahoma City OK and his buddies, Lowell, Darrell, and John, whom she considered as "big brothers." A special cousin, Harley Cagle of Cache, OK, plus many more loving cousins and friends. Stephanie was predeceased by her father, Darrell Glenn Wilcoxson, in 2005; her maternal grandparents, Mr & Mrs Dale Ernst of Norman; paternal great-grandparents, Mr & Mrs Deward Cagle of Loveland, OK and Mr & Mrs Otto Wilcoxson of Chattanooga and Lawton, OK. Stephanie was a sixth grade student at Curtis Inge Middle School in Noble. She was a well mannered and loving eleven year old who loved people and animals. Her beautiful smile will be missed by all. Services will be held at First United Methodist Church, 1101 North Main, Blanchard, OK, on Thursday, December 31, 2009, at 11:00 am. Reverend Mark Watson will officiate, with Eisenhour Funeral Home, Blanchard, in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Oklahoman on Dec. 30, 2009.

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Donnie Clack

July 7, 2011

It's taken me a long time to leave this note. Stephanie, although we never got to know each other very well, I always thought of you as part of my family, because your dad and I were so close. I miss sending you presents, and hearing about how you are. It's been almost 2 years since you left us, but I still think about you and your dad all the time. Until we meet again....

Going West

Melissa Sanders

March 25, 2011

This girl was the most amazing friend a person could ever WISH to have, and so much more. she was so kind and always knew how to be. I miss her deeply, and yet I know that she is probably very much happy wherever she is. I send my thanks to the people who brought her into this world, and hope the best for them, even a year after her death.

Maggie Cagle

June 21, 2010

My daughter, Harley is Stephanie's cousin. They were the only girls in the family. Harley misses her deeply as they used to talk on the phone for hours. She talks about her all the time and she wishes she was here.She will forever be a part of our lives and we know she's in Heaven with her dad and Heavenly Father to comfort her. Our prayers are with her Grandparents, Uncle Keith and family.

February 19, 2010

stephanie was a real nice student to every one that she saw she would always look up to what god would tell her to do and every one always looked at her for what she has always done right she has been the one that is so so nice to her and everyone enjoyed having stephanie as a freind :) :)

kara lynn

February 19, 2010

stephanie wilcox was one of the best students in the world everyone was so so proud of her and everyone was always her freind ... when i heard about this tragedy i was so upset and i did not know what to do and this is just her temporary home we will all be there with her someday

jenna mize

February 19, 2010

im sorry for what happened . stephanie was a very sweet girl and i had p.e with her though . she didnt ever say much but i never new this would happen to someone like her. she was great student and very smart and i am really sorry . we all miss her. rest in peace -jenna

M

February 2, 2010

May the Lord bless and keep you, and may those that have gone before you hold you in their arms. We miss you, Always

Chelle

January 13, 2010

she is the best freind i ever had.she is very nice to me.

Pam Smith

January 5, 2010

To Janice and family,
I am so very sorry to learn of your precious daughter, Stephanie's death. I still have pictures of her that you sent me when she was little. I know she was all you had left in your life.
I pray that you find strengh to get you through each day. Janice please call if you need to talk. We have been friends and have grown up together since third grade. I love you and loved all your family very much.
My thought and prayers are with you.
Love,
pam

Kerrie

January 4, 2010

Our family is lifting Stephanies family up in prayer. I pray for you all strength and courage.
I did not know her personally, but my daughter did. She said what a kind sweet girl she was! My child is a 6th grader with Stephanie, on the last day of class before break my child noticed Stephanie getting a hersheys from the vending and splitting it between a few of her friends, celebrating another ones birthday...What a sweet, unselfish, thoughtful thing Stephanie did. One last moment of sharing...We are glad she left our family with a happy caring memory!

Mike & Tammy Borden

January 3, 2010

To all the family and friends who knew and loved Stephanie our prayers go out to you, where we did not get the pleasure to know her personally, we feel like we have missed out on a chance for her to touch our hearts as much as she has touched yours.

Harley Cagle

January 3, 2010

I love and miss you. i will remember our times together always. you are in my prayers.love Harley cagle

angela nolan

January 2, 2010

I've been Janices' ( Stephanies' mom) friend since we were twelve. I've known Stephanie since she was born,Stephanie was such a de3light to be around such a wonderfull girl. I remember teaching her about rolly polly bugs we had fun playing with them and swinging her in her swing when she was a todler . I will miss her so. her mother is devastated she didn't want to call the police right off because she couldent face yet another death Janice tried to die when she found her and Janice tied unsucsessfully to die with Stephanie she would never hurt Stephany she's all Janice had left and would do anythung for her I pray for Janice and you please pray too.

shannon Ware

January 2, 2010

I pray for the family of this beautiful girl. So many unanswered questions. So sad and tragic! I didn't know Stephanie but she has captured my heart and I pray that her family is able to heal and have peace.

A mother in Oklahoma

January 1, 2010

I will continue to pray for the Wilcoxsin family.
Be Blessed!
Stephanie's neighbor

Sandy

January 1, 2010

We did not know Stephanie,however my grand daughter attends the same school. We were both so sadden by the loss of such a young life. Stephanie,Family & Friends you are are in our thoughts, deepest synpathy.

December 31, 2009

I am so sorry for the loss of Stephanie. I pray the lord brings peace to all who knew and loved her.
A Mom in Arizona

December 31, 2009

I am so sorry for the loss of Stephanie. I pray the Lord brings peace to all who knew her and loved her.

karleigh aldridge

December 31, 2009

i did not know stephanie very well, all i know is that i am going to miss her alot she was a loving careing and loyal girl i knew her a little bit but not a hole lot she was in my 1st and 5th hour class she always turned her work in on time never got in trouble and was very mannerd she was always sharing her candy with everyone no matter who you were when i heard about this tragedy i was heart broken i was shaking and crying i will miss her alot.....karleigh aldridge{noble ok.}

Diane Azbell

December 30, 2009

I was so very sorry to hear about Stephanie's death. May God hold her in his arms and give her unending love now she has come home.

Cassie Huddleston

December 30, 2009

Stephanie was one of my students my first year teaching kindergarten. She always came to class with those bright blue eyes and a smile. My heart breaks for all who knew her. She was a very sweet young lady and she will be greatly missed. I treasure the fact that I was her teacher. God BLess.

Sanders Family

December 30, 2009

My daughter was a friend of Stephanie's and our family is taking this loss very hard. Our thoughts and prayers go out to her family; she was such a sweet girl. She will be missed. God bless.

Joe, Vanessa Prosha & Cord Courtney

December 30, 2009

Our deepest sympathy go out to all affected by this loss.

May God wrap his loving arms around you and hold you, giving you peace and security through this time of sorrow.

December 29, 2009

I am Stephanie's sixth grade English teacher. Oh, how we will miss her very much! I pray the Lord sends peace to all her dear friends, family, teachers, and people who knew her and loved Stephanie dearly. Please, find comfort and peace through the Lord. Draw him near to your heart.

"Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in Him."

Jeremiah 17:7

December 29, 2009

I am Stephanie's sixth grade English teacher. She was a pleasure to have in class--always so quiet and shy. She may have not spoken very much, but she loved her friends very much. I pray that God sends her friends and family much comfort during this very difficult time.

"Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in Him."

Jeremiah 17:7

V

December 29, 2009

I just hold some hope that she died peacefully. God bless this little girl for eternity.

Alexa Lynne

December 29, 2009

she will be greatly missed, my friends knew her :( May her family seek the faith and hope in God that they may need in their lifes

Kendall Hill

December 29, 2009

Words cannot express how feel. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time of such sorrow.

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