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In Memoriam Condolences

DENNIS SEIFERT March 10, 1957 - December 2, 2015 Dear Dennis, One year ago today, you went away peacefully. I knew you were fragile but I didn't know you would die. This year has been a sad adjustment without you and I have learned many things about people and life. I learned that when people asked me how I was doing, they really didn't want to hear the truth for the tears and sorrow made them uncomfortable. I learned to watch as time marched on and the world moved on without you while I stayed back to mourn. I'm learning to come home to an empty house after so many years of it being filled with your presence. I'm learning to get over the anger with myself of not quitting work to travel with you while you were able. I'm learning to deal with the resentment of putting my profession first to make a good retirement life for us and the daily realization that it was all in vain. I'm learning to put aside the resentment I feel for so called friends and family that didn't feel it important enough to attend your funeral. I'm learning to be happy for others that have what we had and to share in their joys. One of my greatest joys was to watch over you and care for you. I would quietly watch you sleep and cherish that intimate moment in your life and when you would cry, it broke my heart. Thanks for the pennies from heaven; they helped me feel your presence when loneliness was all encompassing. Together we weathered the storms of life and the many obstacles that were tossed in our path and I'm thankful we were able to share 8 years of marriage. Even when the ride got rough, we stood together for 27 years and never left each other's side. Thank you for those years of life and love together. You are the love of my life and will always be. Dennis was loved by Howard.

Published in Press-Enterprise on Dec. 2, 2016
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