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Pamela Raby Killian
Portsmouth - Pamela (Pam) Raby Killian, 50, passed away on January 18, 2013, at her home surrounded by family after a long battle with pancreatic cancer. Pam is the daughter of Sarah Owens Raby and Richard Sidney Raby, Jr. Pam volunteered as an EMT at the Bennett's Creek Rescue Squad in Suffolk, loved to craft, and enjoyed cooking.
Pam will be remembered by her estranged husband, Freddie Killian, Jr.; a daughter, Tara Dawn Keel Blanton (Jeff) and her father, James Keel, III; a son, Robert Scott Clark and a stepson, Jeffery Clark, Jr. and their father, Jeffery Clark, Sr.; mother and stepfather, John and Sarah Owens Languell; father and stepmother, Richard and Sherrie Raby; sisters, Debora Kay Raby Coffield (Cecil), Kimberly Kelly (Steve), Liz Todak (Troy), Allison Miller (Jake); brothers, Richard Raby, III (Barbara), and Shane Raby (Liz); a grandson Theodore Blanton, which was her pride and joy, her nieces and nephews and many other family and friends.
The family will receive friends Tuesday from 7 p.m. till 8:30 p.m. at Loving Funeral Home in Portsmouth. A memorial service will be held at Meadowbrook Memorial Gardens in Suffolk at Noon on Wednesday. Online condolences may be made at www.lovingfuneralhome.com.
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You were the best Avon lady year's ago.You always had that wonderful smile. When i saw you last you were so beautiful with that red hair You will be missed by so many.You were so loved by your family and friends. Donna Nichols/Hillard
Donna Nichols/Hillard
January 23, 2013
I haven't seen Pam in years but always smile when I think of her funny sense of humor. She always kept me laughing. I know that no words can ease your pain right now but I truly wish I could ease your burden. God has her in his hands now and she will watch over all of you forever....
Brenda Watt
January 23, 2013
I just wanted to say how sorry Iam to hear about Pam. I heard about her illness, & just couldnt believe it, I used to see her at the oysterete on crab leg night, when she would meet my mom & aunt Lori for a beverage. she always had a smile on her face, and a funny story to tell. You will be truly missed, by many. May god be with your family at this difficult time. and just know its not a good bye, but see you later,
Ciara Clark-Spears
January 22, 2013
With Sincerest Sympathy!
Heartland Hospice
Ashley C. Overman
Bereavement Coordinator
January 22, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, Pam was a special lady.
Rhonda and Noy Tate
January 22, 2013
We are deeply saddened to lose Pam (our niece), but rejoice in knowing she is in the arms of Jesus and we'll meet her again in Heaven one day. Though many miles prevent us from sharing our grief with our family, our hearts join theirs as Pam is laid to rest. As we find comfort and peace in our memories of Pam, we pray the same for our dear family.
Tom and Connie Raby
January 21, 2013
Shane , Kimmy and Uncle Richard I am so sorry and my thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow. love Diane
diane satterfield
January 21, 2013
Pam and I were childhood friends, I was so happy to find her when I moved back and got in contact with her. It hurt my heart to find her sick and I am so sorry for her family's loss...She was a wonderful person, and I will miss her. She is with wings now and looking over us all. I love and will miss you Pam
Melanie Walton
January 21, 2013
I went to high school with Pam.I have not seen her in 33 years but remember her as a very sweet and kind person. Rest in Peace Pam !
Rick Sands
January 21, 2013
DeeDee and Family, my deepest condolences go out to each and every one of you. May you find peace and comfort in the loving memories you all have of Pam. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Ms. Yorktown a/k/a Lori Riesbeck
January 21, 2013
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Richard(Ricky) Fisher
January 21, 2013
So sorry for your loss, Pam and I were friends in High School.
Elaine Spencer
January 21, 2013
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