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Dame Mary Sigillo Barraco obituary, Virginia Beach, VA

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Mary Barraco Obituary

Dame Mary Sigillo Barraco, 96, died peacefully in her home on December 6, 2019. She was a native of Lawrence, Massachusetts, and a resident of Virginia Beach since 1950. She was the daughter of the late Fortunato (Fred) and Leona Colpaert Sigillo McAvoy, and was preceded in death by her loving husband Joseph John Barraco.

Mary was a graduate of Verhaeren School, Santa Maria College, Renaix, Belgium, National Conservatory of Music and Drama, Renaix, Belgium, college Business, English, Mathematics, Rapid Reading, Norfolk, VA. She at the age of 7 moved to Belgium with her mother and at the age of 17 became a freedom fighter and joined the resistance with World War II on the horizon. She attained the rank of Captain and was a liaison officer for two Canadian regiments. She aided paratroopers in reaching safety and their units. She helped Jewish people to escape from the Nazis. She was engaged to another resistance fighter, Arthur Libre and both were later captured in France and jailed by the Nazis. Arthur was executed in 1943 while Mary remained in prison. Mary was moved to a number of prisons where she experienced torture, beatings, sterilization and confinement. She was most proud of the inscription she wrote on every wall of each prison, "It is only after you have lost your freedom that you appreciate its value". She was decorated by Prince Charles of Belgium in 1946 for her service in the war. Mary returned to the United States in 1946 and was protected daily by the F.B.I. after being threatened by the Nazis.

Mary was determined that her mission in life was to speak out about the tyranny of war. She spoke to thousands of schools and college students, numerous military groups, service and community organizations, church groups and political organizations. In 2004, Mary was Knighted in the Order of the Crown by order of King Albert II of Belgium and was awarded the title of Dame. She became involved in politics in Virginia working for the campaigns of Senator A. Joseph Canada, Senator John Warner, Congressman G. William Whitehurst, and Congressman Paul Trible.

Mary was a devote Roman Catholic and was a member of Star of the Sea Catholic Church

She is survived by her grandson, Leon I. Smith, V of Virginia Beach and several cousins, nephews and nieces.

The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Star of the Sea Catholic Church on Thursday, December 12, 2019 at 1:00 PM by the Reverend Father Esteban DeLeon. Entombment will be in Princess Anne Memorial Park. The family will receive friends in the funeral home, Wednesday evening from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM

Memorial donations may be made to The Children's Hospital of the Kings Daughters or the charity of the donor's choice. Online condolences may be sent to the family at hdoliver.com

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road chapel is handling arrangements.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Dec. 8, 2019.

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Thom Moriarty

December 2, 2024

We love and miss you Mary!!!!

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December 2, 2023

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Thom Moriarty

December 2, 2023

We miss our Mary!!!! But we know that she is in Heaven with her Joe and all of her family. We still talk about her frequently and will never forget her!!!! God bless you Mary!!!! Thom and Debbie Moriarty.

Thom Moriarty

December 2, 2022

Not a day goes by that we do not miss Mary and wish she was still here with us. But, we know she is in a better place and that she and Joe are reunited and watching over all of us.

Lorraine McCue

December 6, 2021

Can´t believe it´s been two years that you have been gone. There is not a day that goes by that your not in my thoughts. I love you Auntie Mary and miss you more than I can say.

Thom Moriarty

December 6, 2021

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Thom Moriarty

December 6, 2021

We miss you Mary but we take comfort knowing you are resting in peace with Our Father in Heaven and with Joe and your Mom and your other family members and friends. Your memory still inspires us each and every day. Rest in peace. Amen.

Rest In Peace dear friend.

Herman & Daisy Birdsong

December 29, 2019

She was a true hero in defense of freedom. She paid a terrible price in this fight, and she would have done it all over again. We all owe her our respect and our thanks.
We loved her, and so did our granddaughters. She spoke at our granddaughters school many years ago and made a great impact on the students.
She will be sorely missed.

Ginaq Sewter

December 23, 2019

Mary you will be remembered with love. Our family lost a wonderful woman. I will treasure the memories I have of our visits to your house in VA always. Love you doll! Rest in peace. You are now reunited with your beloved Joe.

Deborah Brin

December 16, 2019

Mary gave me the strength as a child to overcome adversity and to pass on her gifts to others!

Jeanne Leventis

December 14, 2019

May her memory be unforgettable and eternal.

Mary's Medal from Belgium Recognizing Her Service in The Resistance

Thom Moriarty

December 13, 2019

MaAry Loved Her Seafood

Thom Moriarty

December 13, 2019

Mary at The Lynnhave Fish House - 91st Birthday

Thom Moriarty

December 13, 2019

Mary on Her Back Porch

Thom Moriarty

December 13, 2019

Mary on Her 90th Birthday

Thom Moriarty

December 13, 2019

90th Birthday Banner

Thom Moriarty

December 13, 2019

Remembrance Service at the Cemetery

Thom Moriarty

December 12, 2019

Tribute at the Cemetery

Thom Moriarty

December 12, 2019

Onward to Her Final Resting Place

Thom Moriarty

December 12, 2019

Larry Volker

December 12, 2019

May God bless her friends and family in this most difficult time.

What a privilege to be able to meet and hear the story of this brave woman who sacrificed so much to fight tyranny. Her love of God/Country/Freedom was amazing and inspiring.
I will continue to share her story with others.

Janet Hancock

December 12, 2019

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Ronald Hoppe

December 11, 2019

Madame,Thank you so much for all you have done for my country. You will never be forgotten.Ronald HoppeLieutenant Colonel - Belgian Air Force

Elizabeth Blair

December 11, 2019

I have heard stories about Dame Mary from my late father-in-law, William Blair. He so enjoyed getting to know her and was so taken by her bravery . Our prayers are with you. No doubt, they have had a joyous reunion .

Arlan Delauw

December 10, 2019

Always in our heart
As close as a memory
May you find strength
In the love of your family
In the warm embrace
Of friends who walk beside you.
We love you for ever.
We will miss you

From Mary's Belgian family

Arlan, Anny, Arlette Delauw
Rita , Magda De Lange
Monique Vervaet
Eliane , Welly , Noël Hantson

Forever in Our Hearts

Cindee Nilson-Miller

December 9, 2019

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Lorraine McCue

Sent Flowers

Cecilia Kirsch

December 8, 2019

I remember her coming to Star of the Sea when I went to school there. She talked about how she helped free Jews in the concentration camp and that she was caught. She was the bravest woman I have ever known! My condolences go out to all her family & friends. May she rest in peace!

Mary in Belgium during WWII

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

My wife and I were with Mary when she left this earthly life. We were honored to be with her in the final hours of her long and glorious life. She passed without pain or anguish t the age of 96 with a look of peaceful contentment on her face. Her beloved grandson Lee was at her side in her home as she passed, which was in accordance with her wishes. She was the guest speaker at my retirement ceremony after serving for 24 years in the United States Navy. As she told her story of fighting the Nazis as a member of the Belgian Resistance during WWII, she left not a dry eye in the chapel. No one left that day without understanding the words she wrote on the wall of the cell The Gestapo held her in when she was captured with her fiancée on a Resistance mission: "It is only after we have lost our freedom that we appreciate its value." This is one of the reasons she is known as The Torchbearer of Freedom. She has borne the burden of defending freedom and has had it forcibly taken away from her by forces under the control of a dictator!

Mary in Belgium During WWII

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

Her Courage and Bravery During WWII Helped Keep America Free

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

Mary on Her 96th Birthday 9-1-2019

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

Mary Sigillo Barraco - The Torchbearer of Freedom

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

Mary in Belgium During WWII

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

The Torchbearer of Freedom

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

Since I was there with Mary when she passed in her home on Friday evening, I want to assure all of those who know and love Mary that she passed peacefully without any signs of pain or distress. She left this world in accordance with her wishes - in her home that she shared with "her Joe." At her bedside was her beloved grandson Lee. She had friends present - my wife and I among them. She simply stopped breathing and had a look of peaceful contentment upon her face as she left this earthly life. Weep not, for she is in Heaven with "her Joe," and all of her beloved family and friends that have gone before her. Treasure her memory and tell her story to others because as long as we do so, Mary still lives with us. May God rest her soul! Amen.

Mary in Belgium WWII

Thom Moriarty

December 8, 2019

Since I was there with Mary when she passed in her home on Friday evening, I want to assure all of those who know and love Mary that she passed peacefully without any signs of pain or distress. She left this world in accordance with her wishes - in her home that she shared with "her Joe." At her bedside was her beloved grandson Lee. She had friends present - my wife and I among them. She simply stopped breathing and had a look of peaceful contentment upon her face as she left this earthly life. Weep not, for she is in Heaven with "her Joe," and all of her beloved family and friends that have gone before her. Treasure her memory and tell her story to others because as long as we do so, Mary still lives with us. May God rest her soul! Amen.

Neal Williams

December 8, 2019

I well remember the presentation Mrs. Barraco gave to our high school history class in the mid 1970s at First Colinial High in Virginia Beach. Her story was both heart rending and terrifying at the same time. It spoke to the horrors of Nazi controlled Europe in the 1930s and 40s, but could apply just as easily to conditions that exist in our world today. She changed my life and my way of thinking 40 years ago when I was but just a teen and I'm a better person today for having met her. She was a gift from God to all who would hear her message. God bless and keep her soul.

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