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Melinda Lukei Obituary

Melinda Jones Lukei, 81, of Virginia Beach, VA, died peacefully at home September 8, 2019. She was the daughter of Alvah Jones and Every Williams of Knotts Island, NC.

Melinda is survived by her husband of 61 years Reese Lukei, Jr, daughter Debra Williams, sons Reese (Rick) Lukei, III and David Lukei, sister Deanna Martin, granddaughter Heather Miller, and grandsons Zildjian Lukei and Sabian Lukei.

Melinda was the leading regional genealogist having a life-long interest in the history of the families that settled Princess Anne County, VA and Knotts Island, NC where her ancestors first arrived in the 1630's. She was the author of 136 books on their families, births, marriages, and deaths. Most of her books have been donated to the Virginia Beach Central Library. She was a founder of the Virginia Beach Genealogy Society in 1983.

Despite having asthma all her life she was an active traveler and hiker. Melinda hiked in all 50 U.S. States, every Province and Territory of Canada. In addition she hiked in more than 60 countries and places such as the North Pole and Antarctica. She was life member No. 1 in the Tidewater Appalachian Trail Club, was a founding life member of the American Discovery Trail Society, and life member of the Appalachian Trail Conservancy.

She leaves many friends and loved ones - her 1956 Princess Anne High School classmates, genealogy researchers, hiking companions, bald eagle monitors, and staff and volunteers at Back Bay National Wildlife Refuge.

A memorial service will be held at a later time. Melinda knitted hundreds of baby sweater sets for Newborns In Need South Hampton Roads. She would love for any remembrance donations to be made to Newborns in Need 957 N. Haven Circle, Chesapeake, VA 23322. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hollomon-brown.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 10, 2019.

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Paula Klice

December 18, 2019

Melinda supported and shared her husbands love of the outdoors and hiking. The HikaNation website recognizes her volunteerism and participation in the historic crosscountry group hike across America.

Cindy Burke and I visited her and Reese earlier this spring and enjoyed reminiscing with her. A beautiful, intelligent and caring woman, she is fondly rememberd by many and now hikes the clouds and trails up in heaven.

CAPT Gary M Andres, USN (ret)

November 15, 2019

I am so sorry, Reese, and family.....to just find out of Melinda's passing. I met her briefly, years ago, as a Biological Technician at Back Bay NWR. A few years later, I met her while I was the Refuge Manager at Mackay Island NWR. It was obvious from those brief meetings, that she was a talented, caring and very special woman. Now retired, I recently attempted the Appalachian Trail.....her efforts for that Trail and the supporting organizations.... live on. And that, is one helluva fine legacy. Again, Reese, my long ago friend, raptor instructor and a very-special colleague, my thoughts and prayers.

September 15, 2019

Dear Rick, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. She will always be with you; watching over you and your family from above. My mother, who is now 92, also sends her condolences and remembers your mother as a true sweetheart.
God bless you, Lisa and Shirley Marlow

Rod Mann

September 11, 2019

Melinda made a huge difference in the life of me and my family by making a decision to trust us almost 50 years ago with something that was very close to her own history. She made a positive difference in many people's lives in partnership with her husband, Reese.

Diane Gray

September 11, 2019

I was saddened when I saw Melinda's obit in the newspaper. We met in the early '80s. She was a fabulous genealogist and did a lot of work in furtherance of the old Princess Anne County families' history. She will be sorely missed in the genealogy community. My thoughts and prayers to her husband, Reese, and her family.

Mark Bennardo

September 11, 2019

To Mr. Lukei and family,

Sending condolences and prayers to you.
The Lukeis were always very kind to me.
Just try to take life one step, one day at
a time. Please take good care of yourselves.

Love and blessings from,

Mark A. Bennardo
1976 Eagle Scout
Troop 481

September 11, 2019

Melinda was an amazing woman. Our hearts go out to Reese and her other family members.
Karen Forget and everyone at LRNow

Barbara McCane

September 11, 2019

Reese and family. My deepest sympathy on your loss. I send my prayers.

Barbara McCane

Arlene O'Donnell

September 10, 2019

A truly grand lady! May God Bless her family & friends as they remember all the wonderful memories she has left us.

Kenny Mathews

September 10, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Janie Blassingham

September 10, 2019

I didn't know her well, but I know she was there to meet us at the end of a long hike down Mt. Katahdin, very late and in the dark, with the face of an angel! She provided transportation, food, water and good will. A supportive and very special lady. Condolences to Reese and her family.

Darlene Grass

September 10, 2019

I am so so sorry to hear of Melinda's passing, my heart hurts for you Reese and family! Know that there are many of us who will be praying for your family!

Marianne Kleber

September 10, 2019

What an amazing woman. My sincere sympathy to Reese and their family.

Malcolm Higgins

September 10, 2019

Melinda was a marvelous woman, who I knew for 43 years. Her love of all her family and friends was remarkable. As one of the very first members of the Tidewater Appalachian Trail Club [TATC], going back to almost its founding, she participated in innumerable events of trail building, maintenance of the Appalachian Trail, and other outdoor projects with Reese, her husband. Once, on a freezing cold winter outing to Canaan Valley, West Virginia, with TATC, she was wearing two hats, much to the great amusement of my toddler daughter, who thought it was hilarious--an event that still brings a smile to my face. She carried a spirit of adventure that never left her. All of us will miss her greatly.

Lila Davis

September 10, 2019

So sorry to hear of Melinda's passing. She was a great lady who will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Peggy Bryan

September 10, 2019

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to Reese and the family. I am so very sorry to learn of Melinda's passing. My family is one that benefited from her amazing genealogical research. She will be missed.

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