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1955

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2019

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Stephen Carpenter Obituary

Suffolk - Stephen J. Carpenter passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Saturday June 1, 2019. He was born in Virginia Beach, VA on May 6, 1955 and was a 1973 graduate of Granby High School. He retired from Norfolk Naval Shipyard in 2006. He is predeceased by his mother and father Addie Ruth and Judson Westfall Carpenter. He is survived by his wife of 43 years, Cynthia M. Carpenter; children Heather Dunlow (Will), Roger Carpenter (Jessica), Christopher Carpenter, Kristina Laws (Chris); grandchildren, Zoey Carpenter, Brennan Dunlow, CJ Laws, Brody Carpenter, Tanner Dunlow and Scarlett Carpenter. Stephen loved to fish and hunt, and was known in the softball community as Spaceman, because he could hit the ball to space. In retirement, he enjoyed the role of grandfather and was incredibly proud of all of his children and grandchildren. Visitation will be at Sturtevant Funeral Home, Bennetts Creek Chapel, Suffolk, on Tuesday, June 4, from 6-8 PM. Funeral service will be at the funeral home on Wednesday at 2 PM. www.SturtevantFH.com

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 4, 2019.

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June 28, 2019

steve was the best. he loved and adored his wife cindy and all his children. he was the best boss you could hope for.he mentored so many people we went on to have great lives because of him. i knew the man for over 40 years. he alway's gave a person a second chance even if they were in the wrong. he was as strong as two people. i was so lucky in 1982 t o watch him and dewey fussell, cheese hill, cold beer greene, d.c. holdley, jimmy the ant man and numerous others bring a championship to nnsy shop 99 22-0. this has never happened again. this was all lead by steve carpenter. i think thing i'm going to miss the most is his great smile. you were a man among men. miss you brother russell.

Patti Fuller

June 9, 2019

So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I have very fond memories of working with him in the shipyard. He will be certainly missed! Prayers to the family.

June 5, 2019

Losing someone that we love never comes easy.
It is truly heartbreaking. May God's promises in
Isaiah 65:17 comfort and help you.

Michelle Norman

June 4, 2019

We are sorry for your loss. My dad (Rick Posey) worked with Steve and played softball with him many years ago. He enjoyed Steve's company and thought a lot of him. We are thinking of you during this difficult time.

June 4, 2019

My deepest sympathies to the Carpenter family. I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. May God's loyal love give you a measure of comfort during this time of sadness, Psalms 119:76.

Kim Galbreath

June 4, 2019

Dear Cindy and family. I am so sorry for your loss. I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. May all your happy memories of Stephen bring you comfort.

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Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Sturtevant Funeral Home - Bennetts Creek Chapel

2690 Bridge Road , Suffolk, VA 23435

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5

Funeral service

2:00 p.m.

Sturtevant Funeral Home - Bennetts Creek Chapel

2690 Bridge Road , Suffolk, VA 23435

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