ESTHER SCHWARTZ LAPIDUSS

1920 - 2016

ESTHER SCHWARTZ LAPIDUSS obituary, 1920-2016, Pittsburgh, PA

ESTHER SCHWARTZ LAPIDUSS

1920 - 2016

ESTHER LAPIDUSS Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 27, 2016.
LAPIDUSS
ESTHER SCHWARTZ
Well-known Pittsburgh personality, nightclub entertainer, singer, and actor, passed away peacefully on November 22, 2016, in Los Angeles.
Born in Donora, Pennsylvania in 1920, Esther spent most of her life in and around Squirrel Hill. Daughter of Saul and Gertrude Schwartz, Esther grew up during the Great Depression, and attended Taylor Allderdice High School, where in 2010, she was voted a Distinguished Alumni.
Esther's father, a tailor, worked for many of the local theaters in the 1930s and 1940s, making and mending their curtains and drapes. He would often take young Esther along with him to the Nixon, and other vaudeville and burlesque palaces of the day, where she would sit backstage and watch the acts with great delight while he worked. It was also in these surroundings that young Esther got a liberal sex education from the scantily clad chorus girls who would discuss such things as they applied their makeup and slipped the kid some money for candy. A sharp contrast to her Orthodox Jewish upbringing, this environment quickly captivated her and she was bitten by the show biz bug.
Esther attended classes at the University of Pittsburgh, and also graduated from beauty college. In her 20s, she worked at the cosmetics counter at Kaufmann's Department Store, and began entertaining at local venues like the famed Pittsburgh Playhouse and Kramer's Nightclub. Esther spent an impactful summer as the social director at the legendary Concord Hotel in the Catskills during its heyday in the late '40s. There she met and worked with many of the great entertainers of the day.
She returned to Pittsburgh to marry Saul Lapiduss (aka Saul Doll), and soon after, they opened Forbes Travel Service in Squirrel Hill. Esther was also a notable hostess, and the family home was always open to a colorful cast of characters. Their "Night After Thanksgiving Party" drew a mix of locals-from educators to drag queens to politicians, all hungry for Esther's home cooking and a great story.
Esther loved people, and her true calling was performing and uplifting others. Over the years, she appeared at the Pittsburgh Playhouse, the Civic Light Opera, Beck's Charter Oaks, Ben Gross', and in the '60s and '70s was an opening act for Phyllis Diller, Henny Youngman, Joan Rivers, Vic Damone, Buddy Greco, and many others at the famed Holiday House Supper Club.
With her compatriots in comedy and song, Bob McCully and Joe Negri, she formed the Ecumenical Trio, and they traveled the tri-state area performing unique satirical and topical reviews to packed audiences. Esther also appeared in their summer review shows, which launched the careers of many notables including Albert Brooks, and Broadway veterans Betty Aberlin and George Ball. Esther often collaborated with other local legends, including impresario Don Brockett, writer Janice Friedman, former Squirrel Hill native Iris Dart (Beaches), and too many more to name.
In the 1970s, Esther was the entertainment reporter at WIIC TV, then Pittsburgh's NBC affiliate. Her interviews with various visiting luminaries such as Gloria Swanson, Robert Mitchum, Gene Kelly, and Jimmy Stewart, to name just a few, were incisive and charming. She also was a frequent call-in guest on former Mayor Pete Flaherty's KQV Radio Show, and co-hosted a weekly show with local legend and friend Chilly Billy Cardille for several years.
A gifted storyteller and writer, Esther spent her later years writing reviews and columns for various local newspapers, and for several years worked for the Allegheny County Parks Department as the "parks lady," visiting schools all over the county to spread the word about ecology and their model Round Hill Farm.
Esther was also a tireless volunteer for many charities and organizations including the National Council of Jewish Women, Ladies Hospital Aid Society, B'nai B'rith, and the Jewish Home and Hospital for the Aged, and was one of the founding Board members of Pittsburgh Aids Task Force.
She was a member of Temple Sinai and later, Rodef Shalom. In their early 80s, she and Saul moved to Palm Springs to be closer to their children. There, Esther became very active in the Palm Springs chapter of PEN Women, and entertained as much as possible. After Saul's passing, Esther moved to Los Angeles at age 90, where she was an active and vibrant member of the community at the Village of Sherman Oaks. Even then, she continued performing her one-woman shows that were standing walker room only!
A celebration of Esther Lapiduss' life will take place in Pittsburgh at a later date, and today, November 27, 2016, at the home of her daughter, Maxine, in Los Angeles.
Esther is survived by her two daughters, Sally Lapiduss (Francesca Bartoccini) and Maxine Lapiduss (Hillary Carlip), both comedy writers who owe much of their success to the expert timing, comic abilities, generosity of spirit, and humor exhibited by Big Es and Saul Doll.
Donations may be made to the Saul H. and Esther Lapiduss Arts Education Fund: JCC OF GREATER PITTSBURGH, 5738 Forbes Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA 15217.

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November 21, 2019

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Ken Curley

November 21, 2019

Esther Lapiduss and her impact to me are as vivid today as they were years ago. She wasn't in show business, she WAS show business!

The spirit of the great vaudeville and nightclub entertainers like Sophie Tucker, Eddie Cantor and many others of that generation somehow took up residence in the soul and the person of our "Big Es." How blessed all of us were who were the recipients of the effervescence she possessed!

In addition to all of this, she was a stylish lady, a gracious hostess, a devoted wife, and a loving mother. Who says you can't have it all? Esther proved that statement false on a daily basis.

Once a Headliner, always a Headliner. Hopefully, Esther is now wowing the Saints in the "Heavenly Hippodrome!" Brava, dear friend.
Ken Curley

December 11, 2016

Although it's bee years since I have seen your mom sing at my sister Deena's wedding we still have great memories. Sorry for your loss. Cousin Debra Levenson Thaler

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December 6, 2016

Sally and Maxine, Both Esther and Saul were "grandparents" to our children. We have missed beautiful Esther since she has been gone to CA. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers as we grieve her passing. There is so much to celebrate about Esther. Hers was a life well lived but more importantly well loved. You were the joy in her life. Her ability to bring laughter and her stories will be with us forever. We were blessed to have known her.

Just had to share this photo as she was so wonderful with the kids and LOVED that Savanna could never take life too seriously either!

In peace,
Teri and Damian Soffer

Carol Snyder-Niren

December 5, 2016

I have the most wonderful memories of Es. She was a fixture in Squirrel Hill when we raised our daughters. Always made me smile and laugh, loved sharing Broadway tidbits with her, Saul doll and Es were gracious and kind to our family. I am so saddened to read of her death, may her memory be a blessing, deepest condolences and love to Sally and Maxine. Carol Snyder Niren

Winkie Miller O'Brien

December 5, 2016

Truly a legend; Esther was one of a kind. I have so many memories of her as we did many shows together. She will be missed.

Winkie

Ken Curley

November 28, 2016

Esther said I was her last living co-star. I don't know if that's true, but she has been a friend for many years, as well as a star with whom I appeared many years ago.

She really was the last of a "breed" of performer. Cut from the pattern of past vaudeville luminaries like Fanny Brice, Eddie Cantor, al Jolson, and Sophie Tucker, Esther worked and worked until she got the laugh and sold the song.

She knew and connected with her audience, and they with her; an unbeatable combination! What a privilege to have shared a stage with her!

I was with her two weeks prior to her death, and although frail, she never missed a beat; her timing was terrific! Once more, we were "on" and it was great! Yes, her passing is an "end of an era here," but I have a feeling that the occupants of Heaven are much now more entertained with the arrival of "Big Es!" Brava!

My love and prayers to dear Sally and Maxine who are left here to carry on.

Audrey Glickman

November 28, 2016

Sally and Maxine, may her memory be a lasting blessing, and may she be bound in eternity, and may you both go on living in her honor. All our sympathy.

Patti Deutsch

November 27, 2016

ADD a memory?
Who could forget?
She was a one and only and I will miss her.
With love
Patti Deutsch

Michele Bensen

November 27, 2016

Esther Lapiduss, funny lady, comedian, wife, mother, entertainer extraordinaire has left the building but she left her laughter and love in our hearts forever. Esther had a way with people, she brought people together and found joy and fun in doing just about anything. Never afraid to speak her mind, which wasn't always easy to take, but she was truthful and always meant well. She loved her daughters and her wonderful husband Saul "Doll", because he was a real doll and he loved Big Es. I'm so grateful to have had her and her family in our lives. An era has ended now. My daughter Wendy Bensen and I send our sincere, heart felt condolences to her daughters, Sally & Maxine Lapiduss and family. Rest in Peace dear Esther.

November 27, 2016

I was very saddened to read of the passing of an iconic Pgh. entertainment legend. Please accept my condolences on your loss. - Jeff Pollock, Esq., Sq. Hill

Ann Ratner

November 27, 2016

Ester was a wonderful person. She would come into our store and time stood still. She made you feel like she knew you forever. Always with a smile and kind word. She loved her family and her life. Heaven welcomed another angel.

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