1920 - 2016
1920 - 2016
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Ken Curley
November 21, 2019
Esther Lapiduss and her impact to me are as vivid today as they were years ago. She wasn't in show business, she WAS show business!
The spirit of the great vaudeville and nightclub entertainers like Sophie Tucker, Eddie Cantor and many others of that generation somehow took up residence in the soul and the person of our "Big Es." How blessed all of us were who were the recipients of the effervescence she possessed!
In addition to all of this, she was a stylish lady, a gracious hostess, a devoted wife, and a loving mother. Who says you can't have it all? Esther proved that statement false on a daily basis.
Once a Headliner, always a Headliner. Hopefully, Esther is now wowing the Saints in the "Heavenly Hippodrome!" Brava, dear friend.
Ken Curley
December 11, 2016
Although it's bee years since I have seen your mom sing at my sister Deena's wedding we still have great memories. Sorry for your loss. Cousin Debra Levenson Thaler

Awkward family photo!
December 6, 2016
Sally and Maxine, Both Esther and Saul were "grandparents" to our children. We have missed beautiful Esther since she has been gone to CA. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers as we grieve her passing. There is so much to celebrate about Esther. Hers was a life well lived but more importantly well loved. You were the joy in her life. Her ability to bring laughter and her stories will be with us forever. We were blessed to have known her.
Just had to share this photo as she was so wonderful with the kids and LOVED that Savanna could never take life too seriously either!
In peace,
Teri and Damian Soffer
Carol Snyder-Niren
December 5, 2016
I have the most wonderful memories of Es. She was a fixture in Squirrel Hill when we raised our daughters. Always made me smile and laugh, loved sharing Broadway tidbits with her, Saul doll and Es were gracious and kind to our family. I am so saddened to read of her death, may her memory be a blessing, deepest condolences and love to Sally and Maxine. Carol Snyder Niren
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Winkie Miller O'Brien
December 5, 2016
Truly a legend; Esther was one of a kind. I have so many memories of her as we did many shows together. She will be missed.
Winkie
Ken Curley
November 28, 2016
Esther said I was her last living co-star. I don't know if that's true, but she has been a friend for many years, as well as a star with whom I appeared many years ago.
She really was the last of a "breed" of performer. Cut from the pattern of past vaudeville luminaries like Fanny Brice, Eddie Cantor, al Jolson, and Sophie Tucker, Esther worked and worked until she got the laugh and sold the song.
She knew and connected with her audience, and they with her; an unbeatable combination! What a privilege to have shared a stage with her!
I was with her two weeks prior to her death, and although frail, she never missed a beat; her timing was terrific! Once more, we were "on" and it was great! Yes, her passing is an "end of an era here," but I have a feeling that the occupants of Heaven are much now more entertained with the arrival of "Big Es!" Brava!
My love and prayers to dear Sally and Maxine who are left here to carry on.
Audrey Glickman
November 28, 2016
Sally and Maxine, may her memory be a lasting blessing, and may she be bound in eternity, and may you both go on living in her honor. All our sympathy.
Patti Deutsch
November 27, 2016
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She was a one and only and I will miss her.
With love
Patti Deutsch
Michele Bensen
November 27, 2016
Esther Lapiduss, funny lady, comedian, wife, mother, entertainer extraordinaire has left the building but she left her laughter and love in our hearts forever. Esther had a way with people, she brought people together and found joy and fun in doing just about anything. Never afraid to speak her mind, which wasn't always easy to take, but she was truthful and always meant well. She loved her daughters and her wonderful husband Saul "Doll", because he was a real doll and he loved Big Es. I'm so grateful to have had her and her family in our lives. An era has ended now. My daughter Wendy Bensen and I send our sincere, heart felt condolences to her daughters, Sally & Maxine Lapiduss and family. Rest in Peace dear Esther.
November 27, 2016
I was very saddened to read of the passing of an iconic Pgh. entertainment legend. Please accept my condolences on your loss. - Jeff Pollock, Esq., Sq. Hill
Ann Ratner
November 27, 2016
Ester was a wonderful person. She would come into our store and time stood still. She made you feel like she knew you forever. Always with a smile and kind word. She loved her family and her life. Heaven welcomed another angel.
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