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Kelly D. Harrington
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Kelly Harrington Obituary
Of Spring Hill on Monday, May 11, 2009; beloved son of Tee Harrington & the late Dennis C. Harrington, Esq.; life partner of Stacey DeYo; loving brother of Mike Harrington, Ena Harrington, Lisa Bulger (Jack), Shawn Harrington (Aida), Moira Harrington, Erin Harrington (Howard Shure), Pegin Foglia (Bill) & Myles Harrington (Julie); uncle of Satya, Nahdia, Sahara, Tegar (Dennis), Deyllen, Deryl, Jesse, Natalie, Colleen, Tobias, Nora, Kieran, Dennis & Maurin. Friends received Thursday 1-9 p.m. & Friday 10-11:30 a.m. at the T.B. DEVLIN FUNERAL HOME, 806 Perry Highway, North Hills. Mass of Christian Burial in St. Alexis Church, Wexford, Friday 12 Noon. Interment Private. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Little Sisters of the Poor, 1028 Benton Ave. Pgh Pa. 15212.
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TOM GRAZIANI
October 15, 2009
To the entire Harrington Family,
Although we only knew Kelly from Tessaro's, we were saddened to learn of his passing,along with your father. Our condolences and prayers to all. Rest assured that in our future visits to Tessaro's, Kelly's spirit will endure.
June 20, 2009
We are from out of town and just heard about Kelly's passing while visiting Tessaros. Kelly was always very nice and treated us well during our visits to his great restaurant. We will miss him. Our sympathy goes out to the Harrington family and his "Tessaros" family.
Rita and Doug from Butler, Pa.
June 14, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I loved Kelly and Dennis. You are and always will be my extended family. Love
Jeff Conlee Houston, Tx.
May 30, 2009
Tee and Ena and the rest of the Harrington Family I am so sorry for your loss. Love, Tiffany
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Jack Klein
May 28, 2009
To the Harrington Family.
We were saddened to hear of the loss of both father and son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
BRUCE
May 23, 2009
SO VERY SORRY FOR LOSS STACEY, I KOWN YOU WILL BE WITH YOUR LIFE LONG PARTER ONE DAY. EACH AND EVERY DAY IS LONG,SAD AND HARD FOR YOU,AS I LOSS MY PARTER A YEAR AGO. GOD BESS KELLY
Jack & Sue Shilling
May 19, 2009
To Tee and the Harrington Family:
May your many beautiful memories be a constant source of strength to you at this most difficult time. Please accept our sincere sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
brian, jamie, stephen , tyler yurko
May 16, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Pat Geyer
May 16, 2009
I was saddened to here of Kelly and his Dad's passing. Kelly was a connection in Pittsburgh that I always kept alive when I was in town. He always made me feel special when he would sit down with my family and me at the restaurant. I came to know him as a true friend. I will sorely miss him. My condolences go out the Harrington Family
Kathy Bann Figurski
May 15, 2009
To the Harringtons:
I was so sad to hear about Kelly and your Dad...what an unimaginable loss.
Kelly and I were the best of friends from St Sebastian's through college. One of my outstanding memories involves both of these dear Harrington men. My first date was with Kelly, going to a semi formal dance. Your dad, was our "driver" and fully acted the part. As Kelly came to the door to get me, your dad, dressed as a chauffer, was standing at the car, holding the back door open for us. He made the night so special.
After I moved from Pgh, I only saw Kelly a few times and happily, the last time was last fall. We always had a great laugh reminiscing about our youthul shenanigans!!
I have so many memories of your family that I have shared with my own: the dog named Dammit, the year round Christmas tree, and the telephone booth inside the house, just to name a few. My son said he believes our family style is rooted in the Harrington style. For that, I thank you.
I pray that the strength and love of that Harrington family will provide some comfort for you now at this most trying time.
Hud & Shirl
May 15, 2009
To the Harrington family & the Tessaro's "family", we are so sorry & shocked to hear of your tremendous loss. Kelly's smile & geniune concern always made our visits to Tessaro's even more enjoyable. He will be sadly missed!!!
Melissa and David Bernstein
May 15, 2009
Kelly touched so many who walked through the doors of Tessaro's. His kind face and welcoming personality were a beacon of light in Pittsburgh. We turned all our "out of towners" on to the best burgers in Pittsburgh! We raised our two girls at the front window table and were greeted like family whenever we stopped in. Our hearts go out to the Harrington family for their terrible losses and to the entire Tessaro's "family".
joe and rose bushofsky
May 15, 2009
To the Harrington Family: Our sympathies are with the family in your time of sorrow. Kelly will be remembered in our thoughts and prayers. He was a wonderful person and a great competitor and we will miss our visits to his restaurant when we are in pittsburgh. There are no words that can ease your pain but know that he and his father are together in a better place.
May 15, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Harrington family. We always looked forward to being greeted by Kelly at the restaurant and the great conversations revolving around sports and travel. He will be truly missed.
Jim and Nancy Stranko Pittsburgh PA
Kitty Greenhalgh
May 14, 2009
My deepest and sincerest sympathies go out to the Harrington Family this is surely a trying time for faith. I only knew Kelly from the restaurant and through Stacey. He was a lovely man and will be deeply missed. I am sorry for your losses
Amy Carlson
May 14, 2009
My deepest sympathy to the Harringtons and their extended Tessaro's Family on your tragic loss. I will greatly miss seeing Kelly and hearing him quietly thank me for my business as I left the restaurant. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
May 14, 2009
Dear Ena, I was sorry to learn of the death of your dad and your brother Kelly. I was a big fan of Kelly because we shared a strong interest in Pittsburgh sports. I loved that photo behind the bar showing Garfield great Harry Greb in action. I loved telling people about Tessaro's and the great food. Keep the lights on at Tessaro's. It's a legacy to your family. Best wishes, Jim O'Brien, Pittsburgh sports author, Upper St. Clair, Pa.
Linda Pittenger
May 14, 2009
Dear Ena and Harrington Family. My husband and I were sadden by learning about Kelly when we were at the restaurant a week ago. I can remember when we first moved here 28 years ago from Florida and stopped into your restaurant. We sat at the bar and Kelly offered me ribs and salad to try. I thought what a kind and generous person. Well the rest is history. We are now moving back to Florida and we will take with us fond memories of him . He always took care of us. And Ena we also enjoyed our talks with you about Italy. We will keep you in our prayers during this difficult time.
MJ Meenen
May 14, 2009
Kelly was someone who loved life and lived it to the fullest. I have only happy memories of being around him--his joy, sense of humor, level head, generous heart & great spirit....were on full display whether working or playing. And his story telling abilities are matched by none.
He was a true gem--Rest in Peace Kelly.
My heart goes out to the Harrington family and friends.
Jeff Dutkovic, '71
May 14, 2009
To my dear friend of 42 years, Kelly we will miss you. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Harrington Family for the sad loss of a father and son. The love and respect of your friends will be with you, always.
Elizabeth & Bobby NEEMES McKerracher
May 14, 2009
Tee and Family
Not only did my husband Bobby and I love coming to Tessaro's for the wonderful food but we loved to chat with Kelly.
We will miss Denise and Kelly dearly.
You are all in our prayers
cherished all the wonderul memories of these two wonderful men. My deepest sympathy to all.
Please accept our sincere condolences.
My scottish husband and Kelly loved to have a pint together
Lori and John Skender/Balsley
May 14, 2009
Dear Erin and the Harrington Family, We are so sad to hear the news. Over the years John (Balsley) would tell me stories and each one ended with a laugh and comment on what a great person Kelly was. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this sad time.
Heidi Siegle
May 14, 2009
All of my 'big' moments have always been celebrated at Tessaro's...not just because of the great atmosphere, but because of Kelly. When I would travel home, I would look forward to nothing more than to stop by and see him! Kelly has created so many unforgettable family memories for my parents, my brother and myself. He will live forever in every picture we have and every story we tell!
George Heid
May 14, 2009
Dear Harrington's, I was privileged and blessed to know Kelly and appreciate what a super wonderful person he was... and he truly didn't fall far from the family tree. I wish to extend my condolences to all his family and dear friends. He will be missed greatly
Lee Knepshield
May 14, 2009
You wouldn't have to talk to Kelly very long to know about his feelings for family, the restaurant and Villanova. Always ready to "take care of me" getting a seat on a busy night. And Dennis was so politely intelligent about the law. My thoughts are with the family.
Leslie Hellman
May 14, 2009
Dear Harrington Family:
My Daughter told me tonight of Kelly's passing. We were devastated. My daughter and son enjoyed seeing him and speaking with him every time I was in town. Living in Arizona and being removed my visits were few. When I lived in Pittsburgh, I looked forward to Tessaro's and seeing Kelly's smiling face and the staffs. Kelly made them most memorable. Our sincere condolences to the entire family. We will remember Kelly in our hearts.
You are in our prayers
Leslie N Hellman
Jack Butler
May 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the Harrington Family at this very sad time. I'll never forget Kelly's kindness and friendship to me when I was a young kid from Pittsburgh starting college at Villanova.
May 13, 2009
Dear Harrington Family,
Please accept our sincere sympathy for your tragic loss. From nights at The Park House with Ena and Kelly or a great meal at Tessaro's we were always welcomed with open arms just like we were part of the family. We will continue to hold you up in prayer.
Joani Russ and Shane McCormack
John Arnold
May 13, 2009
To the Family, I only know Ena & Kelly but no better people have impressed me as honest, down to earth, trustworthy, hardworking & friendly. I will miss Kelly's smiling face, his laugh, and friendly outlook to everyone. God bless you Kelly, as you sit next to God making him laugh & talk sports...I will miss you, my friend....your Firefighter "pool" guy..John Arnold
May 13, 2009
The Harrington's, Fred and Stacey:
Words can't express the loss that we feel. We do not pretend to understand how you feel. We know you know what Kelly meant to us. We will forever be grateful for his friendship.
Love,
Toni and Bill Brundage
LARRY ORNDOFF
May 13, 2009
TEE, ENA AND THE HARRINGTON FAMILY, SINCE I HAVE BEEN GOING TO TESSARO'S FOR MANY MANY YEARS, MY HEART IS FILLED WITH SADDNESS FOR THE ENTIRE FAMILY BUT I KNOW THERE ARE IN A BETTER PLACE WAITING FOR ALL OF US TO MEET THEM IN THE FUTURE. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND KEEP ALL OF THOSE GREAT MEMORIES IN OUR HEARTS UNTIL WE MEET WITH THEM AGAIN...LOVE YOU ALL LARRY R ORNDOFF
Kathie Ferraro
May 13, 2009
Dear Harrington Family and Tessaro staff,
Like everyone who has enjoyed the food and hospitality of Tessaro's, I am shocked and saddened by this loss. Tessaro's represents the best of Pittsburgh small business: world class products and services with great regard for the the community and employees.
You are in my thoughts.
David and Patti Ann Thomas
May 13, 2009
Our deepest sympathies to the Harrington family. Kelly was a teammate, fellow actor and friend and always treated you as his special friend and made you feel important. God Bless Mr. Harrington.
Susan Devlin
May 13, 2009
Tee and Family,
My heart is so sad with the news of Kelly so quickly on the heels of the tragic news of Dennis. This has to be so difficult for all of you, I can not even fathom how you are coping. You are all in my prayers to have God guide you through your sorrow and into the light of cherished memories of these two wonderful men. My deepest sympathy to all.
Dan Musher
May 13, 2009
My deepest sympathies on Kelly's passing. His hospitality will be missed by us all. Your family is in my prayers as you cope with the loss of Kelly and Dennis.
Geoff Frankovich
May 13, 2009
Dear Harrington Family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of Kelly. We not only were classmates at North Catholic (71), but over the years became very good friends.
I know he will be missed by all.
Bob and Hatti Topolnak
May 13, 2009
Dear Harrington Family and Tessaro employees,
Our hearts and prayers are out to you. This is truly a sad and somber time. Kelly will be truly missed. Sincere condolences to all of you.
Judy S
May 13, 2009
To the Harrington Family, My sympathies go out to all of you on your tragic losses. My heart is heavy for all of you! Somehow going to my favorite resturaunt will never be the same without Kelley's usual warm greetings, great smile and wonderful sense of humor. He will be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Bill Wyrick
May 13, 2009
My deepest sympathies to the Harrington family.
Kelly was really a great representative of the best qualities of Pittsburgh. I only knew him as the host at Tessaro's, but the hospitality he showed to guests there went far beyond the norm, even to me when I first moved to Pittsburgh 19 years ago and made the first of many visits to the restaurant. I've since learned that his warm and welcoming personality was an example of a common trait among Pittsburghers, although he took it to an exceptional level. I imagine he was a wonderful ambassador of Pgh in all his travels. I will miss knowing he is there.
MARY JO DUFFY
May 13, 2009
KELLY WAS A GREAT EXAMPLE TO ALL, IF YOU WERE HIS EMPLOYEE,FRIEND OR PATRON. MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE HARRINGTON FAMILY.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU!
Angela & Joe Lucas
May 13, 2009
To the Harrington Family -
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved ones. We come to the restaurant at least once a month and seeing Kelly there always made our trip memorable. We are truly saddened and will forever hold him and his father in hearts, thoughts and prayers. Our love goes out to your family.
May 13, 2009
Our heartfelt sympathy to the Harrington family and the extended Tessaro's restaurant family. As frequent patrons of Tessaro's, we often observed Kelly and his Dad at the bar and were moved by their relationship. We are glad they took that final Olympic trip to China together. Kelly was a warm and familiar presence who always took good care of us.
Susan and Scott
Cheryl Hite
May 13, 2009
Dear Mrs. Harrington and the entire Harrington Family,
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Mr. Harrington yesterday and had no idea about Kelly until I got home and someone mentioned it to me - I thought they were mistaken. My heart is so heavy. I admired Mr. Harrington as a role model and for his kind heart. I loved Kelly like a brother - I first met him when I was 15 years old and my brother Jeff brought him home. They became good friends all through high school. I am so glad I recently ran into Kelly before he left for the Olympics. He was so polite and well mannered - it was obvious he had good parents and he loved his family so much. I still can't believe it. My prayers are with you. The world will not be the same without either of them. They both definitely made an impact on many lives.
May 13, 2009
Deepest sympathies to the entire Harrington family. I know that Kelly was deeply loved, and will be missed. He was certainly a wonderful guy with great personality! Len Stidle (N. C. Class of 69)
frequent patrons
May 13, 2009
Dear Harrington Family:
We are so sorry for your loss. While dining in Tessaro's many times, you could see the kindness and fairness in Kelly's manner and presence. We always enjoyed going there because you knew it was a fine meal and that he was proud of his establishment.
There aren't many of Kelly's kind around anymore. I am so sorry that you lost a father,husband,brother and son at the same time. My prayers are with you.
Mary Rae Mackay
May 13, 2009
So many things I have learned from my years with you...but among them is a sense of pride that I carry with me still to this day...Kelly taught me it is not what you do in life, it is how you do it. And Dennis...well, what can I say? I will never forget the day shortly after I started work there Kelly told me to stand outside & wait for his Dad. I let some man park his motorcycle and walk right past me and into the restaurant as I diligently scanned Liberty Avenue for some sort of gentleman's car...of course you all probably know who I allowed to slip in the door unnoticed...I am just broken hearted for everyone.
Gail Reid
May 13, 2009
To Ena, and the entire Harrington family,
My heart goes out to you. Having recently suffered the loss of my own mother, I cannot even imagine what you are all going through. Kelly was always so kind to us, and I sure you will all miss him terribly.
Gail and Gordon Reid (customers of Tessaros and friends of Jan and Jimmy's)
Hope Caldwell
May 13, 2009
To Tee, Ena and the Harrington family - Since I heard about your terrible losses I have felt very down. After reading an old story in the PG about Tessaros I couldn't help but recall how Kelly was so patient and kind to me while I was THE WORST waitress during my tenure there. And how your dad always had a smile for us when he arrived. They will be missed by so many, near and far. My prayers are with all of you.
Connie and the Whiteside family
May 13, 2009
Dear Ena and Harrington Family,
My heart is so sad today hearing the news about Kelly and his Dad. Kelly always had a smile and warm hug to give. Such a caring soul! You and Kelly were so kind to my Mom and Dad for many years. More recently you both (and the entire Tessaros crew) watched over my Dad and cared about him, as if he were family. We will miss Kelly's happy face greeting us at the front door of Tessaros and will always remember our favorite "tomato soup Mondays." I feel very blessed to have known Kelly. May the love and support of family and friends bring you comfort during this difficult time. With heartfelt sympathy,
Mary Fran Felion
May 13, 2009
My heart is so heavy, he will be sadly missed.
May 13, 2009
Lisa, Jack and Harrington family,
You are in our hearts, our thoughts and
our prayers as we ask the Dear Lord to give all of you great strength in the coming days. Your strong faith will keep your Dad's and Kelly's special spirits with you always.
Much love,
Jane and John, Houston, Texas
Michelle Gabriel
May 13, 2009
Kelly will be greatly missed. He was always so kind and humble. It will not be the same without him.
May 13, 2009
Our hearts and hands reach out to the entire Harrington family,. We will always remember Kelly for being the warm and welcoming person that he was. It is a great loss for the community. We will keep you in our prayers.
Frequent restaurant visitors
Ellen Wyzykowski
May 13, 2009
Tee, Ena and family,
I am so saddened by the news of Kelly and Dennis. They were both so loved and will be so missed. You are ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Always, Ellen
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal." ~ From a headstone in Ireland
Roberta Schick
May 13, 2009
To the Harrington Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find comfort through God's love.
Cathy Friedman Fleischmann
May 13, 2009
To Tee, Moira and the Harrington Family- So terribly sorry to hear of such sadness. Please know that those around you are thinking of you and hoping that time will eventually help heal the pain. We will miss them both.
Sue Hood/Predis
May 13, 2009
The greatest restaurant operator that ever lived. One of the kindess most loving men who took care of me as one of his own family. I am proud to work for him at Tessaros. My life is a better one having been touched by Kelly and his entire family. My heart is very heavy and will always now have a void.
Mark Barbati
May 13, 2009
Dear Harrington Family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of Kelly.
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