Rodney Underwood
Rodney Underwood
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Rodney Underwood Obituary
A National award winning advertising producer and Pittsburgh Film Maker, suddenly on Saturday, June 6, 2009. Beloved husband of Ronda Zegarelli; son-in-law of Arnold and Dolores Zegarelli; brother-in-law of Gregg (Jodi) Zegarelli; uncle of Bria, Ella and Anna Zegarelli. Family and friends welcome Wednesday 6-8pm at WILLIAM SLATER II FUNERAL SVC., 1650 Greentree Road, Scott Twp. where funeral service will be held Wednesday at 8pm. In lieu of flowers please send donations to the Blues Society of Western Pennsylvania, PO Box 97978, Pgh., PA 15227.
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Perry Hamilton
June 18, 2024
I just received a new book;
"I Heard There Were No Waves In New Jersey: Surfing On The Jersey Shore 1888 - 1984" by John Kugelberg and Danny DiMauro
If you count the pages, go to page 221- at the bottom of the page, Rodney is between "Wipeout Row" and "Cutback Boulevard".
I remember that Rod competed in several high-profile contests like "Turkey Trot Contest" in Ocean City, NJ 1967 and later.
In high school, Rodney was among the better surfers in Ocean City
Rodney's mother, Ruby, was much admired and respected on the Main Line as a Bridge instructor. She knew the game as well, if not better, than anyone.
Rod was one of the best dressed guys, even when looking hip or casual.
Along with his good friend, Jon Oster, Rod formed with me the "Corvair Racing Team" on the Main Line. It may not sound like much, but Rod had us pushing the envelopes of our "Poorman's Porches" on these winding lanes. Rod was a naturally good driver. We were very lucky on many levels.
Rodney was also very daring when riding my motorcycles.
Rodney was among my most thoughtful and generous friends going back to 9th grade.
Like all of you, I miss him.
Perry Hamilton
[email protected]
Ronda Zegarelli
June 5, 2020
11 years later, my heart still breaks thinking of you. Now with the clarity of understanding how much more that I could have done, I will never go a day without loving you. I know that you always loved me with every breath that you took.
Jean Guerin
September 3, 2013
Knew Rodney years ago at J Walter Thompson. Was someone very special...very sorry for your loss.
Richard Pels
August 23, 2013
Just heard! So sorry to know Rodney died. He was a good friend and a talent that was missed here in New York City. I also liked his guitar. His memory lives on, he was the kind of person who made the advertising industry a better, more lively, more creative place. He'll be missed.
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ted parrack
January 21, 2013
tonight, I'm sitting in a conference room, discussing a campaign set in Italy for a great olive oil. Every moment reminds me of the days Rodney spent creating spectacular work first for Bolla winw, then for Lee Iacocca's new venture. I am reminded of his passion, his wit and his inspiration. They live in memory as vivid today as they have been all the years worked together.
Dave Olney
July 25, 2011
So, after a day of meetings in New York, I'm boarding a plane to return to Pittsburgh and there's this guy in my seat. Hip looking dude, and with an electric guitar case leaning on the next seat. Great, I'm thinking, now I gotta deal with this guy after a long day.
As soon as I make eye contact, he's up with a smile and his cool voice, "Hey, man. Let me get out of your way...I'm just waiting to get this stashed somewhere." Instant friend. When I asked him what he did, he said blues guitarist (with some advertising work on the side, presumably). He told me he was moving to Pittsburgh for a fresh start, as if his whole life were ahead of him. No matter what he'd accomplished he looked ahead to the next challenge. But basically,it was a guy with a guitar moving to Pittsburgh. By the end of the flight we'd exchanged numbers and I knew the man was special. Was only able to hang out for a while; a few nights out, him shopping for a South Side loft (you're thinking of buying a fire station? Yeah, dude...I'll keep the pole and just slide down for breakfast!), and talking blues and broken hearts. Left a permanent impression on me.
Patricia Chiono
September 23, 2009
Dear Rhonda,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on Rodney's passing. It really doesn't seem possible. I was a friend and partner of Rodney's in the 70's at Scali, Mc Cabe, Sloves. Rodney was a character. He never ceased to amuse me and amaze me. He had boundless energy and looked like a rock star, at work, on the golf course or playing with his band. I remember convincing him to move out of that church he lived in and into the Fourth Street loft he bought. The last time I saw him was at the Scali reunion. He was the same enthusiatic guy I'd known 30 years earlier. My heart goes out to you and your family at this tragic loss.
Clint Miller
September 2, 2009
Dear Ronda,
I just learned last night that Rod had passed away, and I am utterly heart-sick. Rod was like a cousin to me-- his parents and my parents were close friends from the War era, both were living in Washington, DC, when Rod and I were born a month apart. I grew up in DC's Maryland suburbs and Rod grew up in Philadelphia, and our families would visit each other from time to time. I can remember Rod staying with us for a week or so in the summer when we were kids, and I stayed with the Underwoods in Philadelphia for a week or so, too. Later, when we visited as teens, we would always share our latest guitar skills with each other-- I played in a band in Jr. high and high school, and eventually dropped it, but Rod continued with at and flourished.
After Rod's dad died, Rod and his Mom came down to Washington and spent Christmas with my Mom and Dad every year. I had long-since moved to California, but returned for Christmas holidays and spent that time with Rod and Ruby along with my parents.
Like cross-country cousins, sometimes we just kept touch through family gatherings or updates through parents, but that venue ceased to exist. During the past year or so, after my mom died, Rod and I became closer and spent much more time on the phone together than we ever had at any other time in our lives, with many late night phone calls that could last up to an hour or more.
I had been thinking lately that it's been too long since I spoke with Rod, and wanted to give him a call-- my call didn't go through, so I googled his name and learned the sad news. My last phone conversation with him had been about two weeks prior to his death.
Like his dad, Bill Underwood, Rod had a presence that was "larger than life." In reading through the many notes that have been left, I can see that he touched the lives of so many people... from Philly, to North Carolina, to New York, to Pittsburgh, Rod made an impact everywhere he went. He will never be forgotten.
Ronda, I'm so glad that he had you and all of your family in his life. Having no siblings of his own, I think my two brothers and I were just about the only "family" that went back as far as we did, but it looks like your family was near and dear to him, as he was to near and dear to your family as well. I am so glad for that.
I'm sorry we didn't get to know you-- on a couple of recent trips from California to DC I had dreamed of finding a flight that would allow a layover in Pittsburgh just to see Rod, but as good as it sounded, I was going to DC for a specific purpose and time, and it just didn't seem practical at the moment. How I wish I had! I am very glad, however, that Rod and I had drawn so much closer together, even if just by phone, over the past year.
Our whole family is stunned, and you are in our prayers. I know a couple of months has already passed, but I hope and pray that God will give you strength and comfort you, and that over time, your grief will be replaced by an abundance of joyful memories that you will treasure for years to come. God bless you.
Tricia Cotton
August 28, 2009
Dear Rhonda,
Rodney was my "big brother" when our wacky but irresistible assemblage of personalities was known as "Carr St."
He had a booming presence, and when he spoke, it was never to whisper.
When Rodney was around, you couldn't stay mad or upset about anything, as his presence alone made you forget such trivia. He had a way of rendering it impossible to find offense from his "heightened degree of self esteem." He was pretty good at ping-pong, and was always in motion. He had great hair. You must be an incredible woman. I wish you peace in this horrible storm, and expedience in a continued sense of purpose and hope.
Richard & Rhoda Berke
July 31, 2009
There are no words to describe the shock upon hearing of Rodney's passing. He was a special guy in so many ways. His creativity, music and athleticism were wrapped in a wonderful humorous caring person. We will miss him.
Antony Payne
July 24, 2009
Rodney and I were close friends in New York in the mid '80s. We lived in the same building on 4th Avenue. I have many fond memories- including weekends at Ed McCabe's Connecticut retreat and a great week with John and Paulette Peden in Myrtle Beach.
I will be visiting Pittsburgh next month and was looking forward to getting together and catching up. I'm shocked and saddened to hear of Rodney's passing. Wow, Rodney you left us too soon. [email protected]
Peter Glankoff
July 19, 2009
Rhonda -
Please accept my condolences on Rodney's passing. I just learned of this sad news from one of his former NYC agency partners. I was one of Rodney's clients for several years in in the early 90s. We selected Rodney's agencies because he was a great creative director surrounded by people who respected his special charisma and amazing ideas. He executed brilliantly. He was also a very cool cat who made everyone around him cool by his presence. He affected many peoples' lives. His memory lives on.
Grant Castle
July 14, 2009
Rhonda-I just heard today of Rodney's passing. I was his partner in a NY ad agency. It was tumultuous, exciting, and ultimately not as successful as I know Rodney had expected. But he was the most gifted Creative Director I ever knew; he saw talent and knew how to draw it out better than anyone I ever worked with in 25 years. I am very sorry for your loss and hope you find some peace in the many wonderful thoughts others have contributed.
Grant Castle
Jerry Tepper
July 7, 2009
July 7th.
Rhonda and family.
Although we have spoken in recent days I did want to share my condolences with you, his family and his many friends.
As you know I met Rodney some twenty years ago when he was with the ad agency Geer DuBois and was his investment advisor ever since those very early days.
To know "Rockin Rodney" was to love him. Whether we talked about the markets, the world, his music or his next great business idea..it was always great to talk to Rodney.
He will be missed by all he new him.
Sincerely,
Jerry Tepper
Shari Ann Funderburg
June 27, 2009
Dearest Rhonda,
I am quite saddened to hear of the passing of Rodney. One of Rodney's college chums is my husband, Joseph "Skipper" Funderburg. My husband spoke so highly of him.
I met Rod a decade or so ago. My husband & I were yacht cruising, north bound to Cape Cod and layed over at the, then North Cove Yacht Harbor on the Hudson River. The yacht harbor is at the base of the, then "Twin Towers," World Trade Centers, New York City.
It was a remarkable late spring afternoon and Rod took the time to visit us on the yacht. The three of us lounged alfresco on the flying bridge ~ we gazed at the Twins and the circus along the river and Battery Park City ~ The Lady watched in silence. All of a sudden Rod let out a gut laugh to beat the band, thrilled by our company and the stunning location. It was a perfect moment!
As darkness fell, we blazed the Manhatten nitelife, with Rod as our seasoned guide. A memorable night of grand greets, meets and eats ~ we were jazzed to be with someone so popular and respected. What a night!
I feel fortunate to have known him. I enjoyed watching my husband and Rod have so much fun together. My personal condolences to you and your family.
Nancy Pine
June 25, 2009
I met Rodney at Scali, McCabe, Sloves and we've stayed in touch for the last two + decades. I have so many great memories and in that way he lives on for all the many who have signed this guest book.
Rods beautiful neices
June 22, 2009
Joseph Skipper Funderburg
June 22, 2009
Dear Rhonda,
Rest assure, you are in everyone's thoughts and prayers. I am deeply saddened by the passing of Rodney. Close to my heart are the preciuos moments we shared during our college years at UNC Chapel Hill and the memories of the many occasions we visited in New York City. I loved Rodney Underwood.
Protect those in whose love we live,
Rodney Christmas 2007
June 20, 2009
Gina Iorio
June 19, 2009
Ronda -
I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Rodney was a good man, I know you will miss him deeply. I am here for you if you need anything.
Paul Hartzell
June 18, 2009
Dear Ronda,
I was deeply saddened to learn of Rodney's death. Back in the 80's when I was a beginning copywriter Rodney was my ACD. He was not only a larger-than-life talent, he was also a great guy with a big heart. Once I and another beginning copywriter were sharing a bottle of wine and some food at a local cafe. Rodney spotted us from afar and secretly picked up the tab. It was a typically generous gesture and one that I have never forgotten. My condolences to you and all of the family.
J. Archinaco
June 18, 2009
Rod lives on in everyone that ever met him.
Jim Phoenix
June 17, 2009
Dear Rhonda,
My memoires of Rodney include: sitting in a Romantic Poetry class at Chapel Hill with him and Professor Kirkpatrick, who never, I don’t think, quite knew what to make of Hot Rod; gang dancing at parties at our Carr Street house; cooking vegetarian meals for the whole gang at Carr Street; and visiting him at his New York office in the mid-eighties with my family. We cooked hoppin’ john (rice and black-eyed peas) and always cooked brussel sprouts and circled them around the plate. I still cook this meal today and often think of Rodney when I do. When I took by wife, Joy, my step-daughter, Lisa, and a friend of hers, also Lisa, to visit Rodney at his agency’s office in New York over twenty years ago, he totally wowed them. He showed us an ad he was working on for Burger King and Joy can still give the story line. He said they didn’t accept it because it was too edgy. I think he was just ahead of his time. I remember being so grateful that he took the time out of his schedule to entertain us; I think he knew that these girls had never seen anything quite like that office and or anyone like him before. Rodney was generous. I reconnected with him last year after many years. He got my number from a mutual friend, called and we caught up, talking about this and that. I will miss him and am happy to have these fond memories.
Joe LaRosa
June 17, 2009
Dear Rhonda;
I met Rodney when he first came to NYC, at Scali, McCabe & Sloves. We spent quite a bit of time together playing basketball exploring Manhttan and the creative side of things. I remember one of the first things he did was to move into a small white church in the Bowery - only Rodney could pull something like this off. The church was just a large open space with a bed and make shift kitchen in an area that defined risky. At the time it was beyond my capablility to understand the type of person who would choose to take on this lifestyle. I loved him for challanging and living life, taking chances. He was a true creative adventurer who lived life outside of the box. His ability to share and spread his passion for life, his attitude to tackle tough obstacles, his big thoughts and soft heart, his positive energy, fearless determination and devotion to his friends and family are just some of the things he shared with me. Thank you Rodney.
My heart goes out to you and your family.
Rod surfing in about 1967
Jay Lippincott
June 16, 2009
Dear Ronda:
I am sorry for your loss.
I knew Rod long ago. In 9th grade, when he attended The Episcopal Academy in Merion, PA, we became good friends. I learned to surf because of Rod, and frequently headed to Ocean City, NJ for the day. (See attached photo.) At Episcopal, he was an accomplished diver on the swimming team. We used to double date. Girls loved his dirty-blonde hair that covered his forehead, his good looks, and his big smile. I remember that even my mother was impressed by his "southern charm." We also played in a band together called "The Hodds." He liked to be out front, playing his red guitar and singing; I stayed in the background, playing drums.
Once he left Episcopal to attend Lower Merion High School we lost touch. I never surfed again and stopped playing drums. These things weren't the same without Rod.
I know he will be missed.
Jay Lippincott
Rob Wallis
June 15, 2009
Dear Ronda,
We've never met so let me introduce myself.
I met Rodney thru an ad in the Village Voice (in the early 80's), looking for a drummer. I auditioned and Rodney and I immediately hit it off. We did a few gigs with the guys he had been playing with and I slowly started introducing him to friends of mine, and shortly thereafter our band was born, The Rhythm Method.
We had a ball for a bunch of years, playing some really cool gigs around the City. Its a chunk of my life I cherish, as was getting to know Rodney. We talked a lot and spent a lot of time together. We rehearsed often at my music school. Rehearsal often entailed a few hours of working on tunes -followed by many hours of dinner and beers. You get the picture. The band was all compadres and we shared a lot. Unfortunately as time went on, we didn't reach our dreams and guys went in different directions, but i think I can say that to all of us, the band was a very special time in our lives with many, many great memories.
A side of Rodney that some people may have never seen... A few years after my daughter was born (1985), Rodney went on a trip to Hawaii. When he got home, he was all excited. Why.... to tell me he found this beautiful Hawaiian tropical dress for her. Kind of says it all.
Although Rodney and I lost touch, I emailed with him a few months back about getting together to catch up, on his next trip to NYC.
I have been pretty much stunned since hearing about his passing and so sorry we aren't going to have that chance.
My deepest sympathies
Rob
Rob Miss
June 15, 2009
Dear Ronda: My deepest sympathy to you
on the passing of the amazing Rodney.
I knew Rodney, Paul Edwards, and many of the Cats Cradle dudes, when I worked
at UNC-TV. Then met Rodney again at a NYC club with Paul. Rodney was the kind of charismatic guy one never forgets. May he rest in peace, but keep playing that guitar. Rob
June 14, 2009
dear ronda,
i'm so sorry for your loss. of course, i did not know rodney, but i've been a fan of yours since back in the day, and think fondly of you, especially now.
love, irwin kalson
Nico Santucci
June 14, 2009
Rodney... The Big daddy of em all...
What a heart, love for life and trusted friend.
some of the most sincere communications of my life... Said it like it was (like it or not), fearless in his honesty. Never a dull moment. always called me out when I deserved it but stole my personal style when he could. Laughed at my square tipped shoes in 95' then, wore them himself for many years... that's Rodney.
I'll miss him dearly, his funny, blurry phone calls and relentless dreams.
God bless his soul and all of those affected by this tragedy....
Joe Earth
June 14, 2009
Back in Chapel Hill in the 70's Rodney was the life of the Blazers. He knew that life was for living and that's what he did. I can't believe he's gone. At a Blazers reunion gig a few years back, he had all the fire and enthusiasm that he ever did. I'm so soory that he is gone.
Melody Harris
June 13, 2009
Ronda,
The thing that I most remember about Rodney is how he defined passion in everything he did. Remember all the little notes he wrote for you that used to fill your office?
Words can't begin to say how sorry I am for your loss.
With love,
Melody
Ruby and Jade
June 12, 2009
Rods girls Jade and Ruby
June 12, 2009
Angelo Juliano
June 12, 2009
Ronda,
I was stunned to read about the passing of Rodney today. It was posted on LinkedIn by Bob Taber. I am so sorry for your loss. I haven't seen Rodney since I left Scali, McCabe Sloves 20 years ago. His creative was always top notch for Pioneer & Nikon, etc. He set the bar high. And he could play a mean guitar as well. He will truly be missed. Be strong.
The Juliano Family
bob saling
June 12, 2009
Dear Ronda,
I am so very sorry that Rod has left us. At least he is not suffering any more.
I haven't seen Rodney in a while but remeber well the times in Bridgehampton as well as going up to the "Black Bass" Club in NYC to hear his music and "play" around a little.
I even fondly remember the Turkey Bowl when he broke my collar bone and the next year's Turkey Bowl, when I broke his collar bone on the very first play-I promise it was truly and accident.
Again, I am very sorry for your loss as I am for all of ours.
I have always felt strongly that we should celebrate someone's life rather than mourn their passing. It is a hard thing to do but Rodney's life was something to cherish.
All my respect
John Haber
June 12, 2009
Dear Rhonda-
I'm very saddened to hear the news about Rodney. I first knew him in the early Cat's Credle days in Chapel Hill and later here in NYC, where it was always a joy to run into him. One surprising place where we crossed paths was the NYU gym, where he played (not me!) very competitive pick-up hoop games. Rodney was one of the more charismatic people I've ever known. He had great energy, drive, talent and style; a generous heart and a million dollar smile. I regret we lost touch after he left the city, but I truly thought of him from time to time. My deepest condolences to you and family.
Holly Toland Alves
June 12, 2009
Dear Ronda,
On behalf of the Toland family, we are so, so sad about losing Rod. How could he have left the 'Party of Life' long before the rest of us?
As you know, Rod was like our adopted brother. So many, many memories spanning over 40 years. I always think of him pulling up to 309 Fairhill in Wynnewood, walking in the front door with that "Rodney Swagger" - you know the one - stretching out his arms with that cheshire cat grin and saying, "Woggiewoggiewooeewoooeeewoo-woo" and me saying "Rodiewoddiewoodle-weewee" or some such nonsense, and I'd fall into his big bear-hug of an embrace.
We are all going to miss his larger than life presence. I know that he loved you and our family very very much.
We'll keep the kitchen light on for you, Roddie....
love always,
Holly
Alix Toland
June 12, 2009
i could write a book about Rod. We began our friendship as teenagers so there's a lot of material.
One of my favorite memories is of visiting him in NYC after he won the ad of the year award for something spectacular. His corner office had a view and an over sized desk that was surprisingly empty except for a phone and a few yellow note pads. Overhead there were dozens of #2 pencils sticking out of a porous ceiling. When he needed to explore an idea he'd reach way up, grab a pencil and scribble something down. It was as if he were reaching up into some divine creative source. When he was done he'd flip the pencil way up into the air, after its flips and spins it would land right back in place. He thought it was no big deal; I thought it was marvelous. And very much Rod.
I can almost hear him speaking his favorite nickname for me in the most affectionate singsongy way, something that never changed in 40 years. What I'll miss most of all is his big open heart spilling out his love and affection.
Jim Wann
June 12, 2009
Dear Ronda,
I am so sorry to hear this news. Rodney was a friend in music in Chapel Hill and New York. We played some together and went to hear each other play. I truly enjoyed his buoyant company and generous spirit, his talent and enthusiasm for life. We had great fun in the early Cat's Cradle scene and he definitely carried that sense of joy forward so it was always a pleasure to see him. My deepest sympathy.
David Boyd
June 12, 2009
My prayers go out to all those who knew and loved Rodney. We wish him peace. I know he's playing guitar with a great band now!
All my love,
David Boyd
"Clubowna"
Ralph Perucci
June 12, 2009
Ronda, I've spoken to all of the members of " The Rhythm Method Band " , and we are all saddened by his passing. All of our memories are full of laughter, music, and the best times we can remember.
Stephanie Norwood
June 12, 2009
Dear Rhonda,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It has been many years since last I saw Rodney but I shared many wonderful memories of good times and good friends. May we all carry the goodness with us, here and everafter.
My deepest sympathy for you, your families and friends.
Peace be with you,
Stephanie Norwood
Kal Stein
June 12, 2009
Oh my brother, where have you gone? Rodney and I met the first day of our freshman year at Carolina and it took thirty seconds to discover we were both from Philadelphia and played rock and roll. The last part was easy – he was sitting on the wall on Franklin Street in front of the church playing his guitar. That was the start of a long ride together: classmates (same major), band mates, house mates, Sixer and Tar Heel fans, our connections were endless until now. Rodney was engaging, enraging, and endearing all at the same time. He had a deep soul and he loved deeply. There is no replacing Rodney, there was no other. Fare well my brother, be at peace.
Don Dixon
June 11, 2009
Dear Rhonda
I am crushed to hear this news...I got to see RODNEY last year when I was playing at CLUB CAFE in PITTSBURGH...he came by at soundcheck & I got to hug him & talk for a few minutes...I hadn't seen him in years...since NYC at The BOTTOM LINE, I think...I swore to myself that I was going to stay in touch & in my heart, I did...
please accept my deepest sympathy & know that I loved him as much as everyone who rerally knew him did...
Don Dixon
Priscilla Schneidman
June 11, 2009
Rod was many years ago for me. He was brilliant, fun, and always straight forward. He will always fill a room and have the best story. My children loved him. He was godfather to my son, Sam. My daughter adored him, as did I. He will be with us forever.
Woody Woodward
June 11, 2009
Ronda,
Last night, your father (and others) painted a vivid picture of the Rodney Underwood I knew. It's how I will remember him.......creative, stubborn, but a man with a code.
As a member of his UNC family, and a close friend for 35 years, I was at a loss for words. I was happy to see and hear from others who counted Rodney in their familiy. He was loved by many.
He was Hot Rod. I was Woodromeda. I assumed from The Andromeda Strain, but I never asked.
In the 1980's, my nephew David was working in New York. I took him and some friends to see Rodney play one night at a bar in the Village. For years, my nephew would always ask about the "Dude". It fit.
About a month ago, I went to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame Induction ceremonies. I called Rodney so he could listen to Jeff Beck play live. Dude was in heaven.
Rest in peace is not Rodney's legacy. Rock on.
Ned Show
June 11, 2009
When he shall die,
Take him and cut him out into stars
And he shall make the face of heaven so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garish sun.
(Shakespeare)
Hot Rod was without a doubt a force of nature. An absolute one of a kind.
There are so many wonderful things I will remember about him but more than anything I will remember him always as a most loyal, kind and true friend.
Rhonda he could not have found a more wonderful and amazing partner - he shared with me on so many occasions how lucky he felt to have you in his life.
I'll miss you brother.
Mike Giunta
June 11, 2009
Rodney was a true original, and a very kind, sincere and generous soul. He will be truly missed and always fondly remembered.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Mike Giunta and Family
Dickie Fenimore
June 11, 2009
Maybe it was 8th grade, or somewhere around that time when Rodney, Jay Lippincott, and myself (Episcopal guys) formed our first band, The Hodds (I have no clue where the name came from)!! I think we did it so we could meet girls since EA was an all boys school at the time.
We practiced many times, and as far as I can remember we only had one gig at a party at a girl's house we knew.....it's amazing how we got through the night with the only 3 songs we knew!?!? Fond memories of Rodney for me.
From reading this guest book, I sure wish I had known Rodney these last 30 years.
May the good times you had carry you through a difficult period.
Feni
John Hayes
June 11, 2009
Ronda,
Please accept my sincere condolences. Rodney and I were partners in the advertising business. There was never a dull day. While we fought like brothers, we loved as brothers. I feel an emptyness that is only created by the loss of a brother.
He will be with me forever.
Michael Moran
June 11, 2009
Ronda:
My sincerest condolences to you and his family in this time of grieving. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul Edwards
June 11, 2009
Rest in peace my beautiful brother. When I see you again, we will race our 1960 Austin Healey bug-eye Sprites and laugh at the moon. All the things we did and said we'd do will live with me forever.
Chuck Opperman
June 10, 2009
I have known Rodney less than two years. He has always spoke so loving of His Ronda. I only wish We would have spent more time together. God bless You Rodney.
Chris Sileo
June 10, 2009
Expressing my sincere condolences, I am from the New York crew and was very fond of Rodney as we shared alot of good times together.'
Sandy Baker
June 10, 2009
Dear Ronda,
I was so saddened when I read today about the death of your husband. Though I didn't know him, he sounds like an amazing man. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that your memories of Rodney will forever bring you peace.
Susan Friedman
June 10, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Nandita Pearce & Robert Thomasson
June 10, 2009
It was such a sad day when we found out about Rodney's sudden passing. We are here for anything and everything you need, anytime. He brought a smile to dear Ronda's beautiful face and that should say it all.
Deborah Stebler
June 10, 2009
Our deepest sympathies to Rodney's family. We were so shocked when we read the paper today because we were just there on Thursday cleaning his apartment and he called me that night. He will be missed.
-Deborah Stebler
Mari Lee Holtzman
June 10, 2009
Ronda,
I have no words to express how I feel for your loss. I know that Rodney meant the world to you and I hope that all of your happy memories with Rodney will ease your pain. I love you and am here for you.
Amy Razem
June 10, 2009
Ronda, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Razem
Bridget Bruce
June 10, 2009
Rhonda,
As I have said this to you many times,you are one of the best people I know and Rodney knew that and you made his life complete the day you married him. He is at peace and hanging out with other legends now, Andy Warhol, Jimmy Morrison, Elvis, Marilyn, Robert Johnson, Princess Di,Frank Zappa,John Belushi, Mike Bloomfield, Truman Capote...and many others! Rod is an angel on your shoulder now and will keep you safe. You are so loved, Bridgie
Steven Tollen
June 10, 2009
Ronda,
I am so sorry to hear of Rodneys passing. My heartfelt sympathy to you and yours.
MIchael Thomas
June 10, 2009
To be with Rodney Underwood was to be wider awake than you would have been otherwise. A Porsche fan, he took me on my fastest-ever tour of Soho, in a 911. Rodney was a blues completist and an adept lover of fine guitars, but I also saw him enthusiastically sit in as lead broom player on a karaoke stage in Aniston, Alabama, riffing on Robert Palmer's "Addicted To Love" while the redneck crowd loudly pronounced their preference for Travis Tritt. I watched him debate a point of advertising strategy with a client one night in the California outback, the debate eventually winding up with both of them arm-wrestling amidst the sawdust on the bar floor, and dissolving into laughter. I did not know half of what a guy could get away with in this world, or the value of audacity and commitment and sheer leaps of faith, until I knew Rodney, and I only wish he'd been able to show us more, for longer.
Damn. Got a lighter? Hold it up. I am.
jim franciscus
June 10, 2009
Ronda, on behalf of the Blues Society of W. Pa., we are saddened by the news of Rodney's passing and offer our deepest condolences to you and your family. We thank you for any donations that are made to the BSWPA in Rodney's memory. We will make sure that they are used for the preservation of the blues traditions and music that Rodney loved so very much.
Sincerely,
Jim Franciscus
VP/BSWPA
Christine Tumpson
June 10, 2009
Ronda, we are so sorry for the loss of Rodney. You have tremendous support with many friends and family.
Christine and Jack Tumpson
Anthony LasLavic
June 10, 2009
I remember many things about Rodney. One thing that might describe who he was and how creative is how only Rodney could sew his glove inside of his jacket so he was unable to get at it. He always had a good story above and beyond the norm. I also remember the first time I met Rodney at Dejavu were Rodney and Ronda were first really getting to know each other. He taught me a lot and I will miss him.
Tom Sullivan
June 10, 2009
Rodney came to Pittsburgh and infused it with his passion for music, sports & movies.
He embraced the City from the very beginning and was one of its biggest advocates.
All who know him experienced his passion for life, people & pop culture.
Those that attended his marriage to Ronda saw the man at his most soulful and using heartfelt words inspired by their union.
He'll be missed.
Suzanne Krug
June 10, 2009
Ronda -
I was so shocked to hear of Rodney's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember he will live on through you. Please let me know if you need anything.
Love,
Suzanne & Brian
June 10, 2009
Ronda,
I was so sorry to hear the news about Rodney ! You are in my thoughts and prayers. xo Judy Bernstein
Jerry Joseph
June 10, 2009
Rodney and I knew each other through our good friend Glenn, and we both love guitars and Blues. He was unique. I'll never forget the time we were discussing the vintage guitars we owned and he told me of his PRS guitar that he treasured so much that he would only play it in the nude so he wouldn't risk scratching it with clothes. Its a difficult image to erase, and will stay with me for a long time especially when I need a good laugh.
Matt Lester
June 10, 2009
Ronda,
I am sorry for your loss. Rodney kept us challenged, energized, inspired, moving and grooving. His spirit will live on in us forever.
Matt
Glenn Zagoren
June 10, 2009
Dear Rodster,
Thank you for being my friend over the last twenty plus years.
Thank you for all the nights at China Club.
Thank you for sharing three different houses in the Hamptons.
Thank you for letting me listen to you play the blues.
Thank you for debating most everything.
Thank you for sailing with me in the Caribbean.
Thank you for playing touch football every Thanksgiving.
Thank you for letting me use your NYC loft to film the Elle commercial.
Thank you for inviting me to your wedding.
Thank you for coming to my wedding.
Thank you for playing with my kids.
Thank you for helping me when I was in creative block.
Thank you for dinners at the greatest restaurants in the city.
Thank you for inviting me to your wedding.
Thank you for bringing Ronda into my life.
Thank you for so much that I can’t imagine you not being here to continue the adventure.
Ronda, Thank you for being so important to Rodney.
Jean Myers
June 10, 2009
Dear Ronda,
I was so shocked and saddened to read about Rodney's passing. My thoughts are with you at this painful and difficult time.
I'll always remember the laughs and conversations we had about movies,music,etc, at Abruzzi's. Tony sends his love and sympathy as well.
Peace be with you. Jean and Tony
Chris Bryan
June 9, 2009
Ronda--I am still stunned to learn the news. We would always talk about how I was the first person he met when he came to Pittsburgh. I had received a call from my boss who told me that her good friend Rod was moving to Pittsburgh and that I had to meet him. I'll never forget what a horrible day he was having...he had left his planner in a taxi and had a horrible cold. I brought him chicken soup and we were friends from that day forward. He was always amazed when I would deliver yet another Underwood typewriter to him that I would buy at the auction! He was so happy at your wedding and I will always cherish that memory.
Ginger Schwartz
June 9, 2009
Ronda,
We are so sorry for your loss, you know I understand what you are going through. If you need anything, we are here!
Our deepest sympathy,
Love you,
Howard & Ginger
Pete Cannarozzi
June 9, 2009
Ronda, I was in Rodney's Band in NYC, the Mister Bluster Blues Band. I also worked with him in advertising and I'm a friend of Ralph Perucci.
I hadn't spoken to him in years, but I always thought about him and would ask Ralph how he was doing.
I will miss him very much.
Joseph Curley
June 9, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about your loss Rhonda. I am praying for you. God bless you, and Rodney's soul.
Emilie Fischman
June 9, 2009
Ronda, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family truly are in my thoughts, prayers and heart and I pray that God will provide you with a peace and comfort that surpasses our human understanding.
Keith Belden
June 9, 2009
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Rodney's passing. May the sweetest memories of your life together shine through the saddness.
With Sympathy and Understanding,
Keith and Janell
G. "Spike" Riel
June 9, 2009
Ronda, my deepest sympathies to you in this time of grief. I was shocked and saddened to learn of Rodney's passing. So much talent ... I will remember him always.
My prayers are with you Ronda.
Cynthia Wheeler
June 9, 2009
Ronda, my heartfelt sympathies go out to you. Although we've only know one another casually through Pittsburgh media, it has been over many years and I have always felt a connection with you. I have frequently inquired about you among our mutual friends. I found out about your husband's passing in just tat way today and was saddened to hear this news. My thoughts are with you....you are not alone in this. Peace be with you, Ronda.
MaryAnn Carosi
June 9, 2009
Ronda, Rodney was bigger than life! Let's remember all the fun times and the time he got us stuck in Bob O'Connors funeral procession! Our thoughts are with you. MaryAnn & Paul Carosi
Rod and Ronda at Paula & Jason's rehersal dinner September 1, 2006
Paula Archinaco
June 9, 2009
Our deepest sympathies, Rod was a good soul, incredibly talented and extremely fortunate to have Ronda in his life. He will be very missed by all who crossed his path.
Mickey Baker
June 9, 2009
Ronda you know you have my never-ending love and support - always. I will truly miss Rod and will always remember him fondly. He was a wonderful kind person and friend.
Tim & Valent McAleer
June 9, 2009
Ronda--So sorry to hear of Rodney's passing-you and Rodney's family are in our prayers
June 9, 2009
Ronda, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Wanda and Curtis Swift
Christy Rpbson Kalbaugh
June 9, 2009
Rhonda,
We were so very sorry to hear the sad news. Please know that both you and Rodney are in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Christy & Jerry Kalabugh Jr.
(Corinne's movie buddies)
Gina Mignogna
June 9, 2009
Rodney's creative spirit was uplifting and it was my pleasure knowing him. My thoughts and prayers are with Ronda and Rodney's family and friends.
Betsy Friedman
June 9, 2009
So sorry about Rodney's passing.
He will be missed. Ronda you have all the support in the world from me and all of your friends.
Ken LeFevre
June 9, 2009
I remember Rod fondly from our youthful years at Episcopal Academy. He was a supportive classmate in many ways. He will be missed, but remembered as a good soul.
June 9, 2009
Ronda we were so very sorry to hear of the tragic passing of Rodney! Our heartfelt sympathy is with you and all of the family. Please know you will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Resch's
Henry Lenard
June 9, 2009
Rest in peace, Rodney. My heart goes out to your family. You were a good guy.
Karen Phillips
June 9, 2009
Rodney was a great character and loyal friend who left an unforgettable mark on everyone he encountered. His passing caused a shockwave across his friends that we will not soon forget. Our thoughts are with you, Rhonda, and your family during this tough time. Know that we will always remember Rodney smiling and singing the blues, and will keep his memories in our hearts.
-Karen and Denny Phillips
Ronda Zegarelli
June 9, 2009
Rodney Underwood was Unique, Creative, Talented, Dynamic and certainly One of a Kind but I want everyone to know that he was also Loving, Soulful, Caring, Unselfish and Generous to those that he loved especially me. Last Week Rod told me that he would see me in his dreams. I hope that he is at peace dreaming of me, his music, the blues, his family, his friends, his documentary, the ocean waves, and his fascinating advertising legacy and know that he has touched so many lives in so many ways. I will always remember my "Roddy".
Tony Janflone
June 9, 2009
We are so saddened to hear of Rodney's passing . Our thoughts and prayers go out to Ronda,family , and friends of Rodney .
Tony and Kay Janflone
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