CHARLES WILLIAM BUENZLI Jr.

CHARLES WILLIAM BUENZLI Jr.

CHARLES BUENZLI Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 20, 2012.
BUENZLI CHARLES WILLIAM, JR.
WAKE FOREST, NC - Charles William Buenzli, Jr., 65, passed away Tuesday afternoon, July 17, 2012 at his home. He was born in Monroe County, PA, to the late Charles William Buenzli, Sr. and Mary Terboss Buenzli. Mr. Buenzli wanted to be an engineer since before he knew what the word meant. When he was young, his mentor told him about the two best engineering schools in the United States. It was then that he set his sights on an electrical engineering degree from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. He reached his goal when he graduated in 1969, but this was just one of many achievements this strong-willed and determined man would gather over his lifetime. The same year he graduated, he married the woman he would take care of for 43 years of happy marriage. He was always an engineer, but he became an entrepreneur, starting several successful companies in the high technology and artificial intelligence fields. He was recognized by peers and by many leading institutions as a pioneer in the field of bringing information technology research and development to the global marketplace. He was the kind of businessman who built America and keeps it strong by selling innovative ideas and by fostering skills as a mentor to the next generation of entrepreneurs. He was a dedicated and loving father and grandfather. He loved nothing more than sharing his love of woodworking, trains, tractors, philosophy and politics and reading the Sunday comics with his two daughters, two grandsons, and two granddaughters. He passed his dedication in his exacting crafts to the next generation. He will never be forgotten by those who loved him best. He is survived by his wife, Mary Kay Buenzli; two daughters, Theresa Costanzo and husband, Joseph, of Mukilteo, WA and Joanne Crane and husband, Tim, of Alexandria, VA; sister, Laura Stohl, of Coopersburg, PA; brother, Steven Buenzli, of Nazareth, PA; grandchildren, Alexander Costanzo, Ethan Costanzo, Grace Crane and Julia Crane. The family suggests memorial contributions to be made to the Preston Robert Tisch Brain Cancer Center at Duke: DUMC Box 3624, Durham, NC 27710. A service of BRIGHT FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION CENTER, 405 S. Main St., Wake Forest. (919-556-5811).
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July 25, 2012

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July 25, 2012

Samm Tittle posted to the memorial.

July 25, 2012

Harold P Boushell posted to the memorial.

July 25, 2012

Dear Mary Kay,
We know how hard it must be to lose the love of your life. The next time we raise a glass of wine (or beer) it will be in Charles's memory.
Linda and Jim Farmerie

Samm Tittle

July 25, 2012

July 25, 2012 Dear Charles and your Lovely Bride Mary Kay; I did not know you personally, nor you Ms. Mary Kay but that through his beloved childhood friend of 58 years, Mr. Harold Boushell. He brought to my attention how heavy his heart feels as he goes through this grief with you. I came to you because I, as a Widow, will understand and compassionately be here, there or for whatever the season is that you would want comfort with an understanding friend. The ability to speak with someone who has already experienced such a deep loss and sadness is comforted by friends and family; until they return to recline in their own worlds. Then you find you have that friend who understands your pain and sorrow, that one who will listen. Find Peace Mary Kay in the Words of Our Heavenly Father, Our Creator. "Precious in the eyes of the Lord is the death of His Saints." No one can feel your pain Mary Kay, but widow to widow you will agree; Sir Charles your beloved husband will not feel pain anymore. For that we bow in reverence.

God bless you for being long suffering with him and know that Our Lord who becomes your Husband now as written in the Good Book of Isaiah 54:6&7 "For the LORD has called you back from your grief ~~ as though you were a young wife abandoned by her husband says your God. For a brief moment I abandoned you, but with great compassion I will take you back." Find comfort in these words when you have cried once more; but recall to your heart and mind that God is your Husband now and He will take care of you in all your needs. For the rest of your days.

Do not hesitate to call upon me for any time you find yourself alone and sad; for together as two knowing widows we shall comfort each other. So many times our friends are there to listen; but so many times they can't hear us because they can't relate to "our deepest pain." Know that you were with your loving arms for the lasting time with your Husband and you did it all right.

God bless you Ms. Mary Kay; and I pray that you find so much joy after your mourning passes.

In Loving memory of Our Lord's Grace.
Samm Tittle
(202) 316-6278

Harold P Boushell

July 25, 2012

May your love of Charles and friends and family carry you through your grief Mary Key.

Susan Ohmann Huskins

July 21, 2012

I was glad to see so many of your friends, and family.

Clark Smith

July 20, 2012

Mary Kay, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. I have been praying that the Lord Jesus would pour out His mercy, grace, comfort and peace on you and all your family. I will miss Charles. Your (and Charles) friendship is much appreciated. Our kids still have the blankets you made for them. You and Charles will always have a special place in our hearts.

God Bless,
Clark, Holly, Hudson, Hope, Grace and Ava Smith

Charles viewing an antique John Deere powering a shingle machine

Will Seipp

July 20, 2012

Charles and a John Deere model B at the Portersville Steam Show

Will Seipp

July 20, 2012

Charles with his John Deere Model B

Will Seipp

July 20, 2012

Charles Buenzli was an accomplished engineer, a devoted father and a good friend. When my family and I moved to Wexford, PA in 1987, I met Charles at the company that hired me. He was a General Manager for one of the divisions of the small company. Some years before, it turned out, we worked for competing companies and had designed competing industrial programmable control products. We had similar interests both inside and outside of work. Charles and I and Mary Kay and Margaret became friends. They lived just two blocks away.

Charles was a talented engineer and business person. Some years after we both left the company that brought us both to Pittsburgh, I was between jobs. Charles called me one day. He heard I was driving a school bus and thought I could help him solve an engineering problem he had on an idea for a fiber-optic microcircuit. He and I were working together again.

We shared an interest in John Deere tractors. We would go to the fall antique tractor and steam show in Portersville. There we could see antique equipment including vintage steam tractors and John Deere tractors and their antique competition. There were also hit and miss engines and antique Maytag gasoline washing machine motors.

One day, Charles bought an antique John Deere model B. He did restoration work on it and got it back together just before moving to NC. One Saturday afternoon he drove it over to our house and gave our grandsons a ride.

Charles loved his family. We miss him a lot. Our prayers go out to Mary Kay and all the family. May the Lord give you all comfort and peace. May his presence sustain you and give you wisdom.

July 20, 2012

Our hearts go out to you at this sad time.

Jim & Laverne Skidmore

Susan Ohmann Huskins

July 20, 2012

Charles will be missed by all who knew him. The world is a much duller place with his passing.There are not enough words to expres the saddness and grief so many are feeling at this time. Mary Kay you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Donna Farmer

July 20, 2012

Our world will never be the same again. We miss him. Our thoughts are always with you, Mary Kay. Know that we are close, whatever you need, whenever.

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