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1958
2019
Robert Arbogast, dearly loved father and brother, has left us to dance in the heavens. Robert was born and raised in Pittsburgh, PA. He began his ballet career with the Pittsburgh Ballet Theatre and spent the bulk of his adult life in Salt Lake City, Utah continuing his career as a Principal ballet dancer with Ballet West, and then moving on to become a financial advisor with Wells Fargo. He was completely devoted to his sons Dane and Alec, so proud of their accomplishments, and loved sharing time with them, whether it was discussing Alec's next writing project or sharing baseball stats with Dane. Sentimental and quick to tear up, Robert, or Bob as his family called him, had a deep sense of empathy and a loyal admiration for those who earned his respect. Bob was the life of the party, gregarious and charming, everyone could only gravitate toward the warmth of his disposition and the authenticity of his character. Robert leaves behind his two sons, Dane and Alec; his sister, Lil Arbogast; and niece, Cara Feuer; and brother-in-law, Jeffrey Feuer; and the mother of his sons, Maureen Laird. A Celebration of Life will be held for Robert in Pittsburgh at a later date. To view service information, a tribute video slideshow and share condolences visit www.starksfuneral.com.
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Constance Scheurer, BA, BA, MA
August 12, 2024
Constance Scheurer, I first met him at POINT PARK COLLEGE IN BALLET CLASS. AT TIMES HE WAS MY PARTNER WE WERE BOTH SO YOUNG IN EDWARD CATON, KENNETH JOHNSON AND JANE HILLYER'S CLASSES. YEARS PASSED AND I ENDED UP IN SALT LAKE CITY AND THERE I SAW A REFINED BEAUTIFUL DANCER, ROBERT! A PRINCIPAL DANCER WHO WAS AWESOME! HIS CAREER CUT SHORT BY A KNEE INJURY
ROBERT THEN BECAME SUCESSSFUL IN BANKING, REAL ESTATE AND WE WERE STILL IN TOUCH. THE PITTSBURGH CONNECTION ALWAYS FOND OF AND FULL OF LAUGHTER AND JOY!
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THOSE DAYS AND HEARTBROKEN HE LEFT US TOO SOON.
Jeanne Wolf Matras
June 15, 2020
Dear Lili, I just recently heard about Bob's passing, and I want to send you my heartfelt sympathy. I was in the Dance Department with Bob (and Maureen) at Point Park (and I remember you, too, from your being in the Theatre Department there). Bob was truly a talented and gifted artist who was not only a technical master of his craft, but he also had a stage presence that was phenomenal. Plus, he was just a great guy and was always a good friend to me during our college days. My heart goes out to you and all of your/his family. May God bless you, and please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. . .
JoAnne Engelhardt Hrehocik
October 13, 2019
So sad to hear this news. Bob was an old school chum of mine and I have many fond memories of him.
My condolences to his family. Rest my friend.
Leslie Larson
September 20, 2019
Bob was kind, generous and simply infectious with his smile and quick wit. He was one of the first dancers to welcome us, the newbies of 1989, and I knew we'd become friends.
It wasn't long before he let me know about his other passion besides ballet - Basketball! And not just any team; his beloved Utah Jazz (Karl, John, Mark...) And so our good-natured barre banter began as his Jazz and my Blazers started their legendary rivalry playing their way through the NBA conference playoffs of '91 & '92. He was equally charming and ruthless in his glee every time his team beat mine and we'd end up belly laughing the following morning as we tried to focus on Bruce's plié combination.
To my friend, may the wings of the butterfly kiss the sun...and find your shoulder to light on...today, tomorrow and beyond.
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Kenneth Nickel
September 12, 2019
Wow so sorry to have heard of Bob's sudden passing We started our career's together at Pittsburgh Ballet. He was a great guy in which I was honored to have known
My prayers are with his family and friends
Kip Bryant
September 1, 2019
Dear Lil and family, So sorry to hear about Bob's sudden passing. He was such a nice guy...always. I will keep fond memories of his kindness and great dancing skills. You are all in my prayers. God Bless,
love kip
Zachary Carroll
August 24, 2019
When I first came to Ballet West, Bob was gracious and welcoming, making me feel at home as a new member. As I got to know him more,I came to appreciate his kindness, his humor, and his talent. Bob was toward the end of his ballet career when we met, but I was struck with his ease on stage, his excellent partnering, and natural charisma. He connected with those around him, and that translated into his strength as an authentic performer. Rest In Peace my friend. I'm happy to have known and worked with you.
Nola Stirling
August 21, 2019
Back when I had season tickets to Ballet West I always enjoyed watching his skill and love of dance. He was truly gifted, very sad to hear this news. Condolences to his family.
Dennis Schoenhardt
August 21, 2019
My heart aches.... Robert (Bob) and I have been friends 35 years beginning with Ballet West. He was the Prince of Princes, elegant, and smooth as silk when he performed, he was believable in every part he played drawing you in deeper and closer, he was literally poetry in motion.
Robert was my financial adviser for Wells Fargo from the beginning, he was always acutely tuned in to my well being and future, what ever Robert did he gave it 100%.
Visiting his office on a regular basis gave us the chance to talk about our families, he was a very proud father and always spoke of his sons. We always talked about the "old" days laughing for a good twenty minutes before we got down to business. Always without fail, Robert on our way to his office would put his arm around my shoulder as we walked the hall to his office and back to the front door when we were finished. I was sitting in the foyer for our 10:00 meeting on the 14th waiting for his usual smiling appearance around the corner followed by hugs, I had no idea our last meeting the week before would be our last hug and walk down the hallway to his office.
My heart goes out to Robert's family, what a grand man, he is a loss to us all, he left us with everlasting memories.
I love you Bob
Your friend always
Dennis Schoenhardt
Kerry Grossaint
August 21, 2019
I worked with Robert for almost 15 years. He will be missed so much here in our office. Robert was a presence here, he was friendly and always had a kind word for me when are paths crossed in the hallway or as he came by my desk each morning. My heart goes out to his boys, his sister and all of his friends and family. My deepest condolences for your loss. Robert will be missed but never forgotten.
August 19, 2019
Robert was a great guy and such an unfortunate loss. He was always quick witted and a hoot during our lunch meetings. He will be missed.
Constance Scheurer
August 18, 2019
Bob was a partner of mine in Pittsburgh, he was kind, gentle and generous. Greatly missed, greatly loved, gone too soon. My love to the family,
Constance Scheurer
August 18, 2019
Bob was one of my partners in Pittsburgh, he was gentle, kind, and a gentle soul. I send love to the family He was an incredible artist, greatly loved, greatly missed
Bene Arnold
August 18, 2019
I believe my message got lost, so I am trying again! As Ballet Mistress of Ballet West, it was my good fortune to work with Robert Arbogast and his future wife, Maureen Laird. Those are years that hold for me many fond memories. Also, he gave me good advise on planning my retirement. It is hard for me, as I am certain it is for others, to realize he has passed. To Dane, Alec, and Maureen I send my wish that the coming days and years will bring you many blessings.
Sincerely, Bene Arnold
August 18, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Robert Chase
August 17, 2019
Bob was always a gentleman and very kind to me. I was with the Ballet at the Kennedy Center the night his career ended abruptly. Later he helped me with investments as a financial advisor. He will be sorely missed. Dance on the clouds Bob.
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