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James Miley Obituary
At his home with his family by his side on Thursday, May 3, 2007. James J. "Red" Miley, age 53, of Ingram. Beloved husband of Ruth; loving father of Jade, age 9, Lydia, age 8, and Kate, age 6. Dear son of Bertha M. "Sis" and the late William E. Miley; brother of Ben, Jerry, Matt and Twyla "Ty" Miley; dear nephew of James E. "Red" and Patricia Miley. Friends received at the HERSHBERGER-STOVER INC. FUNERAL HOME, 170 Noble Ave., Crafton on Sunday and Monday 2-4 and 7-9pm. Funeral service in the Windhaven Christian Church, 1040 E. Windhaven Road, Robinson Township on Tuesday at 11am. If desired, memorial contributions may be made to the scholarship fund of Carnegie Rotary Club Foundation, PO Box 153, Carnegie, PA 15106. Red was the owner of Miley Truck Rental in Carnegie, Miley's BP in Robinson Twp. & Motordrome Speedway in Smithton, PA.
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bonnie heim
August 3, 2007
the gang from lowries run automotive and family.
iris hicks
August 3, 2007
Sorry for your loss god be with you all.
John Halller
June 28, 2007
Dear Ruth and entire Miley Family;
I am deeply saddened to learn of Red's passing. I am grateful that I had the opportunity, not only to befriend Red, but his entire family. I pray that God's peace will prevail during this difficult time.
John Haller
Phoenix, Arizona
K. Li
June 15, 2007
Ruth,
It was extremely unexpected that I learned of Red's passing. Even though we have lost touch over the years, but I still wanted to express my most sincere condolences to you and your daughters. Red had touched me in a special way, just as he has with countless others. He had set the example of the kind of person that I strive to be. I am so sorry that you have to endure this kind of loss and pain. I will always keep Red, you and your daughters in my heart and prayers.
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Doug Kennedy
May 23, 2007
It's hard to replace a guy like Red. I had the privilege of growing up with the entire Miley family in the small community of Ingram. And throughout the years, I also was able to work closely with Red on various other projects, including a racing show we debuted last November. You will be missed my friend.
Wayne Rankin
May 16, 2007
To the entire Miley family I would like to give my deapest sympathy and prayers to all of you. Although I have never met any of Red's family, I knew Red for many years. He and I went to Ingram Grade School together and I made contact with him again a year ago which was wonderful. He and I had a great conversation and were going to get together when I came back to Pittsburgh next month. I am so very sorry that didn't happen. He has been in my thoughts throughout the years and after talking with him recently I know he is in heaven and I look forward to seeing him there. I will miss you my friend but there is joy in knowing we will see each other again.
Tedd Williams
May 16, 2007
Dear Ruth, Mrs Miley, Ben, Ty Jerry, Matt and families,
I just learned of Red's passing today and wanted to extend my deepest sympathy. I lost my sister last month and know the pain and sorrow in your hearts. They tell us time heals all wounds and I trust that to be true. I will always remember Red for his foresight and his never wavering belief in the things he did. Once Red was committed to a business project or personal decision he never looked back. Failure was never an option in Red's eyes and he rarely got rattled by anything. I always respected him for that. I will also remember, with a smile, Red's red Ford van sitting in his turn 4 "headquarters" at the track back in the 90's.
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Bert Wingertsahn
May 12, 2007
Dear Sis,
I only wish I could have been with you at this very difficult time. I know how much you love all your children and how hard it must be to lose one of them.
I'm praying for your comfort and a peace that passes all understanding.
Also know that I am praying for you, your doctor and all who will be attending you on May 22. May our creator bless you and your family.
Love,
Alberta (Bert) Wingertsahn
May 12, 2007
Dear Ruth,Daughters and the entire Miley Family,
We only met one time and that was at the spaghetti dinner at Wind Haven Christian Church ( we sat with you that night). However, I have know Red since he was a little kid. His Mom kept me updated on his progress since the time of his illiness.
I was so happy to see him at the dinner and to finally get to meet you and the girls. I have seen many pictures of them from Grandma.
I understand the long line at the funeral home only affirmed how well he was loved by no only family and friends, but anyone he came in contact with. I wish I could have been there but we had just arrived at our daughter's home in Tyrone, GA, some 700 miles away from Pittsburgh. But please know that the entire family has my heartfelt sympathy and you are all in my prayers.
PATRICIA PFEIFER-NOVITSKY
May 11, 2007
DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE MILEY FAMILY. I HAVE KNOWN RED FOR A LONG TIME. (WE WERE IN THE SAME GRADE-ATTENDED INGRAM SCHOOL TOGETHER
& WENT ON TO GRADUATE) I HAVEN'T SEEN HIM IN A LONG TIME--BUT I REMEMBER HIM AS BEING A VERY NICE PERSON. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS!
Chris Wagner
May 11, 2007
I just wanted to pass along my condolences to the entire Miley family. I met Red last year when I was considering an internship with him and his racetracks. While I didn't know him well, he was a very genuine man to be around and I'm sure he will be deeply missed.
Amy Heller
May 10, 2007
Dear Ruth, Jade, Lydia, Kate and the extended Miley Family,
My husband and I had the honor of meeting Red and Ruth at an AFTH Christmas party in 1998. At that time Red was standing in for an absentee Santa Claus. Little did we know, at that time, how much the role fit him. As we traveled to China the following December, who should be on our trip, but Red and Ruth. Ruth, I want you to know that Red had quite a long conversation with me about you. He told me that you were the love of his life and that building a family with you was the best thing he had ever done. He was so proud of you and the girls. I remember him trapsing along the streets of Nanchang and the people truly believing that he was Santa...and I do know that he left total strangers bags of gifts...not only the gift of his grace and laughter, but the ability to start their own businesses to save them from the poverty which they were destined to continue living in. Later, when both of our families were ready to adopt again, I got stranded in China. Paperwork needed notorized and it looked as though I may be stuck there in the White Swan for Christmas. Neil called Red, who left his own plans, to come to our rescue. He truly was our Santa Claus that year. Red will be remembered for the love he had for all of mankind, his generousity, his huge heart and for the phenomenal family man he was. I know that the memories he created were not only for those who were familiar with him, but for those he only met briefly. God bless all of you. You are in our hearts and our prayers.
Kathy (Langford) Saffer
May 9, 2007
Dear Ruth and family,
I just found out today about Red's death from Lois Webb. I am so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you all. May God's wonderful loving arms surround you at this time.
Lois and I visited in your home over our "Montour reunion" a few years back and I appreciated your hospitality. Red was always a positive person with encouraging things to say and he will be missed. The testimony to his life and how he treated others is shown in the memories that people have shared online.
May God comfort you with wonderful memories of your time with him.
Prayers, Kathy Saffer
Denise Minor
May 9, 2007
I met Red years ago, as a volunteer at the Boys and Girls Club, and what a wonderful and caring man he was. Now years later, I am working at Motordrome, and his smile would light up the track.
It has been an honor and pleasure to have known such a good man, what a great world we would have, if there were more Red Mileys.
Love ya Red.
Scott Fette
May 8, 2007
Dear Miley Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ... May God be with you and help you through this difficult time. It was a pleasure serving "Miley's" over the years. Your friend, Scott Fette, former employee of Triangle Heating and Cooling.
Michael Laffey
May 8, 2007
My deepest condolances, I have had the pleasure of being a customer of Reds for many years. He was a thaughtful and deliberate man who thaught of others often and was always fair and honest. He will be truly missed by all.
Red, Jade, and Lydia December 21, 2001
Debra Mercier
May 8, 2007
Here's a photo of Red showing off Jade and Lydia at our wedding in December 2001. The Merciers
Roslyn O'Hara
May 8, 2007
I just wanted to express my sincere condolences to the entire Miley family. I met Red many years ago while Ben was racing at Motordrome. He always had a smile on his face that lit up the area. When I was looking to get hitches on my vehicle I made the longer drive to go to Miley's since I knew he treated people right.
I wish you the best in getting through this rough time in your life. He is surrounded by God's love and is and angel for everyone that knew and loved him.
Al and Kathy Rousseau
May 8, 2007
Dear Miley family,
Our thought and prayers are with you.We will miss Red.If you need anything let us know
Ferraco Family
May 8, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Miley family. Red was a big man with a very kind heart. He will be missed.
Marcie Barlow
May 8, 2007
Dear Miley Family,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Although I personally never got to meet Red my sister Linda worked with him when she was in college and loved every minute of it. He was a kind and generous person and will be greatly missed. Please be assured that he is in a better place and watching over all of you, especially those three precious little girls. To Mrs. Miley and Ty, you two are certainly great individuals and my deepest sympathies go out to you. If any of you need anything, even just someone to listen please let me know. I am sure the strong family ties you all have will sustain and strengthen you through this most difficult time.
Marcie Barlow
Linda and Frank S. Barlow
Del Rougeux Jr., Del Rougeux Sr. and Rougeux Motorsports, Modified 20D
Terry DeIuliis
May 8, 2007
Miley Family,
I never had the pleasure of meeting "Red", but I spoke with him on the phone numerous times when I rented RV's from him for my company. Rest assured that "Red" is now in a better place and all of your good memories of him will help you get through this terrible time in your lives.
Lois (Masco) Webb
May 7, 2007
Dear Ruth and family,
I knew a very long time ago that Red was one of those rare, special individuals that cross our paths for a short time but stay in our hearts forever. As a kid in high school, he had a way with people and could charm the toughest of them. His heart was made of gold and as big as his smile. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing and wish I had had a chance to say Goodbye to such a dear old friend. May God wrap His arms around each of you and carry you though this dark valley of grief to a place where you can bask in Red's warm legacy of love for you.
Janet Lindberg
May 7, 2007
Please accept my sympathy on your loss of "Red".Though I only knew him for a short time, I could see he enjoyed giving of himself to others. He seemed at peace w/ his life accomplishments & said his greatest achievement was his daughters. He was an impressive man, it was an honor meeting him.
Sincerely,
Jan Lindberg RN(Hillman)
Mr. & Mrs.Bill Steinbach Jr.& Family
May 7, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are extended to you and your family.May your memories bring you comfort.
Bob Freshour
May 7, 2007
Thoughts and prayers for Red, his family, and the entire Miley family. He will be missed.
Anita Murray
May 7, 2007
Miley Family,
Our deepest sympathies. Red will be missed in the racing community.
Tanner,Jeff, Anita Murray
Murray 64 racing
Dave Wright Davis
May 7, 2007
Our most heartfelt condolences to the Miley Family. As a fellow Rotarian, Red always was generous , thoughtful and a great friend. HIs positive outlook and smiling face with be greatly missed. We were all the better for having known him!
Ron and Mimi Urban
May 7, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. There is no doubt that Red is in Heaven.
Jill (Chess) Paxton
May 7, 2007
Dear Ruth, Jade, Lydia & Kate,
I know that there are no words that could ease the pain you feel. Know that your grief is shared by many others, and know that you are all in my prayers.
Red was a kind man who generously awarded me a scholarship to help with my college education. I was blessed to know him.
I pray that you will feel God's comforting arms embracing you during this heartbreaking time.
J Hutchinson
May 7, 2007
Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
The Staff at Bethany
C.I.T. Baseball & Softball Assn., Inc.
May 7, 2007
Dear Miley Family . . .
On behalf of the entire membership and Board of Directors of C.I.T. Baseball & Softball Association, Inc. we extend our deepest heartfelt sympathies to all of you in the loss of Red.
Father, husband, brother, and son to you, Red was simply a great friend to many of us and was a long-time supporter of C.I.T.
He will be missed.
Our prayer for you is this . . .
May you find strength in the love of family and friends;
Peace in the grace and blessings of God;
Comfort in your many happy memories;
and an inner Joy knowing God has welcomed Red to Him in heaven.
With sincere sympathy and caring,
Vince Laboon, Laboon Racing
May 7, 2007
To the entire Miley family we offer our deepest condolences. Over the years, Red did a lot for our team. From sending a check after breaking in hot laps, to sending a tow truck when we broke down on the way to the races, to treating our sponsors with great respect when we rented out the press box, he always took care of us and all the other drivers. We will miss you and all you did for us and the sport of auto racing. Rest in peace.
Butch, Robyn & Madison Lambert (Lambert Racing #27)
May 7, 2007
Deepest sympathy to the entire Miley family during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you over the coming days and months.
Penny Siedlecki Tucker
May 7, 2007
Ruth, your beautiful girls and the entire Miley Family,
I met Red in 1988 when he bought a safe from me for his RV office. One joke and hearty laugh and I was hooked. Almost 20 years later I look back on the how much I had come to rely on Red's laugh and positive perspective on life. I've shared the journey of love you and he had made for your girls and I've watched them grow through pictures, unconditional love and all the stories Red had shared with me. I looked forward to the visits through Chicago and the phone calls that have inspired me when I needed it the most. I truly am a better person for having Red in my life. My heart beats heavy for your loss, but I smile a mile knowing he is at peace and knowing he is watching over all of us. My love and prayers are with you always. Thank you for sharing this wonderful man with me and with all who knew him. Penny Siedlecki Tucker
Tim Riley and J&W Racing
May 7, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Margaret Ferguson
May 7, 2007
To the Miley Family, May I extent to you my sympathies at the loss of "Red" Miley. I remember him as a kid growing up in Ingram. He was a friend of my brother, Frank. If you need anything please contact me. I am keeping your family in my prayers.
Kathy Szklinski
May 7, 2007
My
thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Although I
didn't know Red all that long, I looked forward to seeing him every
Tuesday whe he came to lunch with the Carnegie Roatery at the Club at Nevillewood. He always had a smile on his face. Red will be greatly
misssed.
Russ Bradford
May 7, 2007
It is with a heavy heart that I pass on this message from all of us here at Bazell Race Fuels. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends at this time of great sorrow. We will all miss Red but we can rest in the knowledge that he is in a better place and be thankful in the fact that he brightened so many lives in the time he had with us.
Diane Karcz
May 7, 2007
Dear Ruth, Jade, Lydia and Kate,
There are never the right words when you have lost someone so wonderful and whom you love so much. I hope someday as you remember this wonderful and happy man,your sadness will be replaced with a smile as big as his. He brought a lot of happiness to others and always made me feel welcome at Rotary.
I know they are in Heaven greeting him with his favorite Rotary song..."Hello, Hello, HELLO!
I am so glad I got a chance to visit with you Red. You will be greatly missed by all!
With Deepest Sympathy,
Diane from Carnegie Rotary
Tina Livingston
May 7, 2007
Dear Ruth, Jade, Lydia, Kate, and the entire Miley family,
We were deeply saddened when we heard that Red had passed away. We would like to extend our deepest condolences. I have a fond memory of visiting your home in Pittsburgh and felt the love that you had for each other sparkled in every corner of the house. Red was a very kind and loving man with a big heart and tireless energy. I hope that the memories of him will give you comfort.
With affection and deepest sympathy, Tina & Preston Livingston
Damon DeOrio & Family
May 7, 2007
Ruth & girls,Our hearts go out to you and your family in this sad time. Red was such a nice and kind man , boy i will miss seeing him when i come in to do my scratch off ritual. Stay strong and god bless.
Tom and Kim Bartel
May 7, 2007
Sis and Ty:
Kim and I are deeply saddened by Red's passing. We didn't know of his condition. Please be assured that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. All our love........
Lisa (turn 4 fan) Sypien
May 7, 2007
We extend our deepest sympathy to the Miley family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cher Moser
May 7, 2007
The Miley Family:
Ruth & Family; Mom & Ty; Ben/Jayne & family; Jerry/Debbie & family; Matt/Karen & family & Uncle Jim & family
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. Red was a true leader and inspirator to many and will not be forgotten.
Cindy Babish-Schultz
May 7, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here badly; you're part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er. I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Missy Rex
May 7, 2007
To the entire Miley family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I extend my sincerest condolences to you and your entire family. We know the anguish of losing a loved one unexpectedly and we know God will help you and your family during this most difficult time. I remember going to the RV shows and seeing Red each year w/my Mom (Donna Hayes Rex) and he was always beaming with pride as he showed us the latest pictures of the girls. I've heard a lot of stories over the years about the Miley's - and I know my Mom, Aunt Rita & Grandmother will be there to welcome him. God Bless.
Kenneth Ide
May 7, 2007
My deepest sympathies go to the family of this wonderful man. He helped with my Eagle Scout project and wish I could pay my respects in person, but I am detained on Military duty.
Christina Trevenen
May 6, 2007
Dear Ruth,
You know that we are always here for anything you would ever need. You had said to me at the funeral home that Red was such a great guy. It didn't take a long time to figure that out, all you had to do was talk to him once! You, Jade, Lydia and Kate truely are blessed to have had him. We will be praying for you everyday.
All of Our Love,
Scott and Christina Trevenen and Family
EDWARD & MARY ANN PUPO (PARTNER AT JULES MACHINE )
May 6, 2007
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE MILEY
FAMILY,OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE
WITH YOU AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT
TIME.IT HAS BEEN MANY YEARS SINCE OUR PATHS HAD CROSSED AT PPMS AND LENERVILLE,BUT RED WAS THE KIND OF PERSON THAT ONCE YOU MET HIM AND SPENT TIME WITH HIM YOU WOULD NEVER FORGET HIM
Carrie Bracken
May 6, 2007
Ruth, Girls, and Family,
Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you now and for a very long time. Red was like a father to Dan and has been a great friend and advisor.
All our love,
Dan and Carrie
Lilly,Scott and Amy Li
May 6, 2007
Ruth and Family,
Accept our deepest sympathy, Red will always be a smile with a big beard held in our hearts! His laughs , encoragements and help make us remember him forever. His helping characteristics makes us admire him . if it were not for him, our life would be different. He is our brother in our hearts. If you need anything we are a phone call away. Hugs and prayers!
Love,
Wayne & Manny Golebiewski
May 6, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Darren Ferguson(54 am.stock)
May 6, 2007
We extend our deepest sympathy to the miley family our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Don Gamble
May 6, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Miley Family during this difficult time. I have many memories with Red and I appreciate the opportunities we had to talk at the track and on the radio.
Ray & Debbie Koerner
May 6, 2007
Matt & Family,
We extend our deepest sympathy to the Miley family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lynn Maguire
May 6, 2007
We were so sorry to hear about Red's passing. We knew him through the gas station and later truck rental. He was a wonderful man who always had time for his customers-friends. He was a big help to me when I did an article on getting your car ready for winter. We will never forget him. With deepest sympathy, The Maguire family
Slade Family
May 5, 2007
We extend our deepest sympathy to the Miley family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lynnette & Chip Buchsbaum
May 5, 2007
Ruth and family,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
M&H Racing SS#64
May 5, 2007
Our race team would like to send our deepest sympathy to the Miley family. Red will be missed.
amy angotti
May 5, 2007
Ruth,
Accept my deepest sympathy, Red will always be a smile held in my heart! If you need anything I am a phone call away. Hugs and prayers!
Love, Amy Van Balen
Terry O'Rourke
May 5, 2007
Ruth,
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Terry O'Rourke
Mary Lynn Nicholas
May 5, 2007
It is with a heavy heart we come to sign this ledger. Red was always the man you could count on for a smile, a hug, a pat on the back. His optimism and positive attitude were infectious. His kindness to me as an employee and my family as part of the racing community will never be forgotten. Our deepest sympathies and prayers go out to you all. God Speed Red. You will be sorely missed by all who knew you.
Gary Maglin
May 5, 2007
Dear Ruth and family, We are the MAGLIN family who adopted Haley from China through Adoptions from the Heart in November of 1998. We will always be greatful to Red for doing alot of the paper and notary work for us. We haven't been attending the bigger TRFWCC events in recent years and regretably have also not seen you and your family. We had no idea that Red was ill and then I was shocked to see the announcement of his passing in the sports section of the Thursday Post Gazette. Red cheerfully went out of his way to help people he knew as well as strangers like my couin Renee from Wrentham, Massechsetts. Red was a first class individual who will be GREATLY missed. Sue and I feel blessed that we knew him. Love and deepest condolences to you, Jade, Lydia, and Kate. Gary and Sue Maglin and family.
Eugene Ciferno
May 5, 2007
To the Miley Family, our condolences for the loss of our great friend Red. Our prayers are with you. Red will be remembered by all of us at Team Ciferno.
Eugene Ciferno
Jennifer Tyman (Daily News)
May 5, 2007
I was so sad to see Red has passed. He was one of my advertising customers and one of the nicest you could ever meet. He was so proud of his girls. May God Bless all of you.
The Andersons
May 5, 2007
Our hearts are with you in this time of sorrow. May God watch over you and your family. Red was a gentle man and loved by everyone. We will keep you in our prayers.
Robin Wasik
May 5, 2007
Ti,Mom,and family I was so sorry to hear about Red's passing i will keep you in my prayers in days ahead. He will be missed at PMS by everyone. I'm so sorry for your loss of a good son,husband,brother,uncle and friend.
john & linda wirtz
May 5, 2007
MILEY FAMILY,
Sorry of your loss of "RED" as he was a freind and will be forever missed.
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