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Ronald Lafko Obituary
Wake Forest, NC - We mourn the passing of Ronald F. Lafko, 76, who passed peacefully into eternal life at home on May 25, 2019 surrounded by his loving family. The son of Fred J. Lafko and Barbara (Howroyd) Lafko, Ron was a lifelong resident of Dutchess County.
On September 28, 1963 he was married to Linda Truman, who predeceased him in 2003 after nearly 40 years of marriage. Ron is survived by their three children and their spouses, Cynthia Lafko of Poughkeepsie NY, Craig A. Lafko (David) of Fredrick MD, Christine Marcello (Michael) of New Windsor NY; his grandchildren Brooke Lafko, Allison and Melissa Marcello; and his great granddaughter Addison Gadonniex. In addition he is survived by his brother Gary Lafko and his sisters Beth Garrison and Deborah Sherman as well as many cousins, nieces, nephews and friends. He was predeceased by his brothers Bruce and Dennis Lafko. Several years after Linda's death, Ron married Barbara Jensen of Wappingers Falls, who also predeceased him.
Raised to believe that family came first, Ron worked in the various enterprises begun by his father. A man of diverse talents Ron wore many hats in those businesses, primarily in construction, sitework and development. He was the glue that held operations together, the man who took care of the daily details necessary to run a successful business. Well known in his local community, Ron was a life member of the Sports Museum of Dutchess County for 25 years, serving on the Board of Trustees for 10 years and as the Chairman of the Mr. Average Bowler Tournaments that were held each year.
Calling hours will be held at McHoul Funeral Home, Inc., 895 Route 82, Hopewell Junction, Wednesday May 29th from 6 to 9pm. Funeral services will be held at the funeral home on Thursday morning at 10am, with entombment to follow in Poughkeepsie Rural Cemetery.
Ron will be sadly missed by his family and they wish to honor his memory by supporting the organization he held dear. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in his memory to the Sports Museum of Dutchess County, c/o S. McSween, Treasurer, 3 Sherwood Dr. Poughkeepsie, NY 12603.
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Shirley Sullivan
May 24, 2020
Ron was BestMan at our wedding and was a close friend and relative of our family and his through the years. Many years of vacations, trips, birthday parties, etc. between our families. We shall always remember Ron as a good heart. RIP Ron.
May 28, 2019
So sorry to see this today. We moved to Quiet Acres 40 years ago and met Ron then. He was an important member of our community. He always had a smile and was so helpful whenever he could. Thoughts are with your family.
Ellen and John Korz
May 28, 2019
God Speed to a wonderful Father...R.I.P., all my Love your son Craig. ❤
Re Murphy
May 28, 2019
Hootie, Beth, Debbie & the Lafko family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love
Re
Re Murphy
May 28, 2019
It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.
Vincent Bettina
May 28, 2019
I want to extend my condolences to the Lafko family for their loss . Ron was a kind person and caring family man.
I had the pleasure of working with him for twenty years and had a good sense of humor and work ethic.
You are missed but now at peace and in a better place.
Vincent Bettina
Shirley Sullivan
May 28, 2019
Rest In Peace Ron. We will miss you here on earth. But what a happy reunion awaits you with all passed family members.
Love,
Shirley, Susie, Sharlene,
Paul, Brianna, and Brendan
ANN BARTON
May 28, 2019
Lafko family...Ron will be remembered as a kind, considerate, loving man. As a student nurse with 'Trumie' I remember Ron as a kind caring "big brother" to the classes on 1963 and 1964. He took many of us under his wing with his thoughtfulness and protectiveness. We have great memories of the Lafkos from times at VBH through years at Wally's Restaurant and glad he and Trumie were our friends. We know he will be missed but hope your happy memories will sustain you. Ann (Potter) and David Barton.
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McHoul Funeral Home, Inc. - Hopewell Junction895 Route 82 P.O. Box A, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533
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McHoul Funeral Home, Inc. - Hopewell Junction895 Route 82 P.O. Box A, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533
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