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Stanley Benham Obituary

Stanley Benham

Millbrook - Stanley H. Benham Jr., 87, died on April 2nd at home in hospice care. Born to Mildred and Stanley H. Benham in Stanfordville, NY, he attended Millbrook Memorial High School. He graduated from Clarkson College of Technology with a degree in Electrical Engineering and was a Second Lieutenant in the Army Signal Corps Reserves. He worked for General Electric and then was employed by IBM, where he worked for 32 years.

After retirement, he moved to Oak Summit Road, Millbrook, NY, spending some of his leisure time golfing, hunting, fishing and bowling. He was a member of Chestnut Ridge Rod and Gun Club and a member of the Lyall Memorial Federated Church.

He is predeceased by a sister, Mary Louise Murphy and a brother, David and is survived by brother, Sidney of Stanfordville, NY and sister, Virginia Augerson of Millbrook, NY. In addition to his wife, Shirley, his survivors include three sons and their wives: Thomas and Beatrice of Kingston, NY, William and Lynda of East Quogue, NY and Stephen and Margaret of Sidney, NY. Other survivors are granddaughters Jill Benham and Renee Hart; grandsons Michael, Bradley, Matthew and Garrett Benham; and two great granddaughters, Clarissa and Paige Hart.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be sent to Meals On Wheels in care of Lyall Memorial Federated Church, Maple Avenue, Millbrook, NY. Funeral Services will be held on April 9th at 11 AM at the Lyall Memorial Federated Church, Maple Avenue, Millbrook, NY.

Funeral Arrangments are entrusted to Allen Funeral Home.

For Stanley's guestbook please visit www.hudsonvalleyfuneralhomes.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Apr. 5 to Apr. 7, 2016.

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Dan Moore

August 20, 2022

I used to work for Stan. He was a fine manager and really liked by his team at IBM RTP years ago in the Test Engineering departent. I was poking around on the internet and found his obit.

Lois Heidrick

April 7, 2016

Stan touched the lives of so many people. He will be sadly missed but never forgotten. Lois Heidrick

April 5, 2016

SORRY to hear, Bob & Mitzi Eggleston

Rebecca Reyes

April 4, 2016

Sad to hear that you have left this world Uncle Stanley. You will be missed so much. I imagine you can meet up with dad and talk and laugh. May you rest peacefully. All my best to the family. Love Becky

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