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Theodore Arrington Obituary

Theodore W. Arrington

Poughkeepsie - Theodore W. Arrington, 66, of Poughkeepsie, New York, passed away on April 20, 2020. He was born on October 22, 1953 in Manhattan, New York and raised by his mother, Geraldine Galloway-Frost.

Affectionately known as "Bigg Tree", he obtained his certification in Graphic Design from Mercy College in 1982 and his Associates Degree in Humanities in 1983. In 1989, Tree graduated with advanced standing from Marist College with a BSW, a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology and a minor in Criminal Justice. In 1990, he graduated from Fordham University with a Masters in Psychology and Social Welfare. A year later he earned his Masters degree in Education Administration from Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts Graduate Leadership Academy.

Following his many collegiate accomplishments, Tree worked as an Academic Advisor at Marist College for 5 years, as Program Director at Mill Street Loft for 6 years. A Director of Youth Services for Pius XII Youth and Family Services for 7 years. He served the community as a Crisis Intervention Counselor at the Poughkeepsie High School. Tree, then became a social worker focusing on alternative education at the Poughkeepsie Middle School and at the Family Partnership Center. He continued his long career in the service of the youth of Poughkeepsie as the Dean of Students at the Circle of Courage Learning center for alternative education and special education students, and later as the Dean of students at the Poughkeepsie Middle School.

In 2008, Tree founded REAL Skills Network, Inc., an organization that provides after school and summer initiatives for Poughkeepsie youth. After 12 years, REAL Skills Network, Inc. provides a variety of initiatives for elementary, middle and high school students that promote academic progression and positive peer interactions.

Touching thousands through workshops and initiatives, REAL Skills Network, lnc. continues to be the largest alternative youth empowerment institution in the city of Poughkeepsie. His equation to building a strong community involved learning something new everyday. He believed the best way to learn is to teach, coining one of his most memorable phrases, "each one teach one."

Tree is survived by his father, Frederick Frost, wife of 45 years, Sharon Arrington-Styles, daughters, China-Briese and Torah-Chai, sons, Theron and Theodore Jr., grandchildren, Michael, James, Valarie, Trinity and Justin, nieces Johnna, Calais, Khristian, Satoria, Anastasia, nephews, Jason and Branden; God daughter, Rashida Hanley, as well as a host of loved ones and friends.

He was preceded in death by his great-grandmother, Theodora Galloway, mother Geraldine Galloway-Frost and sister, Jasminn T. Emanuel.

A Family Final Farewell for Mr. Arrington will be 10:00 a.m., Friday, May 1, 2020 at the Community Mausoleum at Poughkeepsie Rural Cemetery, Poughkeepsie, NY. Rev. James Hassel will officiate. Due to Covid-19 restrictions a reception will be held at a later date at the convenience of the family. Professional service entrusted to Rhodes Funeral Home, 43 Fairview Ave., Poughkeepsie, NY. "Committed To Being The Very Best" Call us anytime 452-2894 or 452-6143.

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Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Apr. 28 to Apr. 30, 2020.

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Valarie arrington

April 22, 2023

3 years I still miss you every day

Always willing to support!

Sakima McClinton

May 4, 2020

Randy,Lyric,Sylvia,Randi Butler

May 3, 2020

Such a beautiful lovely human being, passionate, selfless and kind. Always working to uplift the youth of the community. The true meaning of the word Hero. He was Bigger than life. We love you Tree and you will be greatly missed. Rest In Peace my friend.
The Butler Family

Ellerie Johnson

May 1, 2020

The first time we met you asked me how does it feel sitting in between Jason's kidney and even though I thought it was gross it was a great ice breaker!! Lol. I knew then u would be my new fav person! My only regret is that i didn't get to spend alot of time after hearing so many stories but the time I got was more than enough! Im forever grateful for everything that you put into Jason!! He is more that wonderful and I know you were a big part, along with his mom & grandmother!! I pray peace for the family you still here that they know God needed you home!! No more suffering & pain!! I love you & Kiss Jaz for me!!! ❤

Billy Chia

April 30, 2020

Uncle hammer thank you for everything you've taught me. You will forever live in everyone's hearts and prays. I'm gonna miss all of those late night talk and rap sessions. I'm thankful for all the memories and I will always remember you. Much love Big Tree love Billy aka Chapo❤

April 30, 2020

To the Arrington family, I would like to send my sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one and hope you will find some comfort during your time of sorrow. MEH.,To the Arrington family, I would like to send my sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one and hope you will find some comfort during your time of sorrow. MEH.

Deonna Garrett

April 30, 2020

Pop,
Words can't express how much you meant to me. I love you always and forever!! You will be missed so much. R.I.P BIGG TREE!!

Theron Arrington

April 30, 2020

My dad...my rock...my inspiration to achieve all that I can in this life. Thank you for all the lessons you taught me, even when I didn't want to hear it. They still stuck with me and I still live by them. I will continue to be "love" like you intended for me to be. I love and miss you so much. And I hope you finally forgive me and Mom for missing that concert.

Thanksgiving 2k19 ❤

Anastasia Lucien

April 30, 2020

Uncle Hammer, words just aren't enough. Your legacy continues and I am happy to have all of the memories and laughs stored forever in my heart. I will miss your smile and your freestyles lol! Gone too soon, but you will never be forgotten. We forever celebrating 4/20 for you pop! Thank you for all of the love and knowledge. Love Ana ❤

Onaje Benjamin

April 30, 2020

I'll miss you Tree. You and Lateef were revolutionaries before your time. Don't you two cause too much trouble up there:-)

Love,

Onaje

Valarie Arrington

April 30, 2020

I love you pop i don't know what to do without you you were the best thing to happen to me you made me strong and understand this world is cold it's so quiet without you here I miss your voice and you grunts n moaning wish this was a dream we had so many good times and now I understand every word you ever said to me my heart is so broken I miss you so much we all do pop I would do anything to just hug you

Robert Wynne

April 30, 2020

My sincerest condolences to Theodore's family. I didn't have the pleasure of meeting him but he was a well accomplished educator it seems. As a retired teacher from Arlington H.S., I enjoyed reading about all his many accomplishments. We lost a very dedicated educator of the youth in America.

Valarie Arrington

April 30, 2020

Grampa I love you so much and this is the hardest thing I have ever went through I feel like my heart is broken and I just wish I could hear your voice again I thank you for raising me I thank you for loving me and understanding my mistakes I love you so much

Sharon Styles-Arrington

April 29, 2020

To my loving caring husband.im missing you so much but i watched you fight the disease Hard. I love you but God need you more. No more pain and suffering. You work hard all your life since you were 13yrs old. Its your time now to. R.I.P. Dont take up all the space in the mausoleum stay on your side. LOL! I WILL NEVER LOVE LIKE THIS AGAIN ITS ALL WITH YOU!

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