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Robert DeCoite Obituary
Robert Anthony DeCoite, Jr., III was tragically taken from us on December 2, 2019, while doing what he always did… protecting his family.
Robert was born on December 17th, 1998, in Hayward, CA. He relocated quickly after his birth, to Santa Rosa, CA, where he spent the majority of his life. Having recently moved to Sparks, NV, to start a new life with his fiancé and baby daughter, Robert quickly embraced family life and had set his wedding date… 10/10/2020. Through the outpouring of love from his old community and his new community, it is clear that Robert touched the lives of many, many people, from all walks of life, without judgement and with a pure heart. His loss will be felt for years to come.
Robert is survived by his parents, Robert DeCoite, Jr. and Alicia Nicole DeCoite (Jackson), his fiancé Luz Elena Gomez Hernandez and their baby girl, Leanna Alicia DeCoite Hernandez. He is also survived by his siblings, Ricky Lee DeCoite, Roman Vincent DeCoite, Rylan Jordan DeCoite, Adrianna Isabella (Bella) DeCoite and Arianna Mia Eva (Mia) DeCoite. He will be missed by his loving, extended family and village.
Services will be held on his 21st birthday, December 17th, 2019 at the Church of the Nazarene, 1135 Farmers Lane, Santa Rosa, CA 95405 at 11 a.m.
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Renee Frodente
January 28, 2020
Ive been waiting to write this, trying to find the right words but thats hard to do when there are no words. Im seeing time and time again that there are no guarantees, we know tomorrow is not promised so Ill say whats in my heart in case I dont get the chance again. Ive known your momma since we were in high school. We didnt get a lot of time together growing up but I know her heart and her fierceness and I know how much she loves you and your brothers and sisters, and now your daughter. Ive watched you grow up through pictures and feel blessed to have had the chance to meet you. While I didnt know you personally, what I felt when I met you is that you had a good heart (you got that from your parents) and I could see the love you had for Leanna and Luz. You had such a sweet smile and great energy and I hate knowing its gone from the physical world. I know Leanna will be loved beyond beyond and I know in my heart that even though your loved ones cant have you here in person, that you are there with them every step of the way in spirit. An angel they know. Much love to the family. You will be remembered always.
Jenifer Alley
January 19, 2020
I wish we could of met . but we will in our next life. Your time on earth was short,but God needed you with him. Rest in peace cousin. Love, Jenifer M. Alley
Dina and Joey McCarthy
January 15, 2020
You have always been our family. We loved you like our own. We will miss you every single day. ❤
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Dana Lucas
December 20, 2019
Sending love and hugs to your family. So sorry for the loss of Rob.
Last picture I took of my son.
Rob DeCoite
December 18, 2019
Heidi Harris
December 17, 2019
Love to your family. May his memory be a bright light of hope and protection for his baby girl.
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