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Nathaniel Kotite Obituary
November 27, 1999 - June 10, 2020
Our sweet, beautiful Nathaniel Kotite died suddenly on June 10, leaving behind a crushed, bewildered family. He was 20 years old. Nathaniel graduated from Ridgway High School in 2018 and worked as a Guest service representative at Boudin SF in Montgomery Village. He loved history and was thinking about a future career in teaching. Every spare moment he had was spent with his parents, his many friends, or out on the basketball court. Nathaniel also had a lifelong love of cats, especially his own beloved Esperanza, who has been with him since he was three. The isolation caused by the coronavirus pandemic was very hard on him. We will never forget Nathaniel's sweet smiles, his playfulness and his sensitivity. Nathaniel is survived by his parents, Rebecca Kotite and Andrew Girard, his grandmother Shirley Young and his aunt, uncle and cousins in Southern California. He will be missed by his close friends from kindergarten forward: Craig Q., Nick W., Auston R. and many more. Nathaniel will be laid to rest at Santa Rosa Memorial Park. A private celebration of Nathaniel's life will be planned at a time when it's safe to gather again.
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Memories and Condolences
for Nathaniel Kotite
Alicia R.
March 15, 2022
Nathaniel, first time I met you we were just kids playing in the pool at alisias. You were so down to earth and caring. Up until your death you were nothing but sweet and kind and a loyal friend. I will not forget you. RIP. Xoxo
Jayton Parish
June 18, 2021
It’s didn’t matter what was going on, Nathaniel smiled through it all. I miss him dancing in the hallways, shooting around on the courts, doing his own thing making us all laugh. Rest easy Bulls Nation
Sarah Girard
July 8, 2020
What a sad world we live in that beautiful people leave us far too early. My heart breaks that we never had the opportunity to meet, I know that you would have touched by soul.
Destiny Lee
July 5, 2020
Nathaniel was one of the kindest people I have ever met. Even when he wasnt feeling the greatest he continued to keep a smile on his face and everyone elses around him. I remember about a year ago he called me one night telling me about how he was upset and that he missed me since I had moved away. I wasnt feeling like myself either at the time and even though he felt the way he did he didnt hesitate to stay on the phone with me for hours to help me keep my spirits up. That was the last time I talked to him and I regret not visiting him like I said I would before it was too late. He did not deserve to be taken so soon and I will never forget the sweet, kind guy who took time out of his day for me on multiple occasions. I love you forever Nathaniel and I know youre in a better place now.
Athena Rossi
July 5, 2020
Tan❤
You were always such a bright and beautiful soul. Everytime I was with you, you had a smile on your face and brought one to everyone around you. You were so goofy and sweet. I miss you all the time. Forever cherished Fly high angel
Cynthia Conners
July 5, 2020
Although I did not know Nate personally, I was a customer at Boudin and Nate was a definite stand out. He always had a smile on his face, was so friendly and outgoing and honestly just always brightened up the entire restaurant. The world is a little dimmer today without Nate in it. Time to soar with the angels Nate, in your 20 years you left your mark on alot of us, even those you didn't know. To his family, I am so so sorry. RIP Nate.
Cynthia Feezell
July 4, 2020
I will miss your smile and how you always made me laugh ... love you Nathaniel Nama
Aimee
July 4, 2020
I cant even believe this has happened ! If I would of known this was even in the. Stars I would of done any thing in my power to change the outcome ! I know theres always a lesson or a reason but this I dont understand! I know u never would of wanted to hurt any one and leaving us did so ! I dont think you knew just how much so many enjoyed you loved your dearly ! I hope your dancing I hope your free I hope you know we love ❤ you !
jonathan chun
July 3, 2020
nathaniel has been a homie from day one. we shared numerous great memories together and he will be very much missed
Ed Navarro
July 2, 2020
Nathaniel was a student of mine at Slater Middle School. He could fill a room with his smile. I remember the times we spent in class fondly as he was an key member of our class community.
It is so sad that he has gone so soon. He will be missed by so many.
My condolences go out to his family and friends during these tough times.
Destinee
July 2, 2020
Nathaniel has a kind heart and pure soul I have known him for close to 4 years, and we hung out a lot and he always knew how to put a smile on my face , u were taken to soon and I wish I saw you one more time before but you are in a better place now forever loved and missed ❤Love you tan
Aaron
July 1, 2020
Didnt have the opportunity to see you often enough Nathaniel but you will be sorely missed.
Julie Peterich
July 1, 2020
Very sad to hear about Nathaniels passing. He was my student at Ridgway and this is such sad news. Praying for all of his family and friends through this difficult time. ❤
Paul Rapalo
July 1, 2020
Nathaniel knew who he was, thats more than anybody else these days. A smile can change someones entire day and he knew how to wield that powerful responsibility taking every opportunity possible with that contagious grin of his to light up a day showing others that all you need in life is happiness to make best of any situation. You did make a difference and we will always love you.
Genevieve Jones
July 1, 2020
I met Nathaniel Kotite in 2016 at a friends house in Sebastopol, Calif. He and I seemed like we were the odd one out and we ended both leaving. He had an energy about him that was so positive and was so kind after just meeting me, he sat with me and waited for his dad to pick us and give me a ride home. His dad was as nice as him. Over the years every time we talked it was same energy that never shifted. I will really miss him. He was a really great kid, on the man to being a grown man. May his energy never truly die. Im sorry for this loss. Rest in Paradise Nathaniel Myers Kotite. I hope youre smiling for no reason wherever you are. Im so sorry I didnt tell you how much you meant to me when I had all this time. Im sorry. You will be missed. Xo.
Roman
June 30, 2020
Nathaniel was a great kid with a huge heart. Every time he was around there was a smile on everyones face and endless amounts of laughter. He will be FOREVER missed and Loved endlessly. Thanks for the many years of joy and laughter. Love you bro
Lexus
June 30, 2020
I thought about you while I was driving today & reality kicked in a little harder. It is so hard to accept that someone with such a bright spirit is gone, making our world a little darker. Ill always miss you kid, please show us youre still with us every once in awhile.
Grant
June 30, 2020
Nathaniel was one funny guy. My relationship with him revolved mostly around basketball, and he was one of my favorites to play with. He was an extremely kind guy, he joked around a lot, but it was obvious he had a good heart. I saw him a few days before his passing, and although it was a small exchange, it was enough to make me smile. I wish I had spent more time with him, he will be extremely missed.
Shayla Newman
June 30, 2020
Nathaniel was such a bright and kind soul. My mom was his teacher in elementary school and she always talked about how wonderful he was. I personally didnt know him very well, but Ive talked to and played basketball with him a couple of times, and let me tell you, he made me laugh so much and was so nice. I send my condolences to Nathaniels family and friends. May he Rest In Peace
Elisabeth Botka
June 30, 2020
Nathaniel was a wonderful friend when we were younger :). Over the years we lost touch, but I will never forget the love and playfulness he brought to my life throughout our time together. He was the soul creator of so many of the games we played, like Spy Club and scaring birds away with loud noises and our hands shaped as guns. We would walk or sit around and talk about whatever was going on in our lives, and he was always so accepting and made light of any situation. I didnt know about his goal to become a teacher some day, but I have no doubt in my mind that he would have been perfect at it. Ill miss you, Nathaniel. Even though we havent spoken in many years, you had and always will have an impact on the way I view the world. Rest In Peace, old friend. And I hope your family will find peace as well ❤. You are so loved.
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