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Thomas Alessi Obituary
He was born in Meriden on March 27, 1961, a son of the late Albert and Genevieve (Driscoll) Alessi.
He is survived by his children, April Alessi, of Terryville, Amy Alessi, of Cheshire, and Thomas Mark Alessi, of Guilford; his sister, Ann Alessi, of Wallingford; his brother, Mark Alessi, of Florida; his partner, Bridie Bradbury; and his niece, Ashleigh Lynn Alessi. A Wallingford native, he was loved and admired just as he loved and admired so many. His laugh was infectious and his presence could light up the room. On a Sunday he could be found with a tea on the couch watching the game. He was an avid sports lover, and a diehard New England Patriots, Boston Red Sox, and UConn Huskies fan. He proudly owned and operated Patriot Motors in Wallingford for many years.
His family will receive relatives and friends in The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 N. Main St. Ext., Sunday, Nov. 12, from 2 until 5 p.m. Burial will be private in the In Memoriam Cemetery, Wallingford.
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Tommy and Deb Alessi
November 18, 2017
We love you and miss you so much Tom
Walter Alessi
November 14, 2017
Tom was the youngest of the eleven Alessi cousins so his death comes as a shock to us all. Our deepest sympathy goes to his brother, sister and Tom's entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Walter and Mary
Al Alessi
November 14, 2017
It is with great sadness that we have heard of Tom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Connie
November 13, 2017
May the God of comfort be with you at this time
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November 13, 2017
My condolences to your family death is truly a sting but God promises that one day soon it will be brought to nothing 1 Corinthians 15:23
November 13, 2017
To Tom's family and friends, my sincere condolences, Tom was in my pledge class in 1981 at UConn. Many fond memories, his smile was infectious, a great man. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Paul Sweet
Scott Barnett
November 12, 2017
Ann, Mark and the family, my condolences. Many good memories of a fun, smart guy with a great sense of humor.
Ben Vazquez
November 12, 2017
My condolences to his children and to Bridie.. we lost one of the best , truest people in this world. May God keep his soul and bless those he left behind to miss him.
May you Rest In Peace my brother. I love you. Until the next time we meet. Go Patriots
Carl Graveline
November 12, 2017
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tom is a Sigma Chi Fraternity brother of ours from the Gamma Omega UConn chapter. Tom has entered the Chapter Eternal and we All honor to his name. Rest in peace brother Tom. IHSV
Serena P
November 11, 2017
Very sorry for the families loss of Tom. Great guy. He will be missed.
david lau
November 11, 2017
Dear family and friends - I am so sorry for your loss. We lossed a good friend! Tom you have always been one of those friends for over thirty five years that I could tell anything and everything to right up until the end and no matter how bad it was you still accepted and loved me for me being me and if needed tried to help me figure a better way. Thanks old friends you will be loved and missed forever!!!!
Say Hello to Bill and Ginger!!
Karen Greenbacker
November 11, 2017
Condolences to Tom's family. May he Rest In Peace.
Chuck and June Hayden
November 11, 2017
so sorry to hear this .many memories of our kids growing up ! Never forgotten ! We will miss you Tom !
Pat (Hamel) Collier
November 10, 2017
Mark and Ann I'm so sorry for your loss.
Frank DeGray
November 10, 2017
I'll miss you my friend. Prayers for the family with my deepest condolences.
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