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Lauryn Ossola Obituary

SOUTHINGTON - Lauryn E. Ossola, born in New Haven on March 7, 1988, beloved daughter of Lisa Ossola and Jerry Nickodemski, and the cherished sister of Ellen Ossola, passed away in a tragic accident in Bryn Mawr, Pa., late Saturday night, Oct. 22, 2011.

Lauryn was a 2006 Southington High School alumna, graduating fifth in her class. She was a four-year member of the Girls Swimming and Diving team, serving as a captain in her senior year. She was also a member of the YMCA Stingrays Swim Team for many, many years. At SHS she was a member of The National Honor Society and The Interact Club where she especially loved working for the Every Dollar Feeds Kids program. She worked on several community service projects, a passion she would pursue for the rest of her life. She spent her high school summers lifeguarding at Mountain Grove Club and the town parks.

Lauryn was a presidential scholar recipient and graduated cum laude from Villanova University in 2010 with a major in Economics, minors in Finance and Math, as well as a concentration in the honors program. She was a four-year member of the Chi Omega Sorority, holding several positions, culminating as the campus chapter's president in her senior year. She represented the chapter at national events on several occasions. Lauryn's proudest moments at VU centered on her community service projects. She travelled to Ecuador on a mission trip. She led the funding efforts for Chi Omega's annual "Make A Wish" Drive, sending children with terminal illnesses to Disney World, the Superbowl, and Broadway in New York. She actively participated in Villanova's Day of Service campaign, she was a member of VU's Blue Key Club, The Ambassador's Program, and served on the school's Student Government Association. After graduation, Lauryn accepted an offer from PNC and relocated to their headquarters in Pittsburgh to work as an analyst in the company's Global Treasury Management department. She made close friends quickly and excelled at work. She loved having her family, hometown friends, and friends from VU visit and meet her new friends in Pittsburgh.

Lauryn was a source of laughter, joy, and compassion for everyone she met. Her passion was her love for all of her family and her many friends. She loved life and had many overlapping circles of friends, many consisting of lifelong relationships. Her return trips to Southington were always filled with dinners with family and friends, plans to catch up with friends in surrounding areas, and a steady stream of visitors to the house. She always made time for everyone.

Lauryn leaves behind too many loved ones, family, and friends to list. In addition to her mother, father, and sister, she leaves behind her beloved grandmother, Elizabeth Ossola, of Meriden; grandparents Bill and Alta Nickodemski, of Meriden; aunts and uncles, Barbara Simmons, Madeline Martone, Paul Ossola, Bill Nickodemski, Debbie DeCarlo; and countless cherished cousins, neighbors, and friends from Southington; the Villanova community; and Pittsburgh area.

The funeral will be held Friday 10 a.m. at St. Thomas Church, 99 Bristol St., Southington, for a 10 a.m. Mass. Burial will be at St. Thomas Cemetery. Calling hours will be Thursday 4 to 8 p.m. at the DellaVecchia Funeral Home, 211 N. Main St., Southington. Donations in memory of Lauryn can be made to The Father Ray Jackson Memorial Fund, c/o Villanova University, 800 E. Lancaster Ave., Villanova, PA 19085. For online condolences and directions please visit www.dellavecchiafh.com

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Published by The Record-Journal on Oct. 25, 2011.

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Nova alumni

June 13, 2012

I read about this and am just so devasted by this tradegy. My thoughts an prayers are with you

Cathy Weston

November 12, 2011

Jerry, Lisa & Ellen,
No words are adequate to express the sadness in my heart at the loss of your precious daughter and sister. Lauren was one of the bright spots in my life as a teacher. She greeted me each day with her beautiful smile. My heart aches for you. Take comfort in knowing that God needed her as one of his angels.

David Dobosz

November 7, 2011

Lisa, Jerry, Ellen:
The loss of your precious daughter at such a young age is terrible. I never met
Lauryn but I understand that she was a very loyal, hard-working, and intelligent young lady. I find it extremely difficult to go to
work every night and concentrate with
this tragedy on my mind. You are in my
thoughts always. I will meet Lauryn one
day. May God bless all of you always.
Lauryn, I miss you and always will.

David Murphy

November 6, 2011

As a parent, I grieve with you. May God comfort you and make Himself real to you during this difficult time.

November 4, 2011

May Lauryn's light continue to shine brightly in the hearts and deeds of those who knew her and were touched by her goodness.

A PNC Employee

October 28, 2011

I had the pleasure of meeting Lauryn during her training at PNC. When I think of her, I remember that she was always smiling and making others smile. What a spectacular young lady. My deepest sympathies to her family. Rest in peace Lauryn...you will be missed and remembered !!!

Cinde & Brad Grantham

October 27, 2011

I had the privilege of meeting Lauryn this summer. What a very beautiful and talented young lady she was. I am pretty sure that anyone that came in contact with her was much better off for having met her if only briefly. I am so sorry for your loss. Lauryn will live on in the hearts of everyone that she touched. Much love, Cinde and Brad Grantham

Allison Donahoe

October 27, 2011

Although Lauryn only touched my life for a brief time, her kind and compassionate spirit will stay with me forever. My deepest condolences to her family.

Sherri Lasky

October 27, 2011

Lisa, Jerry, & Ellen,
Very difficult to find words that can express how sorry I am to hear this news. May you find some peace knowing that Lauryn was loved and admired by so many. She was truly meant for something greater.
~ Sherri, Bob, & Sarah Lasky

Tom and Barbara Jardine

October 26, 2011

Jerry and family. We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. It is so sad and tragic that I really don't even know what to say.

A 'Nova alum, and PNC employee

October 26, 2011

I am very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.

The Montagues

October 26, 2011

To live on in the hearts of those you leave behind is not do die.

October 26, 2011

Deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Lauryn,
There are no words now that can remove the pain but knowing others care we hope can bring comfort and peace at this time. The book of Psalms 147:3 says He is healing the brokenhearted ones, And is binding up there painful spots. Our deepest condolences.
May the God of Comfort bring you peace. Ms. Matson

Denise (Riss) Nowakowski

October 26, 2011

Dearest Auntie Alta, Uncle Bill, and Jerry:

While I certainly had not had the opportunity to meet Lauryn, what she had accomplished and how she touched the lives of those who knew her radiates completely. I cannot even imagine what you all going through right now, however please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers right now to guide you through this terrible tragedy. Hold your memories close as they are so important.

Dawn Patterson

October 26, 2011

So very sorry to learn of Lauryn's tragic death. I only knew her briefly at PNC but was very impressed by her work ethic and good naturedness. I wish peace and comfort for her entire family.

October 26, 2011

There's no doubt in my mind that Lauryn is experiencing absolute bliss right now in the presence of Jesus Christ. We'll all see her again.

Jason Zandri

October 26, 2011

Jerry and family - we are sorry for your loss. - From my family to yours.

Catherine Riggs-Bergesen

October 26, 2011

How can this be real? There are no words that are adequate to describe beautiful Lauryn. A huge person - amazing achievements - funny, talented, a fantastic personality. I'm so sorry that the Ossolas and extended family must experience this devastating pain and loss. Sending you all my love and wishes for peace.

villanova 2010 alum

October 26, 2011

I did not know lauryn very well but i remember we were working on a school project together and were able to talk for a while. I remember coming away from it saying.. 'wow this girl is amazing'. she was just so sweet and down to earth and genuine and that really rubbed off on me. I am so sorry and will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers

A Saddened Parent

October 26, 2011

I would like to express my deepest condolences to your family during this difficult time & sudden tragic loss of your young daughter. May God Bless You All & help you all find comfort among each other during this very difficult time

Danielle and Don Widger

October 25, 2011

We are so very sorry to hear about Lauryn. She has left behind a wonderful legacy and a wonderful family. We wish you all much strength during this difficult time.

Villanova 2010 Grad

October 25, 2011

I met Lauryn once sophomore year through a mutual friend. Although I did not know her well, I remember that she was very sweet, outgoing and well liked amongst the members of our graduating class. Please know that everyone is deeply saddened and will keep your family in our prayers. God bless.

October 25, 2011

gerry,lisa,ellen.

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering lauryn and your loved ones today and always.
my deepest sympathy ron ayotte. she always had the greatest smile,just lit up my truck when i would give tmem rides home.she will be greatly missed by all her friends and family.

Gary English

October 25, 2011

Jerry and family, I am so sorry to hear about Lauryn's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

October 25, 2011

Every now and then I get a call that makes me stop all of my rushing and realize how fleeting life can be and how special and important the people in our lives are. I just received such a call from one of the members of Every Dollar Feeds Kids. It was about the sudden, tragic death of Lauryn.

We have been blessed to work with a wonderful group of students at the high school for many years and special ones, like Lauryn, bring an energy and enthusiasm to our organization that inspires all of us. That her participation touched her so deeply is gratifying. That her life, so full of hope, vitality, and promise, was cut so short is heartbreaking.

I have sent a letter to our board of director members about Lauryn. Be assured that she and you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

My deepest sympathy and heartfelt appreciation,

Charles Miceli
Chair,
Every Dollar Feeds Kids

a Villanova parent from CT

October 25, 2011

I am also a parent of a Villanova graduate (2011) & a freshman at Villanova. My graduate was at Homecoming last weekend visiting friends & his younger brother just like your daughter. My older son was in the vicinity of the accident and told us of it Sunday night. Since then, your family has constantly been in my thoughts and prayers, hoping and praying that you will have the strength to get through this. I am so very sorry......

Bev Gilbert

October 25, 2011

God Bless Lauryn

Irene Ludemann

October 25, 2011

Lisa and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. There are no words to express my sympathy. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time and I am here if you need me.

Irene - Kristen's Kloset

October 25, 2011

Lisa , I know there are no words right now to help comfort you and your family, Doug and I are so sorry for the loss of Lauryn. Our deepest sympathy. God bless you . JoAnn & Doug York

PNC Employee

October 25, 2011

Our deepest condolences.

October 25, 2011

On behalf of the more than 110,000 Villanova Alumni Worldwide, please accept our deepest condolences on this tragic loss. The entire Villanova Community is in deep sorrow. Please know your family will be in our prayers.
God Bless you in this incredibly difficult time.
Bob Byrnes '76, President--Villanova University Alumni Association

A Mom

October 25, 2011

Praying for your strength as you mourn the loss of your daughter. A heartbreak no parent should endure.

Kristine (Montague) Garcia

October 25, 2011

Lisa, Jerry & Ellen,
Words cannot express the sadness we feel for you. May you somehow find peace in knowing your little girl is now your guardian angel. Lauryn will always be in our thoughts and in our hearts.

Liane Stevens

October 25, 2011

Jerry and family, my deepest sympathy. My heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow. With thoughts of comfort

Rachel Abbott Gawlas

October 25, 2011

Lauryn was a shining light to all she met. I will always remember her smiling through long runs around Pittsburgh. My deepest condolences to her family.

Chris Benson Rose

October 25, 2011

Dear Lauryn's family,
Although I don't know you, as a mother, my heart aches for your great loss. Lauryn's short 23 years were amazing with not only what she accomplished but what she gave back. God must have needed this special angel to continue her work from above and to enable her wings to protect so many here.
Lauryn will make her presence known to you to assure you that all is well with her - The book "90 Minutes In Heaven" is comforting to read the true story of a man who dies and comes back to tell his story of his 90 minutes in Heaven.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,

Chris

Sandra Laviana

October 25, 2011

I am sorry for your loss. I remember Lauryn since our children went to South End School. I am also a mother who has lost a child to young. My heart goes out to you. Sandra Laviana

Bill Nickodemski

October 25, 2011

Words cannot express the pain we all feel at this time. Lauryn was the brightest of shooting stars and she will never be forgotten. I am extremely proud to be her Godfather. Our condolences go out to my brother Jerry, Lisa, and Ellen.

Love always,

-Uncle Bill and Aunt Mary-

Taryn Salyerds

October 25, 2011

You will be missed Lauryn! I love you cuz. You were a great person.

Ed Izzo

October 25, 2011

Very sad mothers and fathers should never have to see there kid go befor them. So sorry.
Just a frend Ed

Susan Dombrowski

October 24, 2011

Lisa, Jerry, & Ellen,
We were so very, very sad to hear of Lauryn's untimely death. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Remember, you now have your own very special angel watching over you from Heaven.
~ Sue, George, Jenny & Tim Dombrowski
Dade City, Florida

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