Patricia L. Hayward

1955 - 2019

Patricia L. Hayward obituary, 1955-2019, Meriden, CT

BORN

1955

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

John J. Ferry & Son

88 East Main Street

Meriden, Connecticut

Patricia Hayward Obituary

It is with great sorrow that the family of Patricia (Patty) L. Hayward, 63, announces her sudden death on May 13, 2019. Patty was the beloved wife of her devoted husband Andrew (Andy) Hayward for 39 wonderful years. Born in Middletown on July 18, 1955, Patty was the daughter of the late Milton and Glenna Dudley. She worked 37 years as a CNA and enjoyed every minute of it.

Other than her soulmate Andy, Patty is survived by her son Steven Hayward and his wife Karissa, and their children Joshua and Seth, as well as Steven's son Brian, his wife Jennifer, and their precious daughter Julianna. Patty is also survived by her daughter Kristy and her husband Brent, and their children Kiley, Luke, and Jake, and her son Scott and his wife Michelle and their children Layla, Brady, Jemma. Patty also leaves behind her sisters Pamela Zingle and Gloria McCotter, and her brother Dennis Dudley as well as many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, and good friends.

A funeral service in memory of Patty will be held on Tuesday, May 21st at 11 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main St., Meriden. Burial will be private. Patty's family will receive family and friends at the funeral home on Monday, May 20th from 4 to 7 p.m. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

Published by The Record-Journal from May 16 to May 17, 2019.
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She was a lovely person kindhearted would help anyone without you asking for help.

Jenny Cooper

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May 10, 2021

I'm so sorry for your lost, Steve and Kristy. Losing a mother is a devastating loss. I will keep your family in my prayers and I hope the pain of your grief is comforted by the memories you shared.

Jennifer Sobczak

May 23, 2019

Heavy heart today as my thoughts are consumed of a friend I had been Blessed to be reconnected with after many years. Today is a sad day for her family and friends. My condolences to Andy and her family. She loved you beyond words. I am so grateful to have been able to have had the chance to catch up with you on our lives, we talked about the loves of our lives, children and grand children and their sports.
We originally met back in the 80's through her sister Gloria. Patty, you had an infectious laugh, a wonderful sense of humor and huge heart. You will truly be missed. My last message from you was on mothers day. RIP, gone too soon. Pamela Elliott

Pamela Elliott

May 21, 2019

Our condolences to all of you. Cherish the memories. Love, the Coon family

kristy coon

May 20, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. I had the pleasure of working and knowing Patty back in the day working in homecare with her. Patty was a true genuine person who always made you feel at ease. She will be truely missed!

Christine Pajor

May 18, 2019

Elizabeth Sheehan

May 17, 2019

Our thought and prayers are with your family. The Bergerons and Reardons on Site 21.

Jay, Susan Reardon

May 16, 2019

I hope and pray you find solace, peace, and comfort knowing that Patty is with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ....I will miss talking with her long distance from Georgia to Connecticut!! Love you all - Patty's cousin Rhea

May 16, 2019

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Patty. We were neighbors in 1986 and I worked with her at the hospital. I will always remember her smile and how compassionate she was. Thoughts and prayers for Andy and the family.

RIP Patty

Maureen & Norm Hoedtke

May 16, 2019

It was the time of Hurricane Gloria, my youngest son was having a bad time of it with no lights for days. I went over Patty's house with my son,when all of a sudden the lights went on.The first thing the Patty said and did was " O Good, I"m making real coffee " she then brewed a pot of coffee. By going over her house Patty had a way of making you feel like family. Patty had a lovely personality, she was a good person, mother and then especially a Grandmother.

Jenny Langlois Cooper

May 16, 2019

Brian Specyalski

May 16, 2019

Patty was one of the sweetest, kindest humans I have ever met. She was ALWAYS happy. I am honored to have met her. The Brialee staff and myself will miss her greatly!!

Brian Specyalski

May 16, 2019

Patty was such a kind soul, who will be greatly missed, Rest in Heaven Love your neighbors Ed, Carmen, Eddie and Michelle

Carmen Davila

May 16, 2019

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