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Allen Wallen Obituary

Deacon Allen Paul Wallen, 92, of Mystic, CT died peacefully at home, on November 16, 2020.

Allen, known to his friends as Paul, was born July 9, 1928 in Hartford to the late Mildred and Allen H. Wallen. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Pauline and mother of his three children. He is survived by his wife Christine (Trudeau) Wallen.

Paul was educated in Hartford and served in the Navy during World War II. After the war Paul worked in printing at Hunter Press and later at Burroughs Corporation Printing Division. After leaving printing he was employed as a Police Officer/EMT for the Connecticut State Supreme Court in Hartford.

Paul was always active in his church and in 1991 was ordained a Permanent Deacon for the Diocese of Springfield, MA and served in his churches in MA as well as CT. Most recently, Paul served as Permanent Deacon at St. Mary, Mother of the Redeemer Parish in Groton, CT.

Besides his wife Christine, Paul is survived by his three children: Paulette Gilligan, husband Tom and son Thomas; Paul Wallen, husband Bob Stubbs; Patricia Sanieski, husband Walter, and their children, John Paul and son Simon; Kevin, wife Karin, and son Alexander; Kristin Dion, husband Christopher and son Leo. Also Christine's children: Ronald Lavigne, wife Lisa; Eileen Flug and children Alexander and Katherine; Michael Lavigne, and Michele Duncan.

Respecting Paul's wishes, calling hours will be held Thursday, November 19th from 5-7 pm at St. Mary Mother of the Redeemer Church in Groton, CT. A brief visitation will begin at 10:30 am on Friday, November 20th at St. Luke Church 141 Maple St. in Ellington, CT followed by a funeral Mass at 11:00 am. His burial with military honors will follow the mass at the Ellington Center Cemetery.

Donations in Paul's memory can be made to St. Mary, Mother of the Redeemer Church in Groton, CT or St. Luke Church in Ellington, CT.

The Mystic Funeral Home in Mystic, CT is handling Paul's arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Recorder on Nov. 18, 2020.

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Mairead Chong

November 23, 2020

To the Wallen Family- All of you share a special place in the Cosgrove Hearts. We have such fond childhood memories of swimming lessons, the real doll house and of course my favorite - the baby Jesus birthday cake tradition that my family now has continued! Your dad was amazing with such a calming presence about him. Paul and I were blessed to have him officiate our Wedding 28 years ago and even more lucky to have him baptize my children! Thank you Mr. Wallen for your spirituality and for being such a dear friend to my mom and dad.
Fondly
Mairead and Paul Chong

Kathleen Smedick Libby

November 23, 2020

Sincerest condolences to Paul's family. He always had a kind word for all in our family. Many great memories.

Stephen Merrick

November 20, 2020

To Christine, Paulette, Paul, PK and entire family we are sorry to see that Uncle Paul has passed away. He will be missed. Unfortunately myself, Tom and others are awaiting results and should not be around others for a bit so we are unable to attend calling hours or services at the moment. We are all sorry for your loss and send our collective condolences.

Pam Marrett

November 19, 2020

My sincerest condolences to the Wallen family. I will always remember your dad, Paul, with great fondness. What a wonderful person ! I am glad he found comfort in his faith. Rest In Peace.

Sharon Reckert

November 18, 2020

I worked with Paul at the Supreme Court. Paul was also a dear friend. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Kevin Cosgrove

November 18, 2020

To Paul, Paulette, and Patty, so sorry to hear of your loss. Mr. Wallen was a fine man and my thoughts and prayers go out to your wonderful family. Thank you for your friendship over the many years, and God bless

VINCENT j PALMISANO

November 18, 2020

Paul and family, Sorry to hear about your dad, met him a few times, always engaging, happy and spiritual.
RIP.
Vince Palmisano

Janice Scott

November 18, 2020

Prayers and deepest condolences for Paul and his family. May he rest in peace. God bless

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19

Calling hours

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

St. Mary Mother of the Redeemer Church

Groton, CT

Nov

20

Visitation

10:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

St. Luke Church

141 Maple St., Ellington, CT

Nov

20

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

St. Luke Church

141 Maple St., Ellington, CT

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Mystic Funeral Home - Mystic

51 Williams Ave., Mystic, CT 06355

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