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Barbara and Thomas Edgar Berry

1944 - 2020

Barbara and Thomas Edgar Berry obituary, 1944-2020, Ripon, CA

BORN

1944

DIED

2020

Barbara Berry Obituary

Barbara Ellen and Thomas Edgar Berry Sept.19, 1944 - Sept. 9, 2020 & Dec. 9, 1944 - Aug. 13, 2020 Barbara Ellen Berry was born Sept. 19, 1944 in Stockton CA, passed away on Sept. 9, 2020. She passed 28 days after the love of her life Tom. Barbara was preceded in death by her parents Frances Marion Smith and Rosemary Francis Eagan, brother Bernard Smith and son Timothy Berry. She worked for over 20 years with SUSD, retiring from Franklin H.S. as an Executive Secretary. She was a CSEA Union Rep, member of Beta Sigma Phi, St. Michael's, a Glenwood 4-H leader, and Stockton Firefighters Ladies Auxiliary. Barbara loved going to 4-H livestock shows, doing crafts, and most recently enjoyed adult coloring. She also loved going on trips to Reno with her husband, and would meet with friends to play bingo. ---------------------- Thomas Edgar Berry, 75, of Stockton, CA passed Aug. 13, 2020, peacefully in his home with family. He retired in 1991 from the Stockton Fire Dept. Station 12, formally East-Side Fire Dept. He started his career in the U.S. Forest Service. He is known for the "Berry-bar." Born Dec. 9, 1944 in Fresno to George Edgar Berry and Opal Elizabeth Cull. He moved to Stockton at the age of four and met his future bride. They lived two houses apart. Tom married Barbara in 1965, and they shared 55 married years. Tom was a lifetime member of the NRA and made sure his children took the Hunter's Safety course before applying for deer tags. He enjoyed hunting, shooting, fishing, gun shows, camping, and trips to visit his buddies at the "shops" downtown. Preceded in death by his parents, his siblings Walter Berry, Janie Wheeler, and his son Timothy Berry. Barbara and Tom are survived by their children Bonnie (Terry) Mulder, Todd Berry and Laura Nunes, grand-children Chelsea Berry, Amanda Mulder, Thomas Mulder, Holli Nunes, Kati (Taylor) Dunn and her older brother Richard Smith. Thank You to the loving caregivers and to SEVA Hospice for caring for Tom and supporting the family. Graveside service will be held at Cherokee Cemetery in Lodi, CA on Sept. 29, 2020 at 10 am. In lieu of flowers, remembrances can be made to Stockton Firefighters Relief Assoc., P.O. Box 69-2201, Stockton, CA 95269-2201, an animal shelter of your choice, or the Alzheimer's Association, 2421 Southfork Ln, Modesto, CA 95355. Barbara supported the Bethany Home Alzheimer's walk team for 7 years as a donor.

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Published by The Record from Sep. 26 to Sep. 28, 2020.

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Steve Spatola

October 14, 2020

Another of our childhood neighborhood passes on. I lived on Lillian Street, one street over from where Tom, Walter, Janie, Barbara and richard lived around the corner on Oro Street. Like Richard I was the paperboy for the area too.

Tom, it was a pleasure to serve you as your insurance agent when I worked for 3A. Now, all are gone from the corner to the tracks. Shirley, Bill Flint, Danny Rathjen and the Berry kids. We had a great neighborhood with Franklin there to play ball or swim. Tom and Walter were the big teasers to us younger kids. Janie was the smart one in school with the long braided pigtails.

May all of you Rest In Peace

Jackie Juano

September 29, 2020

Bonnie and Toddy,
I am so blessed to have your parents in my life for over 40 years. They helped raise all us neighborhood kids. I'll never forget your mom as our 4-H leader and taught us to do home canning, I still make homemade jelly because of her, and how you dad loved my hot sauce. He would drink it straight from the jar, he always made me and Christopher laugh...You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your parents are with Timmy now ♥ how amazing and beautiful.
I love you all.
Jackie Dawson-Juano

Jackie Juano

September 29, 2020

Bonnie and Toddy,
I am so blessed to have your parents in my life for over 40 years. They helped raise all us neighborhood kids. I'll never forget your mom as our 4-H leader and taught us to do home canning, I still make homemade jelly because of her, and how you dad loved my hot sauce. He would drink it straight from the jar, he always made me and Christopher laugh...You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your parents are with Timmy now ♥ how amazing and beautiful.
I love you all.
Jackie Dawson-Juano

Allen Anton

September 26, 2020

Bonnie and Todd and families
I’m very sorry for your loss
Your mom and dad were great people
I had the privilege of starting my fire department career with your dad
I also had the honor of watching you kids grow up to be the adults you are today. Your mother was one of the most patient and strong individuals I ever knew. I could tell stories about our fire dept days, hunting, fishing, and just being friends for hours. We are in Oregon and won’t make the services. Know I’m there in spirit. They were great people.

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