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Michael Lewis Carlbom

1949 - 2020

Michael Lewis Carlbom obituary, 1949-2020, Lockeford, CA

BORN

1949

DIED

2020

Michael Carlbom Obituary

Michael Lewis Carlbom 1949 - 2020 Michael Lewis Carlbom passed away Tuesday, September 8 after a lengthy battle with cancer. He was 71 years old. His wife, Mary, was with him. His children Amelia and David, along with their families, cared for their beloved father during his final weeks of life with the great support of Hospice of San Joaquin County. Mike's parents, Howard and Clarice Carlbom, moved from Minnesota to Stockton, California where Mike and his sister, Lynn, were both born and raised. Their older brother, Lewis Heigl, remained in Minnesota. Many summer vacations were spent traveling back to visit family. Good memories and funny stories remain of their road trips there. Mike grew up in Stockton's Collegeview neighborhood in the 1950s & 1960s. He recalled playing Little League baseball, shagging balls at Billy Hebert Field, riding bikes and Saturday movies with friends. Mike attended Cleveland Elementary, Stockton Junior High School and A. A. Stagg High School. He graduated in 1967, lettering in wrestling. After graduating from Stagg High, Mike attended San Joaquin Delta College where he earned his A. A. degree. He was employed at H. H. Robertson Steel Mfg. in Stockton for ten years. After earning a certificate in cabinet-making Mike owned and operated Carlbom's Custom Cabinets in Manteca for 5 years. He was employed by Quality Cabinets from 1987 to 2008 and retired in 2011. Sports were an important part of Mike's life. He was an avid Giants, 49ers and Warriors fan. Reading The Record's sports page was a ritual for him. As an exceptional athlete he played on several local teams. Mike took great pride in coaching his son's and nephews' Pacific Little League teams and their All Star teams. He made it both fun and exciting. Highlights of Mike's life included traveling with Mary. But his grand adventure was a road trip to Costa Rica with friend, Mike Atherton, back in 1970. He was a member of St Andrew's Lutheran Church, Stagg Booster's Club, Pacific Little League Board, Mexican-American Business Association. Mike is survived by his wife Mary, children Amelia (Daniel Garcia) and David (Mai Boonsalot), grandchildren Lyla, Lucas and Josiah; sister, Lynn Loichinger (Scott), sister-in-law Carol Heigl Bruckschen, nieces and nephews in California and Minnesota. A memorial service is pending. Please send donations to Hospice of San Joaquin County.

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Published by The Record from Oct. 1 to Oct. 3, 2020.

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Dennis Droge

October 17, 2020

I first met Mike in '88. My introduction to him was his hearty, baritone laugh, and two years later we became brothers-in-law and it was such a joy to welcome him into our family. I so admired his ability to use calm reason and compassion to diffuse a tense situation. Even when something disturbed him he was never at a loss for a kind word and never, ever mean. He left an empty space that will shadow is forever.

Virginia Droge

October 14, 2020

Mike was always a person you look forward to seeing because of his wit & humorous takes on all things happening in life. He was always there to help others and a true giver. We will miss him greatly at our family gatherings. But while our sorrow is deep, I know the angels will be smiling & laughing at his uplifting views & humorous nature. Rest In Peace dear brother - Your good deeds will always be remembered!

Lou & Tina Zavala

October 1, 2020

Mike was a cool guy, always positive when I would see him at family gatherings.Sorry I wasn’t able to visit him during this freaking “Rona pandemic”. God bless MaryLou & family. He will be missed dearly.

Gary Brock Hatley

October 1, 2020

Mike was always a great guy. Goodbye to an old friend. My condolences to his family.

Rhonda Luke-Olvera

October 1, 2020

I loved Mike's sense of humor and easy going attitude about life. He was one of my favorite people. The Pacific Little League baseball years hold some sweet memories. I will miss him greatly. RIP.

Dwight Maxwell

October 1, 2020

Love Mike...had the pleasure of working with him for years. We always enjoyed talking about our younger days as we knew at sometime in our youth our pasts must have met. I will think about Mike and remember his positive attitude and care for other people. A True Friend.

Kay Botiller

October 1, 2020

I am so sorry Mary. I looked back and I have known Mike for over 50 years, ever since Lynn came into my family. I hope you can get through this...it is horrible to lose a husband and father. Mike was a good guy. May he be in no more pain.

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