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Mary Ann Behrens

1934 - 2020

Mary Ann Behrens obituary, 1934-2020, Stockton, CA

BORN

1934

DIED

2020

Mary Behrens Obituary

Mary Ann Behrens 1934 - 2020 Mary Ann was born on December 27, 1934 to Col. George A. and Bernice Harvey in Wichita, KS. An army brat, she and her parents lived in many cities in the U.S. and in Germany. She graduated from Heidelberg American High School and returned to the states to attend UOP where she earned her BA in music. She attended UOP for two more years and was introduced by a mutual professor to Charles "Bud" Behrens. They were married two months later and immediately started a family. Mary Ann got her teaching credentials and began substituting at various schools until she was given the opportunity to become one of the first Continuation High School teachers in the state. She retired from teaching after 27 years, leaving behind many grateful and respectful students. From any early age she loved sewing. That love translated into creative and inspiring works of art. She joined the Haute Couture Society where she was active in planning fashion trips to L.A. and San Francisco for the club and participated in their annual fashion show. She made lifelong friends and mentored many. She was also a member of the Manteca Quilters and Tuleburg Quilt Guild. Another passion was her love of funny little German cars called Porsches. She and Bud became members of the Porsche Club of America and they traveled extensively to participate in Porsche parades around the country as well as events at the local level. She always reveled in the fact that she could beat Bud's time on the track, much to his chagrin. They were also invited twice to Chile to instruct wealthly young adults how to drive their fancy sports cars. Mary Ann was diagnosed with Parkinson's in 2001 and became active in the Parky community by starting a support group for others affected by the disease. She researched tirelessly and distributed information that others may not have had access to otherwise. Mary Ann is survived by her loving daughter Stephanie and beloved dog Millie. She is predeceased by her husband of 62 years, Bud, daughter Johanna "Schani" Smith and son-in-law Jim Harrison. Many thanks go out to Hospice of San Joaquin, especially Tami, Ashley, Andrea and the crisis care team who tirelessly cared for Mary Ann during her last days. A very special shout out goes to her wonderful friends - Kay, Margie, Faye, Nancy, Sandy, Patty and especially Liz Kusama who made her final days tolerable and filled with love. Due to all that's going on in the world, there will be no service but please have a glass of wine and remember Mary Ann's talents, friendships, tenacity and love of life. In her memory, please donate to Hospice of San Joaquin or the Parkinson's Foundation. Rock on, Mom.

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Published by The Record on Apr. 15, 2020.

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May 2, 2020

Marianne was a wonderful teacher in Lincoln Unified. She was great with students needing special help. I loaned her a book I had; it was written in comic fashion on Shakespeare; it had a lot of truth in it; she said the kids loved it because of the humorous way it was written; she wore it out and bought me a new one. Wonderful lady!! Bev HOlt

Gloria Blaine

April 21, 2020

Marianne was one of the first people I met when we moved to Stockton California in 1999. We met at grupe Park walking our dogs together. She was a very lovely lady and I always admired her fabulous sewing and quilting ability. I am very sorry for your loss. Gloria Blaine

April 17, 2020

Bud, Mary Ann and we shared many years of friendship through Yosemite Region Porsche Club with activities ranging from autocrossing, rallyes, tours, and dinners. They were two of the best, and Mary Ann was always the perfect hostess and mentor whenever one was needed. Our friendship continued even after we no longer took part in PCA events. Bob and I mourn their passing and will miss them both deeply. We love you, Mary Ann!

Gladys Ikeda

April 15, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Shelly Laack (Bennett)

April 15, 2020

Mrs. Behrens was one of the BEST teachers I have ever had.. She was one of my teachers at Stuart Larson school. I was given so much help and love from her that I was able to get a new start in life with her teaching and encouragement. I was struggling with life at the time, she was so encouraging with unconditional love and she told me that I could turn it all around and help others if I wanted to do that. She helped me to not only graduate in 1979 but I went on to go to college and get into the field of substance abuse counseling for the last 29 years. She made a huge difference in me making different life choices that it has become one of my greatest assets in life and who I am today with helping others. I will be forever grateful to her because I was one that changed my course in life due to her teaching, love and support. Lovingly - Shelly Laack (Bennett)

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