MARY JANE ORE BENDER
1930 - 2020
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ARLINGTON HEIGHTS - Mary Jane Ore Bender, 90, died Thursday, November 12,2020 at St. Thomas Hospice Bolingbrook. A celebration of her life will be held at a later date. Cremation rites have been accorded. Jane was born on June 13, 1930 in Jacksonville, Illinois to Carl and Eva Rentschler Ore. She married John Eric Bender on January 20, 1955. He preceded her in death on April 28, 1997. She was an airline hostess for TWA, worked as a secretary for the Arlington Heights school district, and in a local doctor's office. She was a member of Our Savior's Lutheran Church, and belonged to the Eli Skinner Chapter of DAR, and Clipped Wings. She will be remembered as a wonderful Mother, Grandmother, Great-Grandmother and friend. Jane is survived by her daughters, Donna (Randy) Roland, Erie Illinois, Nancy (Brian) Walberg , Highland Illinois and Sally (Ralph) Sass, Madison Ohio; seven grandchildren, Amanda (Jason) Schanze, Mary Roland, Kristin (John) D'Ambrosia, Barbara (Mark) Powell, Carolyn (Zach) Reed, Matthew Sass (Meg Kelly), and Bethany Sass (Jordan Mullins); seven great-grandchildren and two more to come. In addition to her husband, Jane was preceded in death by her parents; siblings, William Ore, Gene Ore and Maxine Rigg; son-in-law, Brian Walberg; and great-grandson, Olin D'Ambrosia.



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Published in Reflejos on Dec. 4, 2020.
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December 4, 2020
So sorry to hear about your mom's passing, she was such a nice person, always so upbeat when I would run into her. Remember babysitting for you three girls, such a long time ago. Will keep all of you in my thoughts & prayers.
Mary M Ostermann
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December 4, 2020
I adored Jane and loved her sharing her stories and pictures about flying with TWA. She was so full of life and just fun to be around. She so loved her family and talked about them so much as well. She will be missed horribly by all who knew her.
Susan Lennon
Acquaintance
December 4, 2020
lovely lady fun to be with . last year we attended high tea at the Garlands in honor of the DAR. We watched our daughters in gymnastics at Arlington High School and we also golfed together.


















June Johnson
Friend
December 4, 2020
lovely lady fun to be with. last year we went to high tea at the Garlands for DAR .
June Johnson
Friend
December 4, 2020
Donna, Nancy, and Sally - wishing you comfort and peace during this sad time. I'll miss your mom, she was a great lady, always kind and thoughtful. We always tried to stop and say "hi" when we returned to visit Arlington Heights.
Ruthie (Nakutny) Ward
Neighbor
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