Jane Elizabeth Hedden
1957 - 2018
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March 28, 1957 - December 6, 2018

Jane Elizabeth Hedden passed away December 6, 2018 in Randolph New Jersey. She was 61 years old. To be known and loved by Jane was to be lifted on tiptoes to glimpse life's secret wonders, forgotten truths and radiant beauty. Her courageous intensity inspired those who loved her to embrace the dark nights and the hopeful dawns with equal abandon.

Born March 28, 1957 to Willard Hedden and Betty Jane (Ruete) Hedden in Randolph New Jersey, Jane spent her childhood playing in the woods and forests, caring for strays and wild animals and adventuring with her family on camping and sailing trips. She graduated from Randolph High School in 1976 and Boston University in 1980.

One year later, she moved to Eugene, Oregon, where she eventually became a nurse at Sacred Heart Medical Center. Jane saw and understood the people in her care in a way too seldom experienced by any of us. Jane's empathy for her patients drew her to some of the most difficult wards of the hospital, where all pretense drops away in the face of life threatening illness. Her compassion worked miracles of healing and brought peace to countless people suffering through crisis.

Jane also volunteered for various animal welfare organizations in Eugene, sometimes tending sick animals through the night after a shift at the hospital. She poured her heart into her glorious gardens, friendships, and beloved pets, and when it all became too much, she ran long miles and practiced yoga to recharge her spirit. Jane reveled in the celebration of life with those closest to her, and her poetic correspondence is treasured by friends and family. Almost too sensitive for this world, she also possessed surprising toughness, kept afloat by a gently wicked, contagious, and self-deprecating sense of humor.

In addition to the many friends who loved her, Jane is survived by her partner of 18 years, Michael Primeau, her father Willard, her five siblings Robert, Willard Jr, Kenneth, Thomas, and Jennifer, and six nieces and nephews.

A memorial service was held in Randolph New Jersey on December 12th.

In honor of Jane and her passion for all things wild, donations may be made to non-profits she tirelessly supported:

Predator Defense www.predatordefense.org; or Luvable Dog Rescue www.luvabledogrescue.org.

A celebration of her life is planned for March 31st, 2019 in Eugene, Oregon. Please email Chloe Hedden chloehedden@gmail.com for details.

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Published in Eugene Register-Guard on Jan. 20, 2019.
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January 24, 2020
Dear Woody,
Janie was my best friend forever. She will never be forgotten. Thank you, to you and Betty for making our childhood magical.
With much Love,
Rita Yanosik
January 10, 2020
Words cannot express the loss that the empathetic world has suffered. Jane was indeed too sensitive for this often time cold and indifferent Earth...

Her depth of feeling and love will inspire me forever. Goodbye childhood friend...

Shine on Jane...
January 20, 2019
Her final gift to us is to embrace ourselves with the same love and compassion we give to our loved ones be they two or four footed , furred, feathered or enclosed in skin. One of the hardest lessons of all
January 20, 2019
May the God of all comfort strengthen the family of Jane Elizabeth Hedden during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest
January 20, 2019
This beautifully-written obituary painted a portrait of truth of the graceful Goddess, Jane. All of my memories of her are of her giving, giving, and giving more. At first, I was stunned by her outer angelic aura, and as I grew to know her better, I also felt her powerful animal soul. All I can do is visualize her surrounded by an eternity of healthy kittens and puppies.
Nancy Meltzoff
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