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Shirley R. Oar

1938 - 2013

Shirley R. Oar obituary, 1938-2013, Portola, CA

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1938

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2013

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Shirley Oar Obituary

Shirley R. Oar

February 13, 1938

November 8, 2013

Shirley R. Oar was born on February 13, 1938 in Winnemucca, Nevada, and died peacefully in her sleep on November 8, 2013 at her home in Portola, California, after several years of surviving breast cancer.

Shirley was the ninth out of eleven Albee children, and a fourth generation Renoite. She fostered newborns for adoption for many years while her children were growing up. At 50, she studied and became a substance abuse counselor until her retirement, when she moved to her sanctuary in the midst of the trees in Portola. She loved her hobbies of cross-stitching, knitting, and art projects. Her biggest joy was her family, and their offspring. Shirley's compassion and free-loving spirit will be greatly missed by all who had the fortune of knowing her.

She is survived by Louis B. Oar, her husband and high school sweetheart of 58 years, and her four children, Donald (Shirley) Oar, Tammera (Malcolm) Wong, Richard (Teresa) Oar, and Jeannie Lagorio, 9 grandchildren, and 5 great grandchildren; and her siblings, Sister Dorothy Albee, Sidney Albee, Rosalie Albee-Field, and William Albee, numerous nieces and nephews.

There will be a viewing on Friday, November 15, beginning at 6:00 p.m. at Walton's Funeral Home, 875 West Second Street, followed by a rosary to be led by Deacon Joe Bell at 7:00 p.m. Funeral mass will be held on Saturday, November 16, at 1:00 p.m. at St. Thomas Aquinas Cathedral on Second Street, by Father Arlon Vergara and Deacon Joe Bell. In lieu of flowers, Shirley desired that donations be made to St. Judes and/or Hospice of Truckee, California.

Published by The Reno Gazette Journal and Lyon County News Leader from Nov. 13 to Nov. 15, 2013.
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My Grandmother's laugh was raw and contagious. Her laugh reflected her spirit. I know very few people who laugh not because something funny is happening but because in that moment he or she is truly happy. Grandma was one of the very first people I was around who laughed in those moments. She took in this world accepting both the good and the bad. That is also how she loved. She lived her life the way I hope to live the rest of mine, embracing the moments that make me truly happy.

Jamie Oar

November 15, 2013

I always loved your big glowing smile & how you lit up a room, Aunt Shirley! You will truly be missed but know you are in a much better place! Love you ??

Brenda McKenzie

November 14, 2013

You always had a smile on your face and an infectious laugh that I loved. You will be missed.

John and Jo Nell Graves

November 14, 2013

May you rest in everlasting peace with all our loved ones nd may your earthly loved ones be comforted with their memories with you!

Vincenza McKenzie

November 14, 2013

My prayers and sympathy to Shirley's family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Janet McAfee

November 14, 2013

I remember Shirley introduced me to country music. She didn't know she was preparing me for my life in Kansas. To the whole family--I love you all and always have!

November 14, 2013

Rest in Peace Aunt Shirley. You will live forever in my heart and memories. Your glowing smile and contagious laughter will be greatly missed. I look forward to being with you and Mom again someday. Love you.

Craig Rodrigue

November 13, 2013

Prayers of love and comfort to all! Thinking and praying for you as you walk the rocky road on each of your respective journeys. With Love, Mollie Biggers

November 13, 2013

Rest in the Love of our Creator.
Your reward is there and your work here is done.

I love you my Mom, my best friend...
And now, please continue to guide me lovingly as you always have.

You will be truly missed
A bit of my heart is gone with you.
~?~

Tammera (Oar) Malicki-Wong

November 13, 2013

Shirley was a beautiful lady and a great neighbor for 20 years. My prayers go out to the family. R.I.P. My friend

Marge La Pier

November 13, 2013

RIP Miss Shirley.....

Tammy Hopper

November 13, 2013

Louie:::so sorry for your loss , our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Frank & Joan Bussa

November 13, 2013

Aunt Shirley will always be my hero. Guiding me with her strength and knowledge build up for many years. I love you.

Diane Albee

November 13, 2013

I especially remember Shirley's smile and hospitality. We shared a love for family history and pictures and I am so happy to call her friend as well as cousin! Cancer claimed her body but it never could squelch her spirit. She has earned her rest...well done good and faithful servant! Now rest in peace.

Faye (McDonald) Baryol

November 12, 2013

My Heart is with all of you in this time of sorrow. Aunt Shirley will forever be in my heart and her memories will always be with me. Her spirit, her drive, her laughter, and her love for her family is what I will miss. She was a great example of strength, and how to never give up ,and make the most of each day you have here on earth. My love to you all.

Tracie Almond Cotter

November 11, 2013

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