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Michael Remy Obituary

REMY, MICHAEL H.
Michael H. Remy, a leading figure in the environmental and legal communities both in Sacramento and throughout California, passed away at his home in Fair Oaks on Wednesday morning. Known as both a preeminent legal scholar and leader in local and statewide environmental causes, Mr. Remy died after a prolonged bout with prostate cancer. His legal career, most of which was devoted to building what became the leading environmental and land use law firm known as Remy and Thomas and later as Remy, Thomas and Moose, started at a point in time when both Congress and the California Legislature began to enact the statutes that have become the bedrock of environmental protection. Mr. Remy was respected as one of the leading experts on the California Environmental Quality Act ("CEQA"), the law that requires public input into agency decisions adversely affecting the environment. He was also widely admired and loved by his colleagues and friends, who regarded him as a man of extraordinary intelligence, personal integrity, kindness, and generosity. He is survived by his loving wife Trudy, his devoted daughter Camille, his mother Helga, and his brothers Peter and Thomas. He also leaves two "adopted daughters" Roslyn Schlenker (Jerry) and Cici Remy, MD, and three "adopted grandchildren" Danielle, Nicole and Eli. He was preceded in death by his son Christopher, who passed away in 1984. Mr. Remy was born in Posen, Poland, in 1944, during the height of World War II. His family moved to the Bay Area in 1958. After marrying his high school sweetheart in 1964 and obtaining a bachelor's degree from the University of California at Berkeley in 1967, Mr. Remy attended law school at the newly-formed King Hall at the University of California at Davis. He received his law degree and passed the bar in 1970, and then began his law career as an attorney for the California Department of Water Resources. There, his work included helping to prepare statewide regulations implementing CEQA, which had just been enacted by the Legislature. In 1974, he began to teach at California State University at Sacramento, where until 1986 he continued to inspire undergraduates and graduate students in courses on environmental law, water law, and environmental ethics. Graduates of his courses can be found in nearly every planning department and state agency in California, where his influence lives on. In 1977, while still teaching, he began his career in private practice, which he continued actively up until his death. In 1979, he hired a new law graduate named Tina Thomas, who became his close friend and partner for the next 24 years. In 1980, he was named President of the Planning and Conservation League ("PCL"), a statewide organization representing environmental interests in the Capitol. He served in that capacity for ten years. During that period, PCL became a proponent of several major initiative measures that, after being passed by the voters, have led to increased funding for transit infrastructure and the acquisition of open space and habitat. During his 24 years in private practice, Remy and his partners built their firm into a statewide powerhouse with expertise in CEQA and related environmental laws. During that period, he and his firm participated in litigation that resulted in approximately two dozen precedent-setting Court of Appeal and California Supreme Court decisions addressing environmental issues. They also published, and continued to publish, a treatise on CEQA that has become a handbook for judges, agency officials, professional planners and consultants, and citizen activists all over California. Over the years, his clients included not only numerous environmental organizations, but also public agencies and project applicants who sought his advice regarding the potential pitfalls associated with compliance with CEQA and other environmental statutes. These clients included the Mountain Lion Foundation, PCL, the Center for Natural Lands Management, Sacramentans for Safe Energy, the Metropolitan Water District, Butte County, numerous other counties and cities, and other public agencies, as well as prominent developers. Among Remy's most notable accomplishments were the following: heading the successful political and legal efforts to shut down the Rancho Seco Nuclear Power Plant; representing the Sierra Club in its battles with Squaw Valley Ski Corporation over environmental impacts associated with the creation of new ski runs; representing various environmental and animal rights groups in their efforts to require environmental review for the setting of hunting seasons for mountain lions, tule elk, and black bears; representing environmentalists in their efforts to obtain "endangered" status for the winter run chinook salmon and California gnatcatcher; and working with grassroots citizens organizations all over the state in dealing with complex environmental issues associated with proposed development projects. In 1990, the Environmental Council of Sacramento named Mr. Remy "Environmentalist of the Year." Mr. Remy's partners and friends uniformly describe him as one of the finest people they have ever known, a truly kind and generous individual with whom they had the privilege to work, and whom they felt lucky to call their friend. Mr. Remy's widow has asked that persons wishing to remember her husband should make donations to the Planning and Conservation Foundation, 926 J Street, Suite 612, Sacramento, 95814. A memorial service will be held on Sunday, April 6, 2003 at 4:30 PM at Shields Grove and Gazebo at the UC Davis Arboretum, with a reception to follow at the University Club.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Apr. 3 to Apr. 6, 2003.

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Camille Remy

April 16, 2003

Dear Friends & Family



My mother and I will always treasure the kindness of your words, the comfort of your stories and the solidarity of your support. Michael reveled in storytelling, so to hear stories lovingly told of him brings back fond memories and lightens our hearts. Situations such as funerals never afford the time we would have liked to share more warmth and memories with all of you so we look forward to seeing you again in better times to come.



As for Mike’s “second family”, his colleagues and co-workers, at Remy, Thomas and Moose, (now our family by proxy) words fail utterly to convey our deep gratitude for the tireless efforts and generosity shown to honor him. As he often said about all of You, we would have been lost without You, and we are humbled and blessed by Your support.



Tina, Whit and Jim, you were the first to arrive that day, pushing aside your own grief to provide my mother and I with strength and clarity when we had none. Just as you are thankful for Michael’s counsel and guidance over the years, we are thankful for yours during these trying times. Michael’s respect and love for you continues unending, as does our appreciation. Our home is your home, come any time, come often.



As was mentioned in his obituary, Mike was very proud of his community, and with the outpouring of love and support shown to my mother and I, its poignantly obvious why. “And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed…” ~ Kahlil Gibran.



From him, and us…thank you again,



Camille and Trudy Remy

Marilyn Pecunia

April 8, 2003

The City Attorney's Office in San Rafael got to know Mr. Remy through several land use and planning issues he handled for us. I just want to extend my sincere sympathies to his family for their loss. He was a courteous, friendly, smart and respectful person to deal with. I know that his legal expertise will be greatly missed.

Norman Flette

April 7, 2003

Dear Trudy and Camille,



I found the April 6th memorial service for Mike to be quite emotional for me, but also very necessary and extremely uplifting. Both the service and reception that followed were wonderfully done, and I thank you and those who assisted you in giving everyone who attended a chance to join you in honoring this great husband, father, mentor, business associate and friend.



I couldn’t agree more with what the speakers at the memorial service and the testimonials in the Sacramento Bee expressed about Mike’s unique and extraordinary professional accomplishments. Indeed, I know firsthand of a number of such accomplishments, given my close association with him during his representation of my employer, the Metropolitan Water District of Southern California, on many legal matters over the last 10 years.



However, like his partner, Jim Moose, I will always remember Mike for the innate grace and generosity of spirit he exhibited at all times. I saw countless examples of this over the years. I cannot adequately express what he meant to me personally when several years after he was afflicted with cancer and had undergone surgery, I was diagnosed as having the same type of cancer. At a time when he was facing post-surgery complications, he nonetheless proactively came to my assistance. Mike was my “rock”, giving me the strength to follow his example - face the challenge, do not feel sorry for yourself, go about the business of living fully, and always maintain a positive outlook.



Since I find Jim’s words perfectly describe my feelings about Mike, I will close by echoing a few -- Mike was a very, very, very good man. I am a better person for having known Mike, and I will feel his warmth as long as I exist.







,

Bruce Klafter

April 7, 2003

My condolences to the family and to Mike's co-workers. He was a splendid person and it was a privilege knowing him.

Jim Moose

April 7, 2003

The following are notes prepared in anticipation of remarks made in remembrance of Mike Remy on April 6, 2000.



It was my great privilege to work with Mike Remy for the past seventeen years, first as an eager disciple, and later as an always deferential junior partner. In the last few days, as I have felt the sharp pangs of loss, and have received almost countless consoling messages, I’ve come to appreciate even more deeply than before just how great a privilege that was. I loved and admired the man to depths that words can’t convey. He was my mentor, who taught me with words of wisdom, but also my close friend, who always treated me, as he did everyone, with gentleness and respect.



So, these last few days, I have felt both extremely sad, but also profoundly grateful for the very good fortune I have enjoyed in learning the profession of law from, and then practicing law with, such a man. He always treated me and others as we wished to be treated. My gratitude swells further when I contemplate that I also shared these good times with another teacher, partner, and dear friend, Tina Thomas. She and Mike built an institution in which I am proud to remain.



My thankfulness grows near to bursting, however, when I ponder the privilege my wife Kirstie and I have enjoyed over the years in getting to know and cherish our wonderful friend, Mike’s wife Trudy. Although the loss of so fine a husband has been very, very hard for her, I suspect that even her copious tears have not blurred her clear perception of the indescribable gift she was given in being able to share forty years with a man so loving, and so worthy of love. Would that their earthly bond could have spanned six or even seven decades, rather than only four; but, for reasons too mysterious to fathom, it was not to be.



Our debt to Trudy, as to Mike, is a great one. With her skilled widwife’s hands, she delivered our son Andrew into this world, and cared for Kirstie both before and after the births of our daughters Madeline and Julia. I cannot possibly express adequately our appreciation for what Mike and Trudy have done for my family and me. Mike helped me to earn the daily bread my family needs to live and thrive, while Trudy helped my wife through the births of all three of our children, and has treated all of us with warmth and kindness as our kids have grown from wailing infants into adults-in-the-making.



And we also love and honor Mike and Trudy’s strong and brave daughter Camille, whose fortitude and deep love for her mother have shone so brightly these last few trying days. You Remy women are our life-long friends, if you’ll have us. All of us associated with the law firm that your husband and father so proudly nurtured for 24 years are here to help you in any way we can, as you adapt to circumstances that, though painful beyond words right now, can only grow easier to bear in the days, months, and years to come. Please take comfort from the fact that, just as spring follows winter, the passage of time will bring healing and renewal, though your memories of Mike, like mine, will still remain bright and abiding.



Though I have been fortunate, at age 44, to have been spared the degree of tragedy that many people my age have already endured, I am no stranger to memorial services for noteworthy people. As is proper, such services typically include speeches in which admirers recall for the gathered mourners the worldly accomplishments of the dearly departed. Sometimes, though, such services can dwell so much on deeds of professional renown that they touch too little, for my taste at least, on the personal qualities that have prompted people to turn out in large numbers to pay their respects.



I’m sure that Mike’s vast, pioneering professional achievements are well-known to almost everyone present here this afternoon. Others speaking today will doubtless remind us of these attainments; and we will hear their words gratefully. In my remaining time, however, I prefer to talk about Mike Remy the man. In all sincerity and candor, he was among the finest human beings I have ever known. With his example before me, I have found solace and inspiration when I otherwise might have despaired of human frailty.



In the world in which we live, no one needs to be reminded that people are sometimes capable of terrible things. Yet, I believe, there is some good in almost all of us; there is a lot of good in most of us; and there are almost astounding amounts of good in a few of us. I know with all my heart that Mike fell into the last category. As I observed not only how he conducted his personal life, but also the manner in which he practiced law – as a calling that could pursued with honor, integrity, and scholarship – I was constantly reminded that human beings are indeed capable of great kindness, compassion, and decency. Trudy or Camille may have seen Mike swat a fly or mosquito, but I never witnessed such a use of lethal force against a tiny brute. And his wife and daughter might have heard the man – perhaps even more than once – raise his soft voice beyond the calmest of baritones, but I never observed such a moment. Still, I doubt that anyone ever heard Mike – at least after he emerged from puberty – express an unkind thought about another person. Some of us toil, with limited success, at being virtuous. Mike was naturally so. He was a very, very, very good man.



Though I’ve gone on far too long already, I want to leave you all with an image that I hope will bring smiles to your faces, despite your sadness and pain. Occasions such as this, though inevitably somber, need not be relentlessly so. And I’m sure that Mike would not want us to be too gloomy today. Though I can’t quite explain why, the image I’ll evoke for you now somehow captures the irrepressible dignity that Mike always exuded. This dignity came from the core of his being, and could not be obscured even by seemingly absurd conditions or surroundings. Such dignity, I believe, is a manifestation of character and a gentle nature, and thus simply cannot be suppressed.



Back on some Saturday afternoon in the late 1980s, Mike and I were working in our old office near the courthouse on F Street. Neither Tina nor any other female firm employee happened to be there that day. A water pipe on the outside of the building somehow sprang a leak, resulting a geyser of water pouring wastefully into the street. Of course, no handyman was on duty, as all of the businesses in the building were officially closed. Lacking even the slightest mechanical aptitude, I was clueless about how to stem the flow. Always conscious of the need to conserve water and energy, Mike, who had mechanical gifts despite being a lawyer, somehow managed to stop the leak; but he got completely soaked in the process. The two of us went back inside, and resumed whatever legal tasks were ruining that particular weekend for us.



I can still vividly remember walking into Mike’s office a short while later with some legal question I had for the master. At that time, Mike still smoked his signature pipe, and could lawfully do so within an office building. The pipe reinforced his professorial air. As I entered his office, I saw a bearded intellectual in his mid-forties, puffing on a pipe with his bare feet up on his desk while lost in thought as he pored over some technical document. Lacking dry clothes, he sat – with unwavering dignity – wearing nothing but tight-fitting jockey shorts. He and I discussed my legal question just as we would have done had we both been attired in thousand-dollar suits, silk ties, and shiny black leather shoes.



This image of Mike is one that I will cherish for the rest of my days. Though some emperors, stripped of clothing, are revealed as frauds, this particular emperor-like figure continued to exude his natural authority, credibility, and dignity despite the visibility of that hairy chest and those muscular legs that my female colleagues, in assembling a pictorial history of Mike a couple of days ago, remarked upon with such approval.



As I prize this memory, I reflect on the fact that true character emerges from deep within a person. It shines outwardly like a light, warms everything within its reach, and improves, and sometimes even ennobles, those fortunate enough to be touched by it. I’m still basking in Mike’s warmth, and hope that I will continue to do so until my own breath fails me. I am sure that I’m a better person for having known him. And I am far from alone in this regard.

Jim Hargrove

April 4, 2003

Michael,



It is with great sadness that I say goodbye to a wonderful, talented, dedicated and caring soul. You were an inspiration to me in your professional activities and your passing will be missed deeply by everyone in the environmental community and even more, in our lives. Peace be with you.

James O'Connell III

April 4, 2003

Losing Mike is without a doubt a great loss to his family and friends. Mike was a good man and kind. He represented our District with great knowledge and care. It is our loss, also. Thank you for letting us know him.

Andee Leisy-Pierucci

April 4, 2003

Mike first indirectly touched my life when he came to my hometown of Squaw Valley in the mid-1980's to help in the fight to save Shirley Canyon from skiers & logging. Each time I hike or snowshoe up the Canyon I thank Mike from the bottom of my heart.



Mike has since taught me an enormous amount about CEQA as an associate with RT&M. More importantly, however, Mike taught me that one can remain a decent, honest, and humble person, yet a strong and accomplished advocate. For that, and other reasons too numerous to list, I will always cherish knowing Mike and am blessed that our life paths crossed in the end. He will be deeply missed in so many ways.

Joe and Patricia Ellis

April 4, 2003

Dear Trudy and Family:

We were deeply saddened to learn of your great loss. Though we only met Mike once, we know the very positive impact he made upon my daughter Michelle, who is married to your nephew Brian. She so often speaks of you and Mike with genuine love, respect and admiration. We regret that we did not have the opportunity to get to know him, but I am thankful for his kindnesses. Be assured that you will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Pike Oliver

April 4, 2003

After having heard of this icon for decades, I was privileged to know and work with Mike Remy in recent years. I heard from Mike just a few weeks prior to his passing. He was living life fully and optimistic, as I expect he was to the end of his time in this world. Mike was an inspiration -- a person of immense intellect who also had a practical and loving approach to life.

Luke Cole

April 4, 2003

We at the Center on Race, Poverty & the Environment join in mourning Mike Remy's passing. Mike and his firm were our opposing counsel in a number of cases over the past 15 years, but being on different sides of these cases never diminished Mike's and my relationship. I valued his advice, and will miss him.

Steve Belzer

April 3, 2003

Having known Mike for the last 36 years and working with him for the most recent ones, I will miss this special man so very much. I have never known an individual who had the collection of qualities that Mike had. He added a lot to my life and the lives of so many whom he touched. We have lost a hero.

Gary T. Ragghianti

April 3, 2003

What a beautiful and gentle man.I will miss his friendship and his advice; his patience and his sense of perspective.

It was a privilege to have known and worked on cases with him over the years

Osha Meserve

April 3, 2003

Mike was my boss and also great friend. He took the time to teach me what he knew about being a good lawyer and a more importantly, an honorable human being. Though he was regarded with much respect by his colleages, he did not set himself above anyone. I will miss him and will not forget all that he taught me.

Teri Thomas

April 3, 2003

Dear Trudy and family,



I am so sorry to hear of your loss, but please know that Mike's legacy will live on. I first met Mike, when he and Tina broke away to start their own firm. He gentle spirit and voice is one that will stay with me. I can see him now massaging his beard as he listened in earnest to whatever might be said.



He was never short of a smile and a pat on the back. And although I had not seen you all recently, my memories are ones of pleasant times.



Love and kindness,



Teri Thomas, Tina's sister

Charles Van Court

April 3, 2003

I read with sadness of Michael's passing. I remember our days at UC Davis Law School and our study group the first year when we were all so afraid. His obituary describes his personal qualities well.

Sherry Teresa

April 3, 2003

We will miss you Mike!! Thanks for all your support, friendship and guidance. Your friends at the Center for Natural Lands Management.

Tina Bauer

April 3, 2003

I was given a tremendous gift of working with Mike, even though it was very brief. There are those whom you know a scarce second, yet the warmth of their touch lasts a lifetime. Mike was an incredible human being and I'm so very thankful to have walked with him a short while.

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