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Eugene "Gene" Reames

1948 - 2020

Eugene "Gene" Reames obituary, 1948-2020, Laguna Hills, CA

Eugene Reames Obituary

On Sunday, April 5, 2020 our beloved father, grandfather, and brother, Eugene (Gene) Reames, passed away at age 71. He is survived by his 3 children, Jennifer Clarke, Heather Kiffe, Eric Reames; 4 grandchildren Matthew, William, Vincent and Henry; his 3 brothers, Jim, Bill and Darryl; his sisters- in-law, nieces and nephews. Gene was born September 13, 1948 to James (JM) and Rosalita Reames. He grew up in Montebello, CA and graduated from Cantwell High School in 1966 as MVP of his varsity basketball team. He attended Santa Clara University and earned his BS in 1970. Like his father before him, Gene went on to attend medical school at the University of Tennessee. After receiving his MD in December of 1973, Gene joined the Indian Health Service and worked with the Chocktaw Indians in Philadelphia, MS and the Havasupai Indians at their reservation in Arizona's Grand Canyon. From 1976 to 1979, Gene joined the National Health Service and worked as a rural doctor in Panguitch, UT. He then moved with his young family to Sacramento, CA to complete his residency in anesthesiology at UC Davis. Gene's career as an anesthesiologist at Kaiser Hospital in Sacramento spanned over 30 years. He served as Chief of the department from November of 1984 until July of 1987. During his tenure as chief, he started the first OB anesthesia program in the region to deliver labor epidural services 24/7 for laboring mothers. Other medical centers in the area followed suit shortly thereafter. In 2005, Gene was the first doctor in his department to participate in medical missions abroad. He subsequently encouraged other doctors and nurses to join him and traveled to Guatemala and China over several years. During those missions, people gave him the name "gentlemen's gentleman" because he always practiced the southern manners his mother taught him and because of his generous heart always seeing the best in people. Gene continued his calling of service to others upon his retirement as a member of the Greater Sacramento Kiwanis Club. With this organization he participated in countless hands-on volunteer and fundraising opportunities. Even with his hours of volunteer work, golf and skiing, Gene remained dedicated to his family, finding time in his busy schedule to visit his children, grandchildren and brothers often. Gene loved playing and watching sports and never missed an opportunity to play games and laugh with his four grandsons. He loved medicine and history and never stopped learning and enjoyed sharing what he knew with others. Overwhelmingly the word used to describe Gene is kind. His kind thoughts, actions and words will always be remembered by anyone who knew him. In March, Gene was diagnosed with a very rare, fast acting brain disease, Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease (CJD). In death, as in his life, Gene's actions and thoughts were of others. He wished to help doctor's better understand and treat CJD. It is because of this, the family asks memorial donations be made in Memory of Eugene Reames to the CJD Foundation (https://cjdfoundation.org) in lieu of flowers. Due to current travel and gathering restrictions, there are no plans for services at this time. Friends and family will be invited to services through O'Connor Mortuary in Laguna Hills at a later date.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Apr. 15, 2020.

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Ron Thompson

July 21, 2021

I worked with Gene for many years at Kaiser Permanente anesthesia department. In all those years he was always calm and kind. He was one of the nicest people I have ever had the opportunity to work with. Very sad to hear this news.

Rob Longenecker

May 2, 2020

Gene played on my softball team for several years. He was my utility player, hed play whatever position I needed him for. He was like that in life as well. Whatever you needed, he was there, consistent. His kind, gentle demeanor complimented him as a gentleman. Youll surely be missed. My condolences to your family.

Rob Longenecker

May 2, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Diane Butler

April 27, 2020

Gene and I explored Ireland together with a SLC group in 2015. His quiet presence was a gift. My condolences to his family. He is shining his light into eternity.

April 27, 2020

I was so sorry to hear of Gene's passing. I was so blessed to have taken classes and volunteering with him at SLC. He was so bright and kind, I always looked forward to seeing him. SLC will not be the same without him. My heart goes out to his family, as you go through this time of sorrow let your wonderful memories of him carry you. Truly a great man has been lost.
Sincerely, Cheryl Gosch-Dilworth

April 26, 2020

Gene had a sound solid sense of presence which I perceived as Love.

Karen Johnson

April 26, 2020

I would see Gene at SLC and always receive a warm Hello. I didn't know him well, but he seemed to be a very kind and humble soul. What a gift he must have been to his family and friends, not to mention this world. My heart hurts for your loss, but I send heartfelt wishes to Gene on his souls continued journey

Heather Kendall

April 25, 2020

I am so saddened to hear of Gene's transition. I met him on a trip to Ireland and Scotland with the Spiritual Life Center. He was such a kind and caring man. We shared our love of Golden Retrievers. Sending love and kindness to your family and Golden.

Jerry Orgeron

April 25, 2020

Gene had a tremendous impact on so many folks in the Sacramento area including myself. He was a gentle, wise,and kind man and I will miss him very much.

Teresita CRNA

April 22, 2020

I worked with Dr. Reames since 1993 at Kaiser Medical Center.Very kind and down to earth person. My favorite anesthesiologist. Ill include him on my prayers . Eternal life grant unto his soul and let Perpetual light shine unto him. May he Rest In Peace . Condolence to the whole family.

Richard

April 21, 2020

One of the most gracious, generous, men of our time. I looked up to him, worked with him in the O.R. I will truly miss this gentleman of science, care and compassion. A gentleman, that I could consider a big brother. Take care my friend and your family .

Kathleen CRNA

April 21, 2020

Gene Reames was a wonderful human being , he and I worked together in Sacramento Kaiser Anesthesia department. Gene was always kind, open to conversation, a great listener, good anesthesiologist and wonderful person. He will be sorely missed . My condolences to the family .

Lou Wagner

April 21, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about Gene's passing. I worked many years with Gene, and he never said anything bad about anybody. May he rest in peace. I was blessed to have known him. My condolences to his family.

Uli Bueff

April 21, 2020

Gene was a wonderful partner at TPMG. He was gentle and kind and helped with many of our spine cases. I remember him always being in a good mood despite of the work stress. He was available when needed, a great anesthesiologist to have.
I had lots of interesting conversations with him outside of medicine.
I will miss him. RIP

April 20, 2020

On behalf of the Board of Trustees for Spiritual Life Center, (the Unity church that Gene attended) I would like to express our love and blessings to Gene's family and to wish Gene Godspeed on his next great adventure. We will miss this kind and sweet man. Once we are able to conduct services in person we will honor his memory as his spiritual community.
Love,
Carolyn Cochran
Spiritual Life Center Board of Trustees President

Rebecca Corson

April 19, 2020

I had the priviledge to know Gene through the Kiwanis Club of Carmichael. He loved working at the Koobs Nature Center, espeically when we had the kids programs. He also volunteered constantly for many other great programs. It was always a pleasure to speak to Gene especially after he had come back from a vacation with his family. His face would shine brigtly as he spoke of his grand children. I will miss Gene's smiling face and helpful hands. Your gracious manners when attending the meetings will be missed. RIP Gene, you are definitely gone too soon

April 18, 2020

I had to take a day to process this news. I am a ski club friend of Gene and it seems like just yesterday that we were on the bus to Tahoe talking about the book he was reading. Last year (2019) while riding a car lift in Tahoe we shared about our spring/summer plans to travel with our kids. Me to Austria and Gene to a dude ranch I think in New Mexico. We then connected after our trips to tell the stories. He told me how much fun he had on the trip with his children and grandchildren. I remember him telling of trying to catch fish and not being very successful but having lots of fun. He glowed telling the story so I hope his family knows how much that meant to him. He told me about learning to play golf with a goal to keep up with his grandsons. He talked about other grandsons and wanting to watch them play hockey. I knew he was an kind and gentle person, but didn't know the depth of his amazing life. There will be an empty seat on the ski bus and the chair lift, he will be greatly missed. Jennifer Smith

Steve & MaryAnn Smith

April 17, 2020

We were so shocked to read of Gene's passing. Sending our heart-felt condolences to the entire Reames family. We have fond memories of many 4th of July parties when Jenny, Heather, and Eric were just kids. Gene was always such a kind soul and will be truly missed by so many.
Steve Smith and MaryAnn Campbell-Smith

kerry freeman

April 16, 2020

I'm so sad and shocked to hear of Gene's passing. My heart hurts bigtime. HE was such a nice man. A GREAT Human Being! He was a beautiful volunteer in this life...especially at Spiritual Life Center where I met him. Although he was a Dodger fan...it was very easy to Love him. Gene, You will always be a Rock Star to me! Thank you for your kind heart.

April 16, 2020

My condolences to the grieving family. I worked with Gene and miss his pleasant smile. More recently all the members SIR golf group will miss him dearly. Thanks Gene for the wonderful times we had..Gopal Nemana

Judith Shoemaker

April 15, 2020

Gene was an amazing Carmichael Kiwanian. His kind, gentle soul shone through every day. We miss you Gene. You are at peace.

Tracy

April 15, 2020

Whenever I saw Gene at SLC he always had a smile and a kind word. His beautiful light will be missed.

Lori Hanegan

April 15, 2020

Condolences to Gene's family. He was sucha wonderful man and I enjoyed working with him immensely. He leaves a beautiful legacy and his family can be very proud of the man he was.

Len & Kit Triboli

April 15, 2020

Len and Kit Triboli will miss Gene. What a shock. In reading of his life, he gave so much, but said little of himself.

Len Ohlendorf

April 15, 2020

I will miss Gene. He was such a kind gentleman. He volunteered in many ways with the Kiwanis Club of Carmichael. He enjoyed helping children.

Pam Logan

April 15, 2020

Spiritual Life Center has lost a beautiful soul. He was one of the most kind, generous, and loving man who contributed so much to our community and the world. I will miss him! Blessings to his family who he spoke of so often.

RJ Bullen

April 15, 2020

Completely shocked. Very kind to me through the years.

Cheryl Davies

April 15, 2020

As said above, one of the kindest, gentlest people I have ever known. His friendship was such a blessing. Thank you, Gene.

John and Patty Ellis

April 15, 2020

Patty and I were so saddened to hear of the passing of our good friend Gene Reames. We knew Gene for over 40 years as a friend, neighbor, basketball teammate, client, doctor, advisor and workout buddy. At the fitness center, he loved talking about sports (especially basketball) and would always ask what our children were doing and let us know what was happening with Jennifer, Heather, Eric and his grandchildrenhe was very proud of them all. For all that he accomplished, he was the kindest, most unassuming and selfless person I knewso easy to like and love. He was a real gentleman. I keep sighing when I think how much he will be missed. Our love to all of his family.

Ken Hurdle

April 15, 2020

What a wonderful man! I will truly miss him at the golf course and the golf classes. He is truly a man who made a difference in the world!

Sally Scion

April 15, 2020

I am saddened by the news of Gene's passing. I knew him from his participation at Spiritual Life Center. His humility, intelligence, kindness, and concern for others were admirable. He will be missed!

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