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SAMANTHA PANEK Obituary

Samantha Louise Panek 1990 ~ 2009 Our Gorgeous LouLou Our loving daughter, sister, granddaughter and great granddaughter, Samantha Panek, 18, passed away November 26, 2009. Born December 12, 1990 in West Jordan, Utah to Lara Mellenthin and Patrick T. Panek. Sami loved unconditionally and always put others needs above her own. Her ever-present smile and sparkling eyes would light up the room and warm hearts. She loved writing, poetry, art and drawing. Samantha is survived by her mother and father, Patrick and Lara; siblings; Justin Panek, Kelsey Ross, Caiden Ross, and Olivia Ann Smith; grandparents; Gene and Charlyn Panek, Valene Mellenthin, Mike and Debbie Mellenthin; great-grand parents Reed and Louise Erickson, honorary grandparents, Paul and Mary Christensen; aunts, uncles and cousins, and very special friend Von. Memorial Gathering will be held Tuesday December 1, 2009 6-8:00 p.m. at McDougal Funeral Home, 4330 South Redwood Road. Samantha's wishes were to donate herself for someone else's life. In lieu of flowers, hug or call a friend; make a child feel special.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Nov. 29, 2009.

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Olivia Smith

November 24, 2020

Hey its Olivia Sam's sister, its been a while sense she past but she will always be missed.

Tyler Panek

January 18, 2010

My little girl. How I will miss you so. You was my dauhter, my angel and my best freind. It will be tough not to see your smile and sparkling eye's everyday. I'll miss your laughter and the many time's you tried to make me feel good when i was down. I was not here to see you take your first breath as I was away on business but I will forever be honored that you was with me for your last. Things must happpen for a reason and god needed you know. After your passing we found you would have turned ill and it would have been a tough road. You left this place with no pain and no knowledge, for that I'm happy that you did not suffer. I will miss all of the plans we made together for the future. 2010 and beyond was suppose to be our time. You was taken way to early from me. I'm trying as hard as I can to understand why.Why now and why so young. The day will come when we will be together again and that time the world will be ours no pain no stress just our love and happiness. I miss you so bad lou lou and I hope you approved of how I handled your passing and your memorial. You touched so many people's lives. That was obviouse by the turn out to say good-bye. Please look in on your old man from time to time. I love you with all my heart and I will deeply miss you until we meet again.

Love you with all my heart, Dad

justin panek

December 29, 2009

I love you baby sister and life will never be the same without you. I will always miss you and you will remain in my heart forever. I wish we had more time but i know one day we will meet again. Love your brother Justin Panek

December 29, 2009

I love you baby sister and life will never be the same without you. I will always miss you and you will always remain in my heart. I wish we had more time together but i know one day we will be together again. Your brother Justin Panek

December 29, 2009

Our Dear Little Sam how much we loved and cared about you. And will always love and miss you very much. love uncle Mike and Aunt Teresa

December 29, 2009

Sammy Lou: I was there when you were born, and spent eighteen wonderful years watching you grow into such a beautiful young lady, Gramma and I will miss you so, but your beautiful little soul will remain in our hearts forever. Papa and Nana Mellenthin

December 29, 2009

My daughter, your brother birthday is today and he wished you were here, we all do, thank you for all you taught me my love, you said once we would always be a part ot each other. I love you for ever always, I will like you forever as long as i am living my baby you will be, my love always mom.

December 29, 2009

Today is your brothers birthday and he wished you were here,I learned more from you than I ever taught you, your unconditional love for me and mine for you.You said once that we would always be togather and we are,I get all the messages you are sending me, if you could leave the lights on or off but not on and off,baby I know you are with me now and forever in my heart and soul our love will go on forever and I will see you soon, Just not soon,I love forever I'll like you for always as long as I am living my baby you will be

December 29, 2009

To our beautiful granddaughter,

We will always cherish and forever remember your beautiful smile and heart warming laugh. We will always hold you in our hearts until the time comes that we can hold you in our arms again. We will always miss you, but we know that great grandma and grandpa will keep you safe, until we meet again.

Forever our Love,
Grandma and Grandpa Panek

December 14, 2009

MIKE TYLER AND FAMILY
So sorry for your loss what a beautiful young lady.Havent seen you all for a long time miss you. Your family was always such neat people god Bless
Pamela Quintana Martinez

Lisa Marie Potter

December 8, 2009

What a beautiful young woman. I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know you, but I also lost a beautiful child. Please know that you are not alone in this sea of grief, there are others who can understand your pain and may be able to help you navigate through it.

Dereck Moses

December 7, 2009

The World will not be the same with-out you Sam. You touched so many peoples lifes and each one is a better person from knowing you. You touched my life more than you could of ever known. I am so Thankful that your life and mine crossed paths and I was able to have you as a friend. I know you would want us all to grow from this tragedy and most of us will. I will be here for your Mom when she misses you most and needs a hug. May your soul rest in peace and we shall meet again on the other side. I will miss you dearly Sam. XOXOXO Dereck

December 6, 2009

Sammy, although we are family we are not all as close as we should be, but losing you is still felt deep with in my heart...
Lara, you were right in saying that we all need to come together as a family and start building the relationships we should have been sharing for all these past years. I love you.... my heart and prayers are with you.. and ANY TIME you want to get together or just talk please don't hesitate I will be here for you...
Danielle (Mellanie)

Troy Dowers

December 6, 2009

Our Condolences to the rest of the family. Sorry we do not live closer. Our prayers and thoughts are with all who knew and loved Samantha.
Troy, Robyn and Marissa Dowers

Casaundra Christensen

December 5, 2009

Samantha was a beautiful and posative person. She was always so caring and compasionate to the people around her, bringing light with her where ever she went. She will be truely missed but always remembered.

My condolences go to her family and friends dealing with her loss. We should find comfort knowing she is in a beautifully special place, watching over all of us.

Brad Christensen

December 5, 2009

Sammy,

Although we didn't have the same parents, your mom has always been one of my older sisters. You are my little sis. I relish the years growing up with you, laughing and playing at grandma mary's. I will miss the look you always gave me, just to get me to smile, how easy it was for you to make me laugh. You will always have a place with me. I miss you ever so dearly as I will always keep you memories with me. Thank you sam, it has been my honor to know you.

December 3, 2009

I love you so much Sam! I wish I could have said goodbye but I know you're happy now and I will never forget you.

To her family:
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you are all doing alright and please know that I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Love always,
Kirstie Jarrett

Liz Thompson

December 2, 2009

I know I've wrote in your guest book once before, but I caught myself wondering if you can see this.

I miss you a lot Sammy!

Looking back on our childhood and the memories we shared whether it was running throught the neighborhood with the endless amount of freedom we had, getting a sugar high from all that candy we got from your dad or hanging out at your grandma Valene's, we always had such a great time!

Falling out of contact is one thing but not having the chance to make more memories is another.

I wish neither would have happened but also hope you are so happy where you are now.

You were always such a beautiful person, inside and out and had such a fun sense of humor.

You were and still are loved by so many, I hope you know how wonderful you are.

You will always be in my heart.

Love,
Liz

Heidi C.

December 1, 2009

I send my prayers and condolances to Sams family. She was always such a wonderful, funny, beautiful girl with the most postive outlook on life. You'll be deeply missed Sam.

angela hill

December 1, 2009

samantha, im so glad we met & got to know eachother. your so cute & funny. i just adore youu. i'll miss you dearly. <3

Kourtney Spencer

December 1, 2009

hey Sam, i wish i would have got to know you more. you are such a cool girl and so much fun. You will always be remembered. Rest in Peace, Love kourtney

Christi Louderback

December 1, 2009

Lara, Mike, and Debs,
I am so sorry for your loss. Although you cannot see her, she will be with you always.

Whitney Ackerman

December 1, 2009

my dearest samantha we all will miss you!!! you were loved by SOOOOOO many people. i hope that where you are now is great and wonderful like you were and always will be!! MISS YOU MUCH!!!

December 1, 2009

Paul, Mary and Family, We are so sorry to hear about Samantha, We are thinking about you all at this time.

Brad, Lorrie, Amity, Casey

Kelsey Perkins

December 1, 2009

I'm so sorry LouLou <3

DeWayne Acord

December 1, 2009

Tyler and Lara,
I know my words will offer little help in your great loss, but in writing this I hope that time will be your friend. I know that the loss of your beautiful daughter will encourage others to look deeper towards the ones held dear.

Jamie Gibbens

December 1, 2009

Samantha, I miss you so very much. I hope that you are happy where you are now. You were loved by so many people; I hope you knew that.
Love you hun.

December 1, 2009

Shaunie,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family for this terrible loss. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Charlie

Kelly Shapiro

December 1, 2009

Words cannot express how saddened I was to hear of Samantha's passing. Unfortunately we only knew each other for the briefest of moments at family holiday gatherings. Regardless, her life touched mine and I am so grateful. Her smile, her sparkling eyes and her kindness will live forever in the hearts and memories of all who loved her. My deepest condolences to Ty, Lara, Uncle Gene, Aunt Charlyn, Wilf, Sandy, Grandpa Reed, Grandma Louise and all the rest of her family and friends.

With Love,

Kelly, Rich, Megan & Taylor Shapiro

December 1, 2009

Dear Charlynn and Gene, We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you. Love Neil and Nancy Mcguire

John and Ann Parrott

December 1, 2009

Tyler,
We are so sorry for your loss samantha was a beautiful girl our thoughts and prayers are with you.

John Stauffer

December 1, 2009

You will always be in our hearts, and our minds Sam! We will miss you always!

Perry Paris

November 30, 2009

I am very sorry for your loss, I was so upset when I seen this. Sam was my stepdaughter Jocelyn best friend when they were in Jr high school, she was so polite, I drove them where they were going and she was always welcome in my home. I know she will be missed so much and I wont ever forget her.

lina s

November 30, 2009

:( noooo u young lou. we will MISS U vey much

November 30, 2009

Rest in Peace Sam you will never be forgotten
And my deepest condolences goes out to you family, Khamie

andy

November 30, 2009

Lou Lou was such a beautiful giving honest soul! Even though I only knew her for about a month I was touched by her sweetness and Kindness. She will be missed! ;(

Shanae Rogers

November 30, 2009

Sorry to hear about the loss of Samantha she was a sweet girl of what I new of her!!! My prays are with the Panek family!!!

unknown

November 30, 2009

To sam's family-I am deeply sorry that life has dealt these horrible cards. But i believe that sam is in a safe happy place. There she has time to do the things she loves with no limit. She has truely touched an uncountable amount of lives. I celebrate her life like she would have wanted, Not a day will pass that i don't remember the heart she had, And that is a promise.

To all of sam's friends- New and old. It's times like these when we realize how precious our lives are. I think we should all take some time out of our lives to remember each and every single thing sam taught us. wether good or bad. I personally wouldn't be the same person with our her. she taught me that friends can be forever, and that nothing should break such a special bond. I wish we had satayed in touch because now all i have is her memories. I love her for exactly who she is. I don't think we should cry for her. We should cry for us. we are the ones who lost.

To sam- I love you. Please watch over us who are still here. I don't think you even know how much we all looked up to you. Our little group of friends have made it through the best of times. Man were we young and naive. But Naive as we were, We were always strong. Thankyou for everything.

Lynda Erickson

November 30, 2009

You don't know me, I'm Louis and Reed's nice. I'm sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.

Belma Mrkonja

November 30, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Samantha was an amazing girl. I'm going to miss her so much. Rest in peace Sam. <3 I'll never forget you.

Kelsey

November 30, 2009

Sam,
It took me until today to realize you were never coming home. I was always the annoying little sister who would sneak into your room, but when we got older we got closer and I regret the harsh words we said but know I cant ever take them back. I know understand that we have to love and care for everyone everyday like it could be our last.
Love Kel

Ronds McKean

November 30, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Kent A. Cameron

November 30, 2009

Gene and Charlyn –
We have not seen each other in a number of years, but I wanted you to know that I was deeply saddened to read of Samantha’s passing. I hope with time, the pain of losing someone so young and dear to you will lessen and that her loving memory will bring you joy during this time of sorrow.
With sincere sympathy an old friend,

November 30, 2009

I'm so so sorry for your loss I'll keep u in my prayers u dont know me but me and sam was pretty good friends Tasha

Brandi Paul

November 30, 2009

Rest in Peace Samantha. Sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Doug Ellis

November 30, 2009

So sorry for your loss .Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Doug Ellis & Melody McMillen

B Acord

November 30, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Samantha. The thoughts and prayers of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

November 30, 2009

Laura and Family,
So very sorry to hear about little Samantha, Our thoughts are with you all at this time.
Brad, Lorrie Hill

Candace Saunders

November 30, 2009

We did not know Samantha but are very good friends with Louise and Reed Erickson. Please accept our deepest sympathy and prayers for your family during this difficult time.
With love, the Nenow Family.

Jamie Jaynes

November 30, 2009

Tyler, Mike and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss, I cant imagine your pain, there is not much we could say to you except your in our thoughts and prayers we have deepest sympathy and love for you and your's.
Love
Curt and Jamie(slim) Jaynes

Molly Ostberg

November 30, 2009

Rest in peace Samantha may god be with your family.

Sonya Peay

November 30, 2009

I pray you may find peace in all the memories you share, strength from the deep love of family and calmness in knowing you have a special angel watching over to love and protect you always. My sincerest sympathy and love to your family, Sonya

Jessica Carlile

November 30, 2009

Charlyn & Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Jessica Carlile

Brittney Carlson

November 30, 2009

Sammy, My little cousin! I'm so sorry that my wedding was the last time I got to see you! I wished we could of been closer like we used to be when we were kids!! But I know your being taken well care of and in loving hands of our great-granpa and grandma Panek! I Love You! I just keep remembering all our fun times growing up! And its still hard to believe your gone.. but your in a better place!! You'll always be in my thoughts and my heart! Britt

November 30, 2009

We were fortunate to have had Sam's smile light up our world for awhile too, and just wanted to let you, her family, know she was very much loved and will be very much missed! Jerry and Deniene (Dakota's Mom and Dad)

Dixie Kellogg

November 30, 2009

Lara and famliy, I want to send you heartfelt thoughts and deepest sympathy. I'm going to miss seeing her beautiful smile and hearing of her dreams.

Danielle Wilson

November 30, 2009

Sam, there is so much I wanted to share and tell you. I am so thankful i got to meet you, live with you, laugh with you. Even though we were so different we connected right away. You were like a sister to me. We called each other sister. A lot of my favorite and best memories were with you. I'm going to miss you so much. You will always be in my heart.

Lara Mellenthin

November 30, 2009

I want to say thank you for the love that we see our Daughter's friends and anyone who ever met her had for her, she will forever be in our hearts and souls. I miss you my love and love you always and in all ways. Mom

November 30, 2009

I wish you strength to carry on and peace. (T.Evans)

Lara Mellenthin

November 29, 2009

I want to thank all of those who touched Samantha's life. As her Mother, I feel blessed to of had her. Please remember her by living your life to the fullest. Celebrate and don't mourn her life. Make the best out of every day. Thank you all for your thought's and prayers.
I love you Sam, you are forever in my heart and soul. Until we meet again...Mom

Chelsea Travis

November 29, 2009

I only knew Sam for a very short time, but from what I did know about her she was so nice and had such a free spirit! This is a true tragedy! Lara my condolences go out to you and your family! You know I will always be here for you if you need someone to talk to.

Liz Thompson

November 29, 2009

Samantha was a childhood friend of mine, and although I haven't talked to her for sometime, I was still very crushed to hear of her passing. Every year she never forgot to leave a valentines day card in my mailbox and she could always make you laugh.
I am so sorry for your loss, she will be missed!

Love, Liz

Crystal Lavallee

November 29, 2009

Samantha, you were always there for me through thick and thin and for that i thank you. you made my life bright and beautiful. may you rest in peace for all eternity.

Lynn Homer

November 29, 2009

Mike
am so sorry for your loss. Know that she will always exist in your heart and mind. Remember the wonderful times you shared and her smile that melted hearts. Im always here for you. Love you bud.
Your friend for life Lynn

Andrew McCullough

November 29, 2009

Lara and family -- so very sorry to hear of this young and vibrant life ended so soon. My deepest sympathy.

November 29, 2009

Sam, Your at peace with the Angels, at home with your ancestors and alive in our hearts.
Uncle Chaz

Shaunie & David Larsen

November 29, 2009

There are no words that could ever fully express the pain in losing a child. Our hearts are breaking for our sweet Lara. We love you and your sweet children.

Geraldean (Erickson) Sweat

November 29, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

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