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Shane Anthony Garcia, born May 4, 1995, passed away September 6, 2009 at the age of 14. He was an avid gamer and loved reading books. A freshman at O'Connor High School. He is survived by his mother, Shannon F. Trejo and stepfather, Gabriel A. Trejo; father, Ray Anthony Garcia and stepmother, Jeanette Garcia; siblings, Sky Trejo, Arrissa Rae Garcia, Gabrielle Trejo; paternal grandparents, Aurora and David Garcia; maternal grandparents, Marylou and M.P. Garza, Frank and Vicky Cortinas. Also, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends and numerous pets. Visitation will be held at Castle Ridge Mortuary on Thursday, September 10, 2009, 4:00 pm-9:00 pm with the Rosary to be recited at 7:00 pm. Funeral Service will be Friday, September 11, 2009 at 10:00 am at St. Anthony Claret followed by interment at Resurrection Cemetery at Cordi-Marian. Services under the direction of:


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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Sep. 9, 2009.

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Sean Guthrie

June 17, 2024

I just got back into card games and I just remember all the times we played yugioh. I miss you man.

John Ray

September 23, 2019

I miss you so much. Every September, I am taken back and the hurt opens anew. It is in these times that thinking of you, even though it hurts so, I feel so close to you. I hear your laughing voice: "Oh Uncle John." then you'd laugh outright. There is not a single thing I do not miss about you and I cannot wait to be reunited with you. I love you so much Shane Anthony.

August 6, 2010

Hello my babyboy, Mommy just wanted to say I miss you and that you are in my thoughts every minute of the day. I love you son each and everyday forever. Mommy

RaeRae Trejo

June 19, 2010

I love you shaney and i hope to see you in the future i love you brother!!! Shannon i am so sorry for what your going through i know you loved him so much he is always around though...right now him and uncle tim are probably playing basketball or fishing and i hope they catch a big one like daddy says!

May 19, 2010

Shane, Happy 15th birthday.

Your birthday was 05/04, but I couldn't find myself telling you happy birthday online. It just hurts too much.
I remember it just like yesterday the day I first held you in my arms. I was so overwhelmed with love for you. I could not stop looking at you and kissing you. I carried you in my arms all the time. I miss you my babyboy. Dance with the angels.
Love Always, Mommy

Irene

March 31, 2010

Shannon: My heart goes out to you for I too have known the loss of a child. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and guide you through this difficult part of your journey. We have truly been blessed to have had these special children in our lives for the time that we did.
"Blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God." Matthew 5:7-8

Nana

March 25, 2010

This candle is to remind you that you always light up my life when I think of you. Love you always.

Patsy Mata

March 24, 2010

Hi Shaner, Have you been busy playing baseball and all sorts of sports with Tim up there? You went home two days before Tim's anniversary so I know he was there to welcome you into the Kingdom of God. As a matter of fact Eric and I planted a Magnolia tree in the front of the house in memory of you and Tim. It comforts our hearts to watch it grow, for in reality we're watching as you grow in spirit with our Lord. By the way give Tim a BIG HUG from me okay. Love You! Shane.. You live forever in our hearts

Maria/Richard Aunt/Uncle

March 24, 2010

Our Dearest Shaney,

Our sweet, intelligent, baby boy. Although you were not in this world very long, you were loved my so many people that came in contact with you. You touched them with your brilliance, humor and beautiful disposition. You left a lasting impression that few of us could ever accomplish in our lifetime. You will always be in our hearts forever.

LOTS OF HUGS & KISSES. LUV AUNT MARIA & UNCLE RICHARD

March 24, 2010

My baby boy, Mommy thinks about you everyday. I miss talking and spending time with you. I miss the personal contact I had with you. Mommy still has your room exactly the way you left it. I DO NOT allow anyone in room. I know now you can dance and play basketball and do a lot of things you were unable to perform physically. There are times I still call out your name so you can come see something on TV. Mommy miss you poppy. The day you left you took a piece of me with you. Love Always & Forever, Mommy

RaeRae Trejo

January 26, 2010

Hey shane i know i didnt see you much and i wish i had a chance to say goodbye but someday we will be together up there in the skyy!!!Im so sorry shannon,daddy,ray,and vicky for your loss i know how much shaney meant to us and we will always keep him right here with us and our hearts!!!
LOVE YOU VERY MUCH SHANEY!
RAERAE...

Cheryl Callaway

October 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family my dear friend Shannon. I am so sorry for your loss.

Coach Hovda

September 18, 2009

Shane's Family,
Shane was a very special boy. I had Shane in p.e. classes and he would always work so hard. He had a beautiful smile that I will never forget. My thoughts and prayers are with all.
Glenoaks Elementary

VERONICA GARZA-OTANI

September 15, 2009

SO SORRY, FOR YOUR LOSS SHANNON, AS A MOTHER I CANNOT IMAGEN THE PAIN YOU ARE EXPERIENCING.MY PRAYERS ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU.

Avery, Rae Rae, Sky & Shane spending time together

September 15, 2009

Shannon Trejo

September 14, 2009

Poppy,
It's mommy. I remember the first time I held you in my arms, I felt this overwhelming love that I had never felt before. It feels like just yesterday when I was potty training you and teaching you how to brush your teeth. I still can't believe you are gone, but you will live forever in me. I miss you so much. I love you baby boy all the way to the rainbow. Words cannot express the pain that I am experiencing.
Love always & forever, Mommy

John Sawyer

September 14, 2009

Vicky Cortinas, Shane's Grandmother, is one of our employess here at the Harris County Department of Education. While most of us did not have the good fortune to know Shane personally, we do know his Grandmother, and truly grieve for this tragic loss.

HCDE mourns.

Dr. Richard Green

September 12, 2009

Shannon and Gabriel,
I just heard of your loss. May the love of your friends and family carry you through your grief. The board of Directors and staff send you and your family their condolences. You are in our prayers.

Dr. James Thomas

September 12, 2009

Shannon and Gabriel Trejo,
Please accept our Condolences, the loss of a child is not easy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Gabby Frias

September 12, 2009

Ray & Jeanette
Please accept my Deepest Sympathies to you and your Family.

Ruben & Felicia Aguirre

September 12, 2009

Ray & Jeanette
Please accept my condolences and know that you are in my prayers and thoughts.

Rudy Valdez

September 12, 2009

Ray & Jeanette
No bond is as great as that between a parent and a child.My deepest sympathy are with you and your family as you grieve.

Linda Martinez

September 12, 2009

Ray & Jeanette
The lost of someone so close and special to you is unbearable...We share your grief.

Shane at Special Olympics Track and Field Event

September 12, 2009

Oscar & Jackie Aguirre

September 12, 2009

Ray & Jeanette
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you confort...God Bless You

Liz Martinez

September 12, 2009

Ray & Jeanette
We have alot of good memories with shane at barbeques at your house and parks.He was always a very happy young boy never had anything to complain about.He was such a good and respectful young boy and always in a good mood.He never had a bad bone in his body...Now he's in heaven watching over you and your family...He will always be in my prayers and thoughts...God bless you

Liz Martinez

September 12, 2009

Ray & Jeanette
Take confort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you and your family. God Bless You

Sara Scott-Rodriguez

September 12, 2009

Please accept my condolences and know that you are in my prayers.


To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009


St. John Bosco Alumni '78

September 12, 2009

To our beloved son Shane Anthony Garcia. You will be missed dearly but we are aware you are in a better place. We know that you are doing all the things that you weren't able to do here on earth. Sad to know that we are not able to do together at the moment but someday we will be together again.

Love Daddy. Jeanette and sister Arissa
xoxo

MOM

September 12, 2009

Shannon my darling, ever since Shane was born you loved him so very much. I saw you go through the pain and heartbreak with his diagnosis. You struggled and you fought to get him what he needed to make him comfortable. You defended him and protected him from anyone hurting him. You attended meeting after meeting, and you were sensitive to those that did not know. You made sure everyone treated him with respect. For most of his life you took him to doctor visits, therapy sessions, exercise classes, examinations, trips to doctors out of the city. You always made sure he was looking nice and smelling good. He loved you very much. You held him told him how much you loved him every single day. Thats why my darling "YOU ARE MY HERO". I love you sweetheart.

September 11, 2009

Our deepest condolences to the Garcia and Trejo family.


Mark and Samantha Rubalcava and Family

Shaney and Avery, his best friend ever.

ML (Nana) Garza

September 11, 2009

My darling Shaney,

When GOD saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So, he wrapped his arms around you, and whispered "come to me". So he gave you rest. He only takes the best. When when I saw you sleeping so peacefully and free, I could not wish you back to suffer that again.

I love you very much my dear Shaney, you will be missed.

September 10, 2009

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ON THE LOSS OF SHANE YOUR VERY SPECIAL SON AND GRANDSON. MARYLOU, WE WILL NEVER FORGET HOW HAPPY SHANE MADE YOU WHENEVER YOU TALKED ABOUT HIM. GOD HAS TAKEN A NEW ANGEL AND SHANE WILL SOON BE WATCHING OVER YOU. WE LOVE YOU. MARTHA MENDIOLA, VERONICA RAMIREZ AND GEORGE HINOJOSA.

Author Unknown

September 10, 2009

GOD ONLY TAKES THE BEST

God saw you were getting tired
And it was not meant to be,
So he put his arms around you
And whispered,''come to me''.
With tearful eyes we watched you
And saw you pass away,
Although we loved you dearly
We could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating
Hard working hands at rest
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best

Cynthia Carnes

September 10, 2009

To Shane's Family,
I had the pleasure of working last year with Shane at Stevenson. Rachel, Shane, Clara and I would head to Reddix every other Thursday and have so much fun together. I will always have fond memories of Shane being a sweet polite boy always reading and smiling. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

September 10, 2009

Dearest Garcia and Trejo families, our deepest sympathy to all of you. I did not know Shane well at all, really only was around him a couple of times...but my husband always spoke of him with great joy and love. He spoke many times on what a cute and precious boy he was. My husband was absolutely enthralled by Shane. Take care and much love to all of you.

Pat Gonzaba and daughters Julianna and Michelle

September 10, 2009

We would like to extend our deepest condolences to the Garcia and Trejo families. Shane is with the Lord now and he will be watching over those that once watched over him. He is at peace as we all will be one day.

May the good Lord keep him close by his side.

Yvonne, Mike and Kirstin

Laurie Hoffman

September 10, 2009

To all who were lucky enough to be a part of Shane's life, there will be an emptiness in our hearts. Working with him in aquatics was a treat for all as he was also positive and smiling. Special Olympics has lost a champion power wheelchair athlete. We are all better people because Shane was in our lives. May he be at peace.

Paul Zuniga(Adapted Aquatics)

September 10, 2009

It was a honor to have Shane as a student in Adapted Aquatics. Your son was a special boy always smiling and alway's asking for a hug, he would lift me up when I was down.Shane thanks for the memories you will never be forgotten. God Bless you and your family

Kim Luksa

September 10, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I had the pleasure of working with Shane in the aquatic program. He always had a wonderful attitude and a great smile. I will always treasure the time that I spent with him in the pool. Take care and God Bless you.

September 10, 2009

SHANNON,OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME.THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR SHANE WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO HELP YOU THROUGH THIS HEARTACHE.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.FROM ALL OF US @ SOUTH TX NEUROLOGY TERI,MARIA, DR.SHELDON GROSS.

Daniel Villarreal (CASE)

September 10, 2009

Hey Vicky, I'm sorry about Shane. You and your family are in my thoughts. I hope you guys are doing ok.

Elizabeth Hebert

September 10, 2009

To Shane's Family,
Shane was a dear friend to my daughter Rachel. They went to Nellie Reddix together for Aquatics. They would encourage and tease eachother during their sessions together. They both loved to read and play games and their sense of humor was wonderful. Rachel and I are very sorry for your loss. Shane was a wonderful boy we will always hold him special in our hearts. I hope you take comfort in knowing he is no longer a prisoner of his body but is now running thru the gardens of our Lord and watching down over us. May God bless you and may you find strength in him. Be free Shane you precious boy...

Patty Menard

September 10, 2009

To the Garcia family: (I work with Vicky at Harris County Department of Education.) I'd like to tell you and your family that we are very sorry to hear of the loss of such a young man. Please remember that there are so many things surrounding you that will help you remember Shane and hopefully bring joy to your heart. This is a hard time for you. God will help heal you and your family through tears of sadness and joy as we all await our day to rejoin those we love.

Linda Rodriguez

September 10, 2009

Psalm 71:20-21
Though you have made me see troubles, many and bitter, you will restore my life again; from the depths of the earth you will again bring me up. You will increase my honor and comfort me once again.

From Linda Rodriguez at HCDE-Head Start (3rd Floor)

Shane & his BFF Avery playing video games

September 9, 2009

Jordan l. Castillo

September 9, 2009

"I wish we could've spent more time together. And that is the saddest part now we never will. I hope you are happy now." Love

RUBEN GUTIERREZ

September 9, 2009

OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO SHANNON AND HER FAMILY FOR THEIR GREAT LOSS.FROM UNCLE RUBEN AND AUNT MARY .WE LOVEYOU SO MUCH.GOD BLESS

mary gutierrez

September 9, 2009

OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO SHANNON AND HER FAMILY FOR THEIR GREAT LOSS.FROM UNCLE RUBEN AND AUNT MARY .WE LOVEYOU SO MUCH.

September 9, 2009

OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO SHANNON AND HER FAMILY FOR THEIR GREAT LOSS.FROM UNCLE RUBEN AND AUNT MARY .WE LOVEYOU SO MUCH.

MARY GUTIERREZ

September 9, 2009

OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO SHANNON AND HER FAMILY FOR THEIR GREAT LOSS.FROM UNCLE RUBEN AND AUNT MARY .WE LOVEYOU SO MUCH.

Guadalupe Reyes

September 9, 2009

My dearest Shannon & Family:
My deepest sympathy is sent to you and your family. God blessed you with a beautiful son who gave you love,joy & tears. May God grant you comfort in your heart and in your home during this time of sorrow. You and your family are in my prayers. I know we have not seen or spoken in years I remember you fondly and of our time at North San Pedro. Take care and May God Bless You Now and Always.

Love Lupe Reyes

Mary Gutierrez

September 9, 2009

Shannon, we love you and are so very sorry for your loss. Your baby shanie is smiling down on you. He's with the Lord now healthy and running in the street of gold in his heavenly home that the Lord has prepared for us. God's promise to you is that you will see your Shanie again. Keep the faith, the Lord will see you thru. Love you Uncle Ruben and Aunt Mary.

Gabrielle Rae Trejo

September 9, 2009

Shane has always been so close to me it hurts me now that he's gone. Although I will miss him he is now in a better place with the Lord. God has blessed not only me but my whole family with him. We all got to see his smile. He always enjoyed playing video games with me and our little sister Sky. God bless you Shaney.... I love you very much!

Hector Oranday

September 9, 2009

To the Garcia and Trejo family:
My sincere condolences for the loss of your special little angel. There was never a day he didn't have a joke to share with me during our days at Stevenson. He was a joy and a pleasure to work with I will miss him dearly.

Liz Barrera @ Alamo Barter Corp.

September 9, 2009

M.P. Garza,& beloved families & friends of Shane, May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many from your Alamo Barter friends are with you at this time of sorrow. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Liz Barrera & Alamo Barter Corporation.

Lydia Torres

September 9, 2009

Shannon, I am sorry to hear of your loss my love and prayers are with you and your family.

The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.

Herman & Lani

September 9, 2009

Our deepest condolences to the Garcia & Trejo family.... We will keep you all in our prayers. GOD BLESS

Jay-R Cortinas

September 9, 2009

Our Shane was a loving soul and will stay in our hearts forever. Shane in his little time on this earth managed to touch the hearts of so many. His innocences was only out weighed by his love. Shane we love you and you will be missed very much.
The Cortinas Family-- Grandpa Frank, Mama Vicky, Uncle Jay and Uncle Lucky

Nicole Araujo

September 9, 2009

Shannon, i'm so sorry to hear of your loss, i will keep you all in my prayers , stay strong and know he's in a better place. Love Nicole Araujo and Family

September 9, 2009

Shannon:

I can't imagine how painful this is for you and your famly. I am so sorry for your loss and John and I will keep you all in our prayers.

Love,

Trish and John Christman (aunt trish)

Aunt Stacey

September 9, 2009

Shanie, I'll never forget the day you were born. I could hear your sweet little cry and it melted my heart, from that moment on I knew you were an angel sent to us. Through the years I watched you grow up to be an intelligent, handsome, wonderful young man. Your bright smile would light the whole room and your heart was gentle. You will always be my sweet angel. I'm gonna miss you so much Shanie, rest in peace my baby and walk with the Lord. I love you Papa.

James, Evelyn, Ian and Sean Ivy

September 9, 2009

To the Garcia and Trejo families, our deepest sympathies are with you during this time of sorrow. May God heal your hearts with His and Shane's love, for both are eternally yours. God bless.

Annette Gutierrez

September 9, 2009

To the Garia family and Trejo family... My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and your families. Shane was a great kid that I have had the pleasure of knowing since early childhood years. Full of life, he will always be remembered!

Rosemary Mata-Sonora

September 9, 2009

We were very sad to hear of Shane's passing. He was a very special boy who will be missed, but not forgotten.

Janet Taylor

September 9, 2009

So sorry for your loss. From the Special Education Dept. Jefferson MS.

Randy & Susan Booth

September 9, 2009

Shanna & Family,
Thinking of you, Wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in midst of pain.

With Heartfelt Sympathy,

Nana

September 9, 2009

My darling Shaney, you will be missed so very much. You are an angel sent to us from heaven. You are free now and you can run and play as it was meant to be.

Michelle Vasquez

September 9, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

JO ANN MENDEZ

September 9, 2009

Our deepest condolences to Shane's entire family. Our prayers are with you as you all as you deal with your loss. On the few occassions I had the pleasure of speaking with and being around Shane, he was funny and cute!! Our son Romeo always played video games with Shane. Peace be with you all during this difficult time.
The Mendez Family--Anthony, Jo Ann, CJ, and Romeo.

Patsy Mata

September 9, 2009

The love a parent has for their child is the greatest and most unconditional there is. My deepest condolences as you grieve for your loved one but may you find comfort knowing he is doing all things in heaven he couldn't do here on earth. I can see him running, jumping, playing and laughing so hard until it hurts. There is unbearable pain in your heart now but those beautiful forever memories will soon replace the pain and the sorrow. Thank you for sharing Shane with our family his great big loving smile was always an inspiration to us all. To the Trejo family, "I love you" stay close stay strong! God Bless You! and Peace Always!

Tina Inclan

September 9, 2009

Shane has brightened my days over the years with his smile.Thank you for letting me be a part of Shane's life.

Felix D. Castillo

September 9, 2009

My deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family. I wish you and your family peace as you deal with your loss.

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