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Joseph Paul DePonte

1933 - 2019

Joseph Paul DePonte obituary, 1933-2019, San Antonio, TX

BORN

1933

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Porter Loring Mortuary North

2102 N. Loop 1604 E.

San Antonio, Texas

Joseph DePonte Obituary

COL Joseph Paul DePonte, US Army (Ret.), passed away peacefully at his home on December 4, 2019 at the age of 86. He will be remembered as a devoted husband, father, soldier, boss, and friend. Joseph ("Joe") was born on November 17, 1933, and grew up in Lowell, MA, where he met his wife and lifetime love, Jackie Bergeron, in the fourth grade. They married in 1953 and she soldiered with him through eight moves in 30 years. She was his strength, his love and his financial wizard throughout their 66 years of marriage. Joe attended Boston University after which he was commissioned as Second Lieutenant in the U.S. Army. While on active duty, he also earned a Masters in Health Administration from Webster University. His first military assignment was at the Military Training Center in San Antonio, Texas, followed by Wurzburg, Germany where he commanded the 549th Ambulance Company. Joe returned to San Antonio for further training in the Health Services Command. Next, he was stationed at the Army Recruiting Center in Kansas City where he successfully enlisted medical personnel followed by appointments at the Disability Agency in Fairfax County, Virginia, Valley Forge General Hospital in Pennsylvania, and William Beaumont Army Medical Center in El Paso, Texas. His last military assignment was at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio where he served as Chief of Personnel at Health Services Command. In all, COL DePonte served his country for 30 years, including assignments in Pusan, Korea, and Saigon, Vietnam, as an advisor. After his retirement he launched his second career where he led the Human Resources Department for the Sisters of Charity Healthcare System at St. John's Hospital in Nassau Bay, Texas. After commuting for three years, he returned to Wilford Hall in San Antonio to serve as Program Director of the Henry M. Jackson Foundation, which accelerated progress in military medicine and research. COL DePonte's military awards included the Legion of Merit, Bronze Star Medal, Meritorious Service Medal (1st Oak Leaf Cluster), and many other awards for meritorious service, including several from his tour in Vietnam. Joe enjoyed serving as a mentor to students in Northeast Independent School District in San Antonio, volunteering at Brook Army Medical Center, woodworking, creating metal and wood sculptures, and domestic and international travel. He is survived by his wife, Jackie, five children – Kathleen DePonte, Donna Spencer, Sharon Dearman, Brian DePonte and Michael DePonte, 13 grandchildren, and four great grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Center for the Intrepid at Brooke Army Medical Center, 3551 Roger Brooke Drive, JBSA, Ft Sam Houston, TX 78234 (Payable to: US Treasury; On memo line: To be used for CFI) or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. The family will receive friends from 6:00 to 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, December 17, 2019 at Porter Loring Mortuary North.

ROSARY

TUESDAY,

DECEMBER 17, 2019

7:00 P.M.

PORTER LORING NORTH

MASS

WEDNESDAY,

DECEMBER 18, 2019

11:45 A.M.

ST. MARK THE EVANGELIST CATHOLIC CHURCH

1602 THOUSAND OAKS

Interment with Full Military Honors will follow in Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery.

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Published by Express-News on Dec. 15, 2019.

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Jim and Pat Van Straten

December 17, 2019

Sincere condolences to Jackie and the entire DePonte family. Joe was a beloved friend. A good Christian man devoted to his family and his God. May he rest in peace and may perpetual light shine upon him.

Robert Aakhus

December 16, 2019

I had the pleasure of working for you during your tenure at the HMJF. Thank you. My sympathies to your family and friends at this difficult time.

Eunice Reardon

December 16, 2019

You were the best boss I ever had and the best friend. Be my guardian angel.

Deacon Larry Brisiel, St. Mark the Evangelist Catholic Church

December 15, 2019

On behalf of St. Mark the Evangelist Catholic Church, we express our deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Joe during this difficult time. It is our prayer that he will rest in peace and experience the eternal glory of God's Kingdom.

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17

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Porter Loring Mortuary North

2102 N. Loop 1604 E., San Antonio, TX 78232

Dec

17

Rosary

7:00 p.m.

Porter Loring Mortuary North

2102 N. Loop 1604 E., San Antonio, TX 78232

Dec

18

Funeral Mass

11:45 a.m.

St. Mark The Evangelist Catholic Church

1602 Thousand Oaks, San Antonio, TX

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2102 N. Loop 1604 E., San Antonio, TX 78232

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