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Donald Roy Davis May 6, 1926 - April 23, 2019 Carlsbad Donald Roy Davis, 92, Naval Officer, Army Chaplain, Counselor and Mentor, passed away April 23, in Carlsbad, California. Born on May 6, 1926, Don grew up in Toronto, Ohio with six siblings, all of whom predeceased him. Don was accepted into the Navy's V-12 program, earning a civil engineering degree in three years from the University of South Carolina. He was commissioned as a Naval Officer and assigned to the carrier USS Shangri-La, in the South Pacific, immediately following the end of the Pacific War. After 4 years in the Navy, Don pursued a long-held goal of entering the ministry by attending Nazarene Theological Seminary and San Francisco Theological Seminary. Don entered ministry as a pastor in Washington State. After 12 years, Don joined the Army as a Chaplain, and served his nation in various locations, including San Francisco, Vietnam (twice), Germany, Brooklyn, New Jersey and the Bikini Atoll. One of Don's significant life accomplishments was development of a counseling curriculum for the US Army while an instructor at the US Army Chaplain School, introducing the Army Chaplain corps to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, thus influencing a generation of Army counselors. He was awarded the Bronze Star with oak leaf cluster, and the Legion of Merit. He retired from the Army in 1982 with the rank of Lieutenant Colonel.Don was an avid runner and enjoyed running in the New York City Marathon and others. He also was a great football fan, and met the love of his life, Alice (Ernick), at a University of Washington football game. After retiring from the Army, Don pursued a career in counseling, allowing him to continue his ministry to people, helping others successfully cope with the demands of life. There is no small number of people who credit Don with helping them turn their life around.Don is survived by his wife, Alice, his son John (Pat), grand-daughters Sharon Ramirez, Julianne Demery (Rian) and Katharine Evarts (Jeremy), as well as great grandchildren John Demery, David Ramirez, and Ellie, Gideon, Josie and Zeke Evarts.In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the First Presbyterian Church, Oceanside (Meals With a Message ministry).

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on May 12, 2019.

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Lou Hartman

June 12, 2025

Great guy who influenced my life-lived out all his positive values

Denise Bernatis

January 16, 2021

Chaplain Davis was such a wonderful man. We met Donal when he was stationed in Bayonne New Jersey. He was so caring and understanding and helped us through a lot of difficulties. He was loved by everyone. So sad to see he is gone. He made such a difference in our lives. My sincere sympathies to his family.

CAROL BENNETT

August 23, 2020

I am late with this message as I was unaware of Don's passing. We had been such good friends in the U.S. Army, he and my husband, Wallace Bennett served together at the Presidio in San Francisco, and they also had time together in VietNam. We spent a wonderful vacation week together in Staten Island NY. Unfortunately, we haven't been very reliable with letter writing and now that both Wally and Don have gone on, I just want to say to Alice how much I have missed your presence in our (my) lives. We love you both and I don't know an address to write you. We had such busy lives. Wallace had always wanted to have Don officiate at his funeral and when it happened in November, 2014, Don was unable to travel as we lived far away in Texas. So I will just add that I hope you are well and send my love and condolences now. (I googled Don's name and found this obit.)

Ruth Bell

July 22, 2020

My parents, Bob and Anne Bell, and their four children lived across the hall from Don and Alice at Ft. Hamilton. A great couple

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